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Peacesells wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
These me who think that cleaning the bath tub and making a meal are demeaning need to get over themselves. Women aren't maids.
Why do you only focus on men and say nothing about the women who think that it's demeaning for men and makes them less sexy? They are clearly mentioned in the original post.
How does cooking make a guy demeaning?
Hell if I know, but it's written in your original post.
Just because it's in the article doesn't mean I think the same way. I'd love to have a Hunny who can cook.
24 Apr 2017, 4:41 am
24 Apr 2017, 4:46 am
nurseangela wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
These me who think that cleaning the bath tub and making a meal are demeaning need to get over themselves. Women aren't maids.
Why do you only focus on men and say nothing about the women who think that it's demeaning for men and makes them less sexy? They are clearly mentioned in the original post.
How does cooking make a guy demeaning?
Hell if I know, but it's written in your original post.
Just because it's in the article doesn't mean I think the same way. I'd love to have a Hunny who can cook.
I didn't say that you think that way. It just seemed odd to me that hurtloam would say something like "men, women aren't your maids!" and at the same time she ignored the fact that according to your post many women have a similar mentality.
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24 Apr 2017, 7:14 am
Peacesells wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
These me who think that cleaning the bath tub and making a meal are demeaning need to get over themselves. Women aren't maids.
Why do you only focus on men and say nothing about the women who think that it's demeaning for men and makes them less sexy? They are clearly mentioned in the original post.
How does cooking make a guy demeaning?
Hell if I know, but it's written in your original post.
Just because it's in the article doesn't mean I think the same way. I'd love to have a Hunny who can cook.
I didn't say that you think that way. It just seemed odd to me that hurtloam would say something like "men, women aren't your maids!" and at the same time she ignored the fact that according to your post many women have a similar mentality.
It's because of this, all explained here:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nurseangela, a reasonable husband can never dare to tell a non-working wife to cook for him or to clean his clothes..etc because it may be taken in the wrong way and be accused as sexist and macho (it may be taken as if he's telling her place is in kitcken or woman being man's maid. ...or reviving old sexist notions ...etc), even if logically it's a totally fair division of tasks between a working and non-working partners. He may trigger in her some old passed grudges inherited from pre-equality days.
As for you, you can easily demand a non-working husband to do all these stuff, and the whole female society would applaud for you; no one is gonna accuse you that you're reviving some old sexist notions, in the contrast, they would call you very progressive.
So if the housewife is too lazy to cook or to clean, the best thing a husband can do is to shut up about it, and order some pizza, or hires a maid for this if he can afford it.
As for you, you can easily demand a non-working husband to do all these stuff, and the whole female society would applaud for you; no one is gonna accuse you that you're reviving some old sexist notions, in the contrast, they would call you very progressive.
So if the housewife is too lazy to cook or to clean, the best thing a husband can do is to shut up about it, and order some pizza, or hires a maid for this if he can afford it.
So that's why.
24 Apr 2017, 8:00 am
24 Apr 2017, 8:30 am
Peacesells wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
These me who think that cleaning the bath tub and making a meal are demeaning need to get over themselves. Women aren't maids.
Why do you only focus on men and say nothing about the women who think that it's demeaning for men and makes them less sexy? They are clearly mentioned in the original post.
How does cooking make a guy demeaning?
Hell if I know, but it's written in your original post.
Just because it's in the article doesn't mean I think the same way. I'd love to have a Hunny who can cook.
I didn't say that you think that way. It just seemed odd to me that hurtloam would say something like "men, women aren't your maids!" and at the same time she ignored the fact that according to your post many women have a similar mentality.
People don't like to admit this, but doing feminine jobs will make you more feminine and doing masculine jobs will make you more masculine. There's a service in Russia which is called a "husband for an hour". Hint: it's not an intimate service.
It's less about doing household jobs and more about doing the household jobs you're supposed to do.
25 Apr 2017, 8:43 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It's because of this, all explained here:
So that's why.
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nurseangela, a reasonable husband can never dare to tell a non-working wife to cook for him or to clean his clothes..etc because it may be taken in the wrong way and be accused as sexist and macho (it may be taken as if he's telling her place is in kitcken or woman being man's maid. ...or reviving old sexist notions ...etc), even if logically it's a totally fair division of tasks between a working and non-working partners. He may trigger in her some old passed grudges inherited from pre-equality days.
As for you, you can easily demand a non-working husband to do all these stuff, and the whole female society would applaud for you; no one is gonna accuse you that you're reviving some old sexist notions, in the contrast, they would call you very progressive.
So if the housewife is too lazy to cook or to clean, the best thing a husband can do is to shut up about it, and order some pizza, or hires a maid for this if he can afford it.
As for you, you can easily demand a non-working husband to do all these stuff, and the whole female society would applaud for you; no one is gonna accuse you that you're reviving some old sexist notions, in the contrast, they would call you very progressive.
So if the housewife is too lazy to cook or to clean, the best thing a husband can do is to shut up about it, and order some pizza, or hires a maid for this if he can afford it.
So that's why.
314pe wrote:
People don't like to admit this, but doing feminine jobs will make you more feminine and doing masculine jobs will make you more masculine. There's a service in Russia which is called a "husband for an hour". Hint: it's not an intimate service.
It's less about doing household jobs and more about doing the household jobs you're supposed to do.
It's less about doing household jobs and more about doing the household jobs you're supposed to do.
Or maybe she only whined about men because she's a feminist, don't know.
As we know they just love to bash men.
