Women, Men, Tell us What You Need The Other Sex To Know!.

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This is what other women need to know as well as men: How valuable a human being I am in this world is *not* determined by my age, weight, physical appearance, what job I have or don't have, being married, having crotch goblins, the number of crotch goblins I have, the way I dress, or how much money I have.

Yeah, but so much harder to send over the phone.

I had to google crotch goblins

Thank you

Because that's what they think they'd like. Because if they were ill, they'd probably appreciate a pic of their girlfriend naked.

Tbh if I had a bf and he sent me a (body length, artistically posed) nude, I'd be like it. But they don't. They just send (I'm trying to find an appropriate way to say it in the all ages forum) close up pictures of their genitals.

Yes, some men have watched so much porn that pics of woman's genitals might be what they want. But most people don't like something quite that blatant and intrusive. And most women don't send just their genitals, they send everything or their boobs which is maybe the equivalent (although this would be harder to take) of a guy sending a butt pic.

I've read of and heard people of both sexes who are into guys saying 'no d... p...s, why do guys keep sending d... p...s it's gross'.

Also don't send nudes to random strangers or people you know platonically, that is invasive. And don't send pics of your genitals especially to strangers. But I think the people who do that know they're being invasive creeps.

There's a reason that art history is full of nudes of both sexes but not very much full of random paintings of genitalia on its own. Part of it is the morality of some of the eras but another part of it is, genitals on their own aren't very aesthetically pleasing.

Isn't chicken soup the cure for the common cold?

That I'm jaded by being treated the same boilerplate way as other guys. I assume you don't want to know me because I'm not them.

I'm tired of women manipulating me into being an autistic stereotype.

I think so. Where I live it is considered good for stomach flu also in fact it's considered to be the "jewish antibiotic"

I’ve received tons of close up vagina pics.

And I don’t like it because it’s too close up, boring.

Accept me as I am and you will have my heart

The women who are sending you those are creepy. It isn't as common though. People in general need to quit sending genital pictures.

Genital pictures sent to strangers are ridiculous.

I don’t feel genitals are ugly, though.

When you don't express your feelings it creates a chasm between us.I know that you don't need to create a saga out of everything, a hug would probably suit you more than me interrogating you, why, when, how?
Just tell me what is bothering you and I will pat you on the shoulder in support or hug you.
I promise not to make a fuss.

I understand that you need to "switch off" and take time out. I will respect your space.

I need to describe experiences in great detail with a touch of drama, love me for it even though it seems silly and pointless. I enjoy sharing with you, I expect you to care enough to suffer in silence even though you don't have a clue what I want from you.


I will really try not to nag you. Just by saying okay, I understand, or repeating what I have asked you to do will reassure me that you have heard, understood, and agree to do something. Otherwise I will ask you again because you haven't responded. Is your mind already jumping forward in anticipation of the task? I just feel that you are ignoring me and haven't understood or are unhappy to do things for me.

It is not a lack of masculinity to run by me what I have asked you to do to ensure we are on the same page. I appreciate everything that you do even though it seems that I am hypercritical.

You get old too. And you get old faster (which is ok if a woman wants handsome but I don't). I'd say by about 25, most guys have lost the androgynously beautiful look of male youth. Nobody wants to sculpt David's Dad.

Should go without saying but underage kids are off limits. Also women aren't turned on when you tell them they look like jailbait.

Power dynamics in relationships exist and you ought to try to find an equal in most things. Especially if you're going to get kinky later.

Young women are naturally giggly. Young women wear skimpy outfits - not sure if this is for boys' benefit or friends' benefit or their own taste but it's not for you. Young women are too nervous to put up much of a fight. None of this is a 'yes'.

If you're on an American website don't talk about sexy girls under 18. You might not be breaking the law but the website is if they host it. Same if I talk about a 17 yo boy I like. If you want to talk like that, take it to a site made in your own country and again, stick to the law. Be aware of age of consent in other countries esp if you're middle aged and being a creep about teenagers.

You should respect women enough to want someone who is an intellectual and social equal.

Women understand women better than Red Pill or Jordan Peterson understand women.

Yes I'm generalising. And yes this is like 1% of men. But some guys need reminders.

I once saw on a well used internet site a lady had taken a picture of her downstairs and used it as her avatoir picture. I contacted the site owners. They looked into it and I was rather alarmed by the reply. They said they didn't see anything wrong with what she had done but they did ask her to move the picture to a place on the site where only private friends could see it. Now this was a very popular site where millions of people used and some children would unofficially use it to speak to grandmas etc... It was a general site designed to trace loved ones and to keep in touch. I won't give the name, except to say it is no longer running. It really puzzled me that the site owners (Or moderator who replied) could not see that a big picture of the ladies downstairs parts wasn't considered to be wrong. It is no co-incidence here in the UK we refer to our downstairs parts as our privates, because that is what they are. Private.

You are not entitled to free rides, with no reciprocity.

You are not entitled to free meals, with no reciprocity.

You must initiate stuff sometimes too, like texting and planning.

You are not entitled to my money.

Don't pretend to be a saint, be honest, don't claim that you don't care about looks and wealth yet on the next day we see you blushing or drooling over a good-looking guy in an expensive car and then you tell all your friends about his looks and car, that makes you as a hypocrite.

If you are embarrassed to walk next to a shorter date (on a first date) because one of your friends may see you and this would destroy your prestige, then say so, don't walk awkwardly either faster or slower than the guy. Just end the date right away.

Your actions speak louder than your words.

Don't do these stupid tests.

Yes, obesity is not attractive, in both sexes, get over it.

When we say 'ideally curvy' we mean someone like Jennifer Lopez body, not like a sumo wrestler.

A close male friend is always a potential cheating material.

What tests?
I'm glad to live in a different culture.

The rest I totally accept.