Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys?

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You're wrong, katy does that all the time.

She is either tarantella, or an exact clone persona...scary lol.




Maybe.... I am in love with her?

That's exactly what I said - katy does that all the time, while tarantella was capable of expressing valid thoughts in an articulate manner in many of her posts




Joking aside, it would take either another raving lunatic or a very refined masochist to fall in love with this one!

Ah ok, I misread you.

Love makes us blind, you know.

I do agree that a decent quant would come up with a more realistic number than that.

Boyfriend's a quant, not moi.

At first I thought you meant c**t before I google word and learn that it means quantative analyst.

Who gives a f**k about katy.


She's outta here, and that's how it turns out!

A date? What's that?

The only dates I've ever had are the dried fruit variety.

Oh but in the USA they do care. The list it as requirements on their profiles and dating ads. The ones who don't always ask in in the first few messages. I don't understand it myself I see lots of women riding on the bus and lots working similar paid jobs as me. But they all think they'll entitled to some super handsome, well paid, guy who drives a bmw. Regardless if they'll fat, jobless, and take the bus or not. So there goes the they just want the same thing they give idea.

1. It's apparently not ok to hit on or talk to women at their work, or out and about.
2. I don't go to bars nor want to dat the type of woman who idea of fun is getting wasted.
3. They'll ask eventually once start talking, most people's first question after hi is what do you do for a living. You know because work is who a person is, their likes/dislikes, hobbies, personality etc mean nothing. You a cop or a doctor or a janitor. But most people work jobs they hate just to pay bills. Their job doesn't define who they are.
4. Way too shy to ask girls out. I don't know if they have a bf, I don't know what things they like so I can start conversations about it, I can't read their cues to know if their interested or jus wishing I'd bugger off. If mistaken quite a few super friends and touch girls as being interested when they'd rather die then date me.


But hey I get to buy more guns and video games right , apparently girls wouldn't let me do that if I was dating. >.>

I feel this is the one that can screw me up big time. ^^
What to say? "I'm unemployed, out of education and just sit at home all day"?
TBH this question is unpleasant, no matter who's asking.

I've never had a date before in my life [both the food and the romantic variant].

I hope you get a date soon.

With a nice person who doesn't mind it if you guys "take it slow."

Oh, thank you! That's so nice! I might be going to University next year, so who knows? Maybe I'll find someone there.

I think you'll do okay.

Just make sure you tell your date, should he/she want to engage in making out, that you want to "take it slow." Be firm, but nice about it. But you have to be firm.

Actually, anyone can go on a date. It seems more like it's rude to say otherwise. Nothing in life is easy until you put in the work and get good at it. No one was born being able to walk. Even that was extremely hard for all of us when we were babies. Learning to walk is a huge milestone in most people's lives. But for those of us that do walk, most would agree that it's easy (obviously some people have difficulties and need wheelchairs, but they can still get from point a to b)

And in terms of the percentage being close to zero, i think it's not as close as you think. And even if it is very close to zero, that just means you need to be doing more work to get a date. And the more experience you have asking people out, the more confidence you'll have and the more likely people are going to agree to do it.

Girls in their 20s and 30s are statistically more likely then guys of the same age to be in relationships.

The second graph shows the number of men and woman with and without autism who are in relationships. You can view it here. http://www.rdos.net/eng/relation.pdf. Scroll down to the second.


Why is this the case?

Well if you're a young woman, you have more prospects to choose from. An example of this is that a girl on Tinder has WAY more matches then her guy counterparts. A woman on Tinder can realistically expect to get 20+ matches in a day or two.

Women also tend to be more picky in who they choose to date. A man may consider anywhere from 40-75% of women he meets within his desired age to be dateable/f***able. While women only consider anywhere from 10-25% of men they meet to be dateable/f***able. That's a big difference! This means the bottom 10-15% of men arne't getting into relationships.

Finally, men are the ones that usually do the chasing and pursuing. They're the ones that have to get her number, ask her out on a date, and impress her. All while some other guys are trying to do the same thing. Women on the other hand can be passive and still have men trying to chase her.


So yes, men in their 20s have it WAY harder getting a date then women of the same age. Anybody who says otherwise honestly has no idea what the f**k they're talking about.