Hmmmmmm, well i'll admit my virginity is still intact, primarily because of an "idealist factor" (sex before a relationship is meaningless on a personal note so why both with something that has no meaning?). Dont get me wrong, Ive tried to date about three times, but in the end they didnt work out (nothing horrid, but were definitely no connections being made). So, to this day (almost 29 years old), Ive been of the mind that i'll just not bother looking and if something comes up, I'll attempt to see about long term . . . but I learned never to get my hopes, or anything else, up . . .
Its like how an old song goes, "You can't always get what you want . . . but you might get what you need." Or however that went . . . again, I dont bother with hope when it comes to a relationship in my life.