Aspie19828 wrote:
Red pills are guys that are aware that making improvements like looks maxing, dressing better and going to the gym use better pick up lines to pick up chicks. Acceptance that the dating game is harder for guys because they have to put in more effort and work hard to get dates.
Blue pill is a naive guy who is unaware that the dating game is rigged against and just being yourself or whatever naive advice is enough to pick up chicks. In denial that guys have to put in more effort and work harder and white knighting(being nice) is enough to get dates.
I suppose it's possible if a man is very attractive to a majority of women, has himself together, and is naturally charming, he may never have to leave "blue pill land" or question it. For him, the strategy works.
But you're correct, it's not one-size-fits all, and to the men struggling, blue pill isn't gonna get you much of anywhere.
I don't really comment on these topics much, and I didn't even know what blue vs. red meant in this context. (I've seen the Matrix, but this here refers to realizing the truths about hetero-normative mating behavior among humans.)
Problem here is you're on a website for the socially clueless. Don't listen to most of what the women here say, they're not in your shoes. As Aspies, they probably don't even know how they stand in their own shoes. As for the men getting all uppity, they should be glad they've been successful and stop getting so hostile.
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