22 Dec 2021, 3:09 pm
WantToHaveALife
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Joined: 16 Sep 2012
Age: 38
Gender: Male
Posts: 2,214
Location: California, United States
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blitzkrieg wrote:
I have six disabilities, with Autistic Spectrum Disorder amongst them. At age 23, I was about 13 years old, socially. I could barely zip my coat up due to a lack of fine motor skills. I had been brain damaged significantly in 2005 and Autism was chief amongst my issues at that time.
Stop it. Ya know... Your going to make me almost feel bad for dissing you the other day.
Well that explains how the act the way you do. I didn't know you had brain damage. I still find you weird though.
22 Dec 2021, 6:16 pm
theprisoner wrote:
blitzkrieg wrote:
I have six disabilities, with Autistic Spectrum Disorder amongst them. At age 23, I was about 13 years old, socially. I could barely zip my coat up due to a lack of fine motor skills. I had been brain damaged significantly in 2005 and Autism was chief amongst my issues at that time.
Stop it. Ya know... Your going to make me almost feel bad for dissing you the other day.
Well that explains how the act the way you do. I didn't know you had brain damage. I still find you weird though.Maybe I find you weird? Ever thought of that?
22 Dec 2021, 6:16 pm
No, not really. 
22 Dec 2021, 6:18 pm
theprisoner wrote:
No, not really.
Think about me viewing you, in my brain. You are 'the prisoner' and you have the same location as me, the same age as me, and your username is referencing something personal from my life, whether coincidental or not.
Also, a good chunk of your posts seem to be in response to my posts.
And I don't even know who you are?!
And worse, you won't tell me.
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22 Dec 2021, 6:31 pm
Nades wrote:
blitzkrieg wrote:
Nades wrote:
blitzkrieg wrote:
Nades wrote:
blitzkrieg wrote:
Worst of all I was frigid with her having not been naked with a stranger. Laid on my bed with her with the stiffness of Sheldon Cooper. Tragic.
So you just flopped on the bed like a finely seasoned plank of Oak?
Sex is often underwhelming too, even with absolute hotties. Doesn't matter if it's someone who's on the chunky side and 40 years old or a slim toned 20 year old, they're usually much the same and attitude is what matters most. Being happy and receptive makes all the difference.
Any autistic should take any chance of a boning given to them. Doesn't matter the circumstances or with who, just take it (as long as they're not clearly drunk). If persistently looking, a chance or two will show up eventually.
I don't agree. No Autistic guy should just 'receive' what is served up to him/them. I had offers of sex a few times between the age of 16 & 23 but I didn't have the confidence to do anything at that point & it would have been dangerous for me to have sex before the age of 23, which is when I finally had sex.
How could it be dangerous?
Alright, let me explain.
I have six disabilities, with Autistic Spectrum Disorder amongst them. At age 23, I was about 13 years old, socially. I could barely zip my coat up due to a lack of fine motor skills. I had been brain damaged significantly in 2005 and Autism was chief amongst my issues at that time. My masking was extremely good since I knew how to mask before I regressed further into Autism in 2005, after previously being more mildly Autistic.
So people thought I was relatively normal, but I wasn't. My mask was sitting on top of a mountain of abnormal.
Anyway, having sex leaves you vulnerable emotionally to other people if they treat you badly. And that is exactly what happened to me when I was 24 and it had a devastating effect. Sex isn't to be treated lightly - you may get 'burnt' in ways you never imagined could be possible.
Damn that's a lot of disabilities. Must suck.
I think a lot of people are left emotionally vulnerable from relationships and sex with people. I don't really think people with autism are more likely to suffer any more than NT's. Sex itself can be done without much in the way of connection to the other person too. I think the greater threat is getting emotionally involved with someone rather than sexually involved though I think sex does make an emotional connection easier.
It sucks giant monkey balls. And because I mask so well, people think I am 'faking' being disabled. Even other disabled people make this mistake about me.
22 Dec 2021, 6:35 pm
