Peacesells wrote:
You need to understand that maybe for the OP the word mediocre is not so derogaroy, especially since their bodies are mediocre. I wouldn't mind my gf telling me I have a mediocre body because it is true.
Also being blunt is consistent with AS traits I think.
And no the fact that he thinks that of the body doesn't mean that he thinks that of the whole person. He explained that he likes other traits.
But if you want to keep viewing the OP as a bad guy, I don't think there's any point at continuing the conversation.
but to most people it is. thats like saying that maybe to person a nazi isn't derogarory or the N word isn't derogaroy to person a. but if person A goes around saying eithe then people will be hurt and offended and inthe case of tha tlatter he'll likely get attacked if done around certian people
look how its used with shows/movies. a mediocre show is bad, average show is just ok.
well thats good for you, bu tmost people would be hurt if their gf/bf said that. I'm not viewing the op as a bad guy.
us:thats a bad word to use.
op: oh my bad
why are you defending his bad word use. people make mistakes. you can defend the person but not the mistake.
again most people don't like having their body insulted. the body is the person. you can't leave your body and go into anopther. you act like you're talking about an object.
"And no the fact that he thinks that of the car doesn't mean that he thinks that of the whole person. He explained that he likes other traits."
but see car or whatever insert in its place is a object. your body is you it is a part of your being it is not an object. but by saying it is , is that not objectifying peoples body in a negative way. go tell random women their body is mediocre and see how that goes over.
24 Jul 2015, 9:33 am
