How can I be a supportive boyfriend?

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LOL!! ! !

Oh yes, but of course, you would love that wouldn't you?! For me to disclose my references, heck why not the exact location that I live, where I went to school, what my GPA is, how long my most significant relationship was, and his name. You are completely out of touch with reality. Why do you believe/expect that I have to prove anything to you? Egotistical much??? Please. I don't even like you and owe you nothing of the sort. I hope you get an up-to-date psychological assessment soon. You need one.

I also hope you don't continue to limit your wife and children by your refusal to change due to your rigidity. And let us cross our fingers that the 21-year-old daughter that you speak of ends up as successful in her academic pursuits and relationships as my son is. The best evidence of what kind of person you really are anyhow....is how your children are and turn out to be. And I am more than happy with how my adult son turned out. People often tell me (out of the blue, and without prompting...mind you) what a wonderful human being he is, and how he makes a difference in the lives of others.

Good luck with everything. I've decided to let you be, as people like you rarely change. Why do they rarely change, you might ask? Well, you have to actually see that there is a problem first, before wanting to change it...and then decide to take action. It's not too late for you, however, it does look relatively dismal at this point.

Just remember my comments playing in your head when after 32-35 years into marriage, you walk into an empty house (no furniture, clothing, anything) and a "Dear John" letter from your "partner" that finally states how she couldn't take it anymore.

There's ALWAYS A FINAL STRAW, keep that in mind. From the sound of things, you may be placing on the very last ones as we type this. She may be able to hold a lot, but at one point your refusal to change will break her down...you just wait and see. Seen it before, many times. Your choice though.

Ciao!! !

Does polyamory involve sleeping with other women?

If you are open to your wife being polyamorous then that's your business, and it seems fair.

if your wife objects but you do it anyway that would be domination.

Does polyamory involve sleeping with other women?

If you are open to your wife being polyamorous then that's your business, and it seems fair.

if your wife objects but you do it anyway that would be domination.

What it means is if one relationship isn't working then they can just hop right to another relationship and get their needs met without trying to work out the first relationship - imo.

Oh yes, but of course, you would love that wouldn't you?! For me to disclose my references, heck why not the exact location that I live, where I went to school, what my GPA is, how long my most significant relationship was, and his name. You are completely out of touch with reality. Why do you believe/expect that I have to prove anything to you?

I also hope you don't continue to limit your wife and children by your refusal to change due to your rigidity. And let us cross our fingers that the 21-year-old daughter that you speak of ends up as successful in her academic pursuits and relationships as my son is. The best evidence of what kind of person you really are anyhow....is how your children are and turn out to be. And I am more than happy with how my adult son turned out. People often tell me (out of the blue, and without prompting...mind you) what a wonderful human being he is, and how he makes a difference in the lives of others.