16 Jan 2009, 2:46 pm
mitharatowen wrote:
Well.. I gotta say I don't agree with that because my hypothesis is that yours is a hypothesis... if yours is a hypothesis, then mine is true.
Hm.. but if you were to indeed prove yours as fact somehow, then I guess mine would be untrue. Which I guess means that mine can still be disproven. Which I think makes it a theory? Lol
Hm.. but if you were to indeed prove yours as fact somehow, then I guess mine would be untrue. Which I guess means that mine can still be disproven. Which I think makes it a theory? Lol
...long work day and now this headache ...
16 Jan 2009, 2:57 pm
mitharatowen wrote:
I grew up in Arizona and I currently live in California. My mom may have moved to the UK, though. I know she was planning on it and I haven't talked to her in a few months so she might be there already. *shrug*
Well.. there's the whole beleif system.. I can't just throw that away because I mad a stupid descision in who I married. Funny thing is that I went against my religious beleifs TO marry him. He's a different type of Christian and mine beleives 'marry only in the lord' means only in our particular denomination. So my family and my pastors and everyone counseled me against it but I married him anyway and here I am! I appreciate irony. 
I don't know what he is. I'm not entirely convinced there isn't something neurologically wrong with him. He has some AS tendencies like not being very sociable, needing to recharge after social events, being very analytical - 'logical", ect. But he is always explaining to me the need to be careful how I word things and of my voice tones and explaining social rules to me and I know that he specifically words things and acts in certain ways to get specific responses from the reciever so that seems to exclude AS.
We don't understand eachother at all. That is pretty much how I wound up on this site. I was looking for ways to learn how to communicate better because I can't communicate with him at all. In fact, although I always felt I was autistic and always had certain signs, I wouldn't say AS has caused me many problems until I got married. I had huge social phobias but I was able to push past them and make something of my life. But communicating with him is just not something I seem to be capable of. I can't understand him and he doesn't undersand me.
I was trying to feel better about him lately so I went and found an old email that I had written years ago to my best friend about why I loved him, to try to remind myself of how it used to be. Of the reasons I listed to my friend, None of them are true anymore!!
So needless to say, that letter didn't help.
Well.. there's the whole beleif system.. I can't just throw that away because I mad a stupid descision in who I married. Funny thing is that I went against my religious beleifs TO marry him
. He's a different type of Christian and mine beleives 'marry only in the lord' means only in our particular denomination. So my family and my pastors and everyone counseled me against it but I married him anyway and here I am! I appreciate irony. I don't know what he is. I'm not entirely convinced there isn't something neurologically wrong with him. He has some AS tendencies like not being very sociable, needing to recharge after social events, being very analytical - 'logical", ect. But he is always explaining to me the need to be careful how I word things and of my voice tones and explaining social rules to me and I know that he specifically words things and acts in certain ways to get specific responses from the reciever so that seems to exclude AS.
We don't understand eachother at all. That is pretty much how I wound up on this site. I was looking for ways to learn how to communicate better because I can't communicate with him at all. In fact, although I always felt I was autistic and always had certain signs, I wouldn't say AS has caused me many problems until I got married. I had huge social phobias but I was able to push past them and make something of my life. But communicating with him is just not something I seem to be capable of. I can't understand him and he doesn't undersand me.
I was trying to feel better about him lately so I went and found an old email that I had written years ago to my best friend about why I loved him, to try to remind myself of how it used to be. Of the reasons I listed to my friend, None of them are true anymore!!
So needless to say, that letter didn't help.
Cool. Oh wow, sorry you don't talk to her much. You should find out if she has moved.
Thats interesting. How do you mean different type? What does he's type believe in? Well I think risks have to be taken when it comes to love! Sorry it hasn't exactly gone to plan.
Yeah, sounds similar to AS in some ways though. But everyone is different. And i'm not very good at diagnosing people anyway
So how come you did all this and married him, when you don't understand him? Or like you said, did he seem to be like someone else back then?
Ahh, well sorry reading that letter didn't work
I dunno, wish I knew the answer!
16 Jan 2009, 2:59 pm
LePetitPrince wrote:
benjimanbreeg wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
Aren't you the one who got a gf here? the girl who was trying not to be insensitive?
Well....try to date her again.
Well....try to date her again.
yessss. Lol, hope that not a dig at her
We are still going out. Its just I live in England and she lives in America. Just kind of putting things on hold untill we can be together. Long distance is pretty soul destroying. And thats why i'm feeling a bit horny? And can't do anything about it, its not quite long enough to reach across the atlantic
...have you ever met her face-to-face? If no, then it was never a relationship.
LOL! Thats pretty mean, and I imagine a lot of people would disagree. But yes, we have on 3 occassions. I've been there twice and she's been here once.
16 Jan 2009, 3:05 pm
Actually, the conversation I just had with LePetitPrince is a great example of discussions I get into with my husband that he views as arguements. That is why we 'fight' all the time. I'm usually not mad, just debating and he usually comes back with some kind of hurtful comment because he thinks I'm angry with him..
I'd like some feedback on that. Am I just a b***h?
16 Jan 2009, 3:13 pm
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16 Jan 2009, 3:20 pm
Lol, maybe my dinner break was bad timing, I could have saved that argument
Thats what happens with us, but only on the phone really. I find it so much easier to deal with situations in person. There's no hiding on the phone, and its just words. Meh, I dunno what I want, just feel lonely at the moment. I only seem to have online friends now! But I kind of socalize with people at golf and tennis.
16 Jan 2009, 3:21 pm
And naw, your not a b***h at all!
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16 Jan 2009, 3:35 pm
I think debating is the Prince's way of flirting to his fair maidens..
Or is it Princess? 
16 Jan 2009, 3:44 pm
MissConstrue wrote:
I think debating is the Prince's way of flirting to his fair maidens..
Or is it Princess?
Or is it Princess?
I'm sure i've had debates with him, uh oh!
16 Jan 2009, 4:11 pm
LOL, probably mistook you for your twin Benertra.
16 Jan 2009, 4:12 pm
16 Jan 2009, 4:30 pm
MissConstrue wrote:
LOL, probably mistook you for your twin Benertra.
Maybe. Easily done I suppose. I dunno why she's flirting with Prince, he'll need my blessing if he wants to date her
16 Jan 2009, 4:35 pm
