Do you feel unattractive?

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Some times I feel like I have to compete with porn stars to get attention, then I realize I am smarter and more loved and have better tricks than most of them and I feel better. I also realize that they are conceded and have low confidence and i feel even better.

hmm a hard question to answer...

physically, yes, i consider myself unattractive. Yet i know of people who are jealous of me because of appearances

personality wise, yes, just because of the fact i am a natural pessimist who prolly hasnt smiled since he was a lil kid without forcing or faking it. That and i tend to look down upon the world and curse out humanity, and i can be a jerkass with a heart of gold, i mean heart of obsidian >_>


what does confuse me however is the fact that i get along with women moreso than other men, its just that said women just friend zone me. Yeah, ive tried looking at certain ones body language, and i am starting to think they are flirting, especially after the one noticably gets irritated if i dont pay attention when she does. that must be a sign that she was flirting.

Hmm, interesting topic. Kinda depends really. I wouldn't say I'm ugly, but I don't really consider myself to be all that attractive either. I mean when people first meet me they think I look like a "nerd". Mentally/verbally that's a privilege but not physically. Also there's never been (as far as I know) any female who's ever had a "love at first sight" thing for me. It's always verbally that they get to know the real me and so far I've only had one gf (but she's an online one, so I dunno if "love at first sight" would count in this case, as sometimes photographs aren't exactly an accurate representation of how someone really looks). Uggh, I wish looks didn't have to be part of the equation for a relationship. Why can't people love someone for who they really are and be attracted to THAT? Probably would've attracted a lot more girls in the past that way.

Facially, I might be average, but I have no idea. My physique, though, is just a mess at this point (weak and soft looking with probably around 15% body fat). I've gotten a kinda muscular look going for my frame by weight lifting before, so I can definitely do it again if I can get my mind into a routine. At one point 3 years ago, my friend's sister randomly remarked "you have a nice chest!" when we were at the beach and asked me out of the blue if I'm a player (what the hell, I wish). Come to think about it, stopping working out was one of the dumbest things I've ever done.

Personality wise, I'm a bit ugly in the sense that I tend to dwell on the negative and I'm not very spontaneous, but I'm working on this. People say I'm funny pretty often, and I like to think I'm really kind and understanding with my friends.

Overall, I'm kinda unattractive, but a lot of these things I will fix in the next year or so (personality and physique). Yeah, people also tend to think nerd/dork as soon as they see me, and I've found this out only recently, which is more impetus to start hitting the squat rack again ASAP.

Nope, I don't consider myself attractive at all.

I go back and forth. I do think I'm not physically ugly. Some people have told me I should model. I must have a bad personality because I've never managed to get anyone to stick around longer than a few months...Then again I have no real way of knowing.

More often than not, I do. But I do sometimes get those days where I feel OK. I guess it's more of a confidence thing, rather than actually thinking I'm attractive. Or maybe it's just that on those days, i don't give a s**t. Not sure.

I don't feel unattractive within myself (except under strong full on light or awkward mirror angles), yet when I'm out the signs and social cues tell me I'm more of an unattractive / lesser guy. I don't have any defects, just not tall enough, broad enough across the shoulders and chest, and not mature nee 'strong' enough in the facial structure for the majority of women.

i say that i am physically and mentally unattractive.

yes that is me and thank you for the comment

I think I'd be moderately attractive if I could bother myself to lose some weight. But, I love good food (an Aspie interest) and hate exercising and can't make/keep long term goals so . . .

I seem to notice that in this silly society guys have to be mentally attractive, and girls have to be physically attractive. Neither one is easy if one doesnt fit what most people think is attractive. IDK forget society they are stupid