WHYYYYYYY!! !! !!.........

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the title say why, and
I know why!! !
because you waited for 3 years!
But probably there is a solution: you show your feelings to her, dramatically!! !
You can even write something, or show her this thread, although better to talk to her at the heat of tour emotions!
Go on, do that or you will dive at sadness.

thanks for the advice, but i already showed her interest two years ago and she just batted me off a bit, she is happy, and why wouold i want to ruin her happiness?

ive had to accept her and me aint ever gonna happen, and possibly me and ANY women aint never gonna happen.

it makes me feel like Cack, but you cannot fault Empirical Evidence...

I don't really understand about this, that I think should be asked to a girl, even though:
I think women love guys like you that stay for so long waiting for one girl.
By the other hand, and the amount of time, this girl believes you will be eternaly around her...
Things are strange, but I think that when you caught another girl she will wake up for you, anyway you will probably glue the other girl...
but, in fact, I don't understand about this, although knowing that you will be raised to heavens when you catch a girl.

AFtL: PLEASE USE CORRECT GRAMMATICAL USAGE! I am an writing lit major. you're wordage with aint and never just gave me a headache!

and never say never. trust me. miracles happen.

Gamester's got a point. Ain't has an apostrophe.

sorry guys, i was up for about 49 hours at that point... ive not slept since then.

i've just gone over my grammer and shuddered, LOL

CAL!! !! !! !! !!

i reached a decision earlier today (well a few hours ago), i had a talk with God, and i decided to give this area of my life to him.

despite being mortally afraid, i told him he can have it, and do what he likes with it, i said i know he knows what i want, but that i have decided to let what he wants to happen. that if he wants me to be single for the rest of my life, so be it, and if he wants me to be with someone, no matter who, then i will do that as well.

i have let go of the desire and given it to God, i still have the want of course, but i have decided to not dwell on it and concentrate on other things...

Bravo! AfTL that is really mature of you. I'll tell you this though. My mentor for confirmation did the same thing when he was in college( don't know if you're in college.....) and it worked well for him, he let go and God worked worked in his life very well, and he ended up married later on in life, he's still married to this day, because of dedicating that part of his life to God.

Well im 24, but im at college now and going to University (confusing as we call College University over here in England, our college is like after high school but before College as you see it)

what do you mean by confirmation?

i hope it works out too, i cant get rid of the desire and emotive feelings, but i can CHOOSE to concentrate on other things and not dwell on it, i have asked God for the strength to go through with this. im sure he understands, and probably better than i do how hard it may be... but i have given it to him... LOL im still getting chills from the potential possibilty that he might want me to stay single.

its all up to him now, for good or bad (this is from my perspective of course, all that God does works for the good, even if we do not see it).

confirmation is what happens sophmore year(tenth year) in churches in many areas when the high schoolers become offical members of the church.

God iesn't expecting you to get rid of those feelings right off the bat, it will take some time, but with His help, you should be able to.

i don't know about god... but i do know that there is a choice in what you dwell on... whether it be a love interest... an obsession... or work... or extra cirricular activity.

some things are just "easier on the mental eye" to think about

which is why we get so wrapped up in them.

true. and sometimes some of us with AS get wrapped up in wanting a significant other that it becomes the only thing we want to happen.

and thats when it becomes idolatry i guess....

He's from brazil. Ain't isn't a word but who cares? At least it is better than gotten you get that all the time.

Wow. I absolutely cannot parse that final sentence.
What do I need to take (in terms of drugs) to understand
it?