I Think I'm Falling in Love

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What is this? Righteous Indignation?

cberg made me laugh this morning, I needed that, I got angry at myself & got mad when they shut off my water in my apartment & I got an headache.

It's the I-am-gonna-kick-your-a** indignation.

My iron fist is coming to you .

My face is like a catcher's mask or hockey player's helmet. It'll certainly leave an imprint should your iron fist get there!

I wish it wasn't childish to write him a letter.

It's what I do: make people laugh & sometimes write code!

I wouldn't mind receiving a letter from an admirer. But some people think a letter is a little too intimate.

Maybe pass him a little note instead, proposing that you get together sometime. Don't say that he's your crush and all that. Put your email address on the note.

Or better yet. Maybe just pass him your email address on a piece of paper.

I wouldn't advise giving out your phone number until he gets to know you better.

The letter wouldn't be dirty talk.

It's ok for you to fall in love. I'll keep backing that up!

Are you drunk?

Nope

I would save the letter for when you know each other better.

It's not a bad thing, the letter. I never thought you would put dirty stuff in it.

It's just that people are funny these days.

Just write down, in the note, something like: "Would you like to get together sometime?" And put your email address in the note.

I know people write notes & put their phone numbers on it or on napkins. I would love to give Jeff my email address on a note. Or I could write on the note that I'm shy & I have trouble talking to men.

I know now it just like, I really really like him.

I don't find that really bad, and we don't know if she will get heartbroken or not. In my experience, it's not situations like the one Kitty is in that causes neurodiverse people to get a really bad heartbreak. This typically is caused by dating, or getting feelings for friends. Rather, the slow process of getting to know each others seems to have multiple mechanisms that aborts it. There also is no rejection because people are not talking so cannot reject each other. Rejection only happens by one of the persons ignoring the other, and this is not as bad as being rejected and then expected to "move on" when this is somebody you might see regularly.

Here's a really good tip for you. Don't fall deeply for someone too fast because if you have only talked to a guy just once or twice and you have already developed extremely deep feeling for him, it's just setting yourself up for failure if he doesn't like you back.

I made the same mistake a year ago. I was crazy about this one girl from the get-go from Late February till the middle of May, May 12th to be exact. I'm actually glad she transferred because I don't think I could have mentally handled her being there any longer. I was in a period of depression trying to forget about her for 6 months.

You gotta let feelings develop relative to how much time you have spent with him. You don't want to be in love with a guy who you barely know.


It is funny what being love struck can do to you though. One moment you can be extremely happy and elated and the next moment you become depressed as f**k. I actually learned that when you're in love, it actually offers you a protection from withdrawals if you're trying to quit an addiction.

So if you're addicted to anything, take advantage of it. lol

Last edited by darkphantomx1 on 27 Feb 2016, 1:32 pm, edited 1 time in total.