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02 Jan 2010, 3:25 pm

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Lonermutants sn says it all: he's a sexually frustrated loser who has nothing better to do but rain on every else's parade. You are a true loser.



Well, in a few days we are going to hear how heartbroken our little Aspie boy here is.

Well, it's been more than a week now & things are still fine.
If you'd like me to update you at the 1-month mark i can do that :lol: .
15 days as of today and still counting.


I'm sorry, but that's starting to sound offensive to me. I understand that you're happy and all that, and to be honest, I wish you the best, but I can understand where loner is coming from because seeing the haves flaunt it just makes me more sad :cry:
Thanks toadofsteel for the best wishes :)

i am sorry that it may be beginning to offend you though =//


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02 Jan 2010, 3:27 pm

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OP, how's the relationship going?
Going pretty well, thanks :) .
& i almost have enough money to make a trip down to visit her =D.


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02 Jan 2010, 3:40 pm

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I call a spade a spade. If you read my posts on here, I'm not a troll like Lonermutant, but I find it sickening that you're bragging about having an internet girlfriend. I don't care if she looks like Jennifer Connelly and has Aspergers. First, she probably isn't real or what she says she is. Two, even if she is, it's no more of a relationship than what you and I are doing on here and typing back and forth. Do you hug the computer screen or something? Actually, forget that, I don't even want to think about what you do when you're typing to her (or him).

I have to agree with therange here. I'm sure she's a real person, but I wouldn't call her my "girlfriend" until some physical intimacy (at least a kiss) happened. For now, I'd say you're two people talking to each other online, and there's only a possibility of a relationship. If I were you, I'd take a more conservative approach, and not call her my girlfriend until I actually meet her in person, and even then, probably not until after I kissed her on the lips. I use a kiss a benchmark of sorts, a sure sign that a girl likes me. After all, if a girl doesn't like me, she by definition can't be my girlfriend.
yeah, i sorta feel the same way concerning thinking of her as a girlfriend quite yet, though i almost have enough money to make a trip down to visit her & get physically intimate. So i don't imagine that'll remain a problem for long :lol:


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03 Jan 2010, 11:23 pm

So have you actually talked to her on the phone yet to verify she is legit? I have met a few people through facebook and myspace, but I always try to verify who they are right away from phone calls or web cam so I'm not wasting my time so to speak. Good luck to you and from someone who has been there done that take it slow and enjoy it!



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03 Jan 2010, 11:50 pm

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He has a lot of Myspace friends to be one of us. If I had been 18-19 and in school, I would never have accepted anyone from school as a friend, as I would have avoided them like a plague. Yes, this kid is a "see how perfect I am-troll"...

myspace friends dont have to mean anything actually... there are girls who add people just because they think theyre cute or hot, maybe that contributed to his total of myspace friends, and theres always the people who add anyone who gives them a friend invite, or adds people that "look" like theyre pretty cool. You're just mad because you don't have as many friends as him.



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03 Jan 2010, 11:54 pm

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He has a lot of Myspace friends to be one of us. If I had been 18-19 and in school, I would never have accepted anyone from school as a friend, as I would have avoided them like a plague.

And of course we're all exactly like you, LM, and all exactly the same...

...or maybe he didn't have as bad an experience in school as you did (kids these days get diagnosed as children, and have some appropriate programs available - it's not like when we were kids and Bruno Bettelheim still had followers), and he met some actual friends in school. It does happen sometimes, you know.

Also, the starting post wasn't "look how perfect I am", it was "look how lucky I am". I don't know why some folks can't stand to see this kid find a little happiness in this world...
Yeah, there are programs available that make it possible for people to lead happy and productive lives-Zachary Whitney is living proof (He's the son of an MOT OR/L--not sure what that is but I know some of it means occupational therapist)



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03 Jan 2010, 11:56 pm

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Yes, but an early diagnosis can't cure immaturity. No social skills training on earth can cure immaturity. That's why no high school (or College) girl wants an Aspie boy and that's why most Aspie boys never go to College.
Uhh.....I must be crazy then because I'm a girl and I used to have one buttt I moved away (phooey!).



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04 Jan 2010, 12:13 am

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I call a spade a spade. If you read my posts on here, I'm not a troll like Lonermutant, but I find it sickening that you're bragging about having an internet girlfriend. I don't care if she looks like Jennifer Connelly and has Aspergers. First, she probably isn't real or what she says she is. Two, even if she is, it's no more of a relationship than what you and I are doing on here and typing back and forth. Do you hug the computer screen or something? Actually, forget that, I don't even want to think about what you do when you're typing to her (or him).
How is it sickening....he wasn't bragging in the first place, he was just really happy at first, as a lot of people are when they think they've met the perfect person, NTs and aspies alike, but yeah he probably had to talk about it more but he was simply defending himself against some other people, it wasn't supposed to sound like he was bragging on and on about it. But If I thought what the guy was sickening I would've moved onto another thread by now and not have sticked around just to debate on and on with him? I kind of find what you were doing right there sickening. But I'm not going to stick around and talk about it on and on like you did with that guy. just saying.



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04 Jan 2010, 8:15 am

Lonermutant wrote:
That's why no high school (or College) girl wants an Aspie boy


...You can't speak for all high school and college girls.
Get off your high horse. Of course some girls want Aspie boys.
I have one myself.



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04 Jan 2010, 10:03 am

therange wrote:
I call a spade a spade. If you read my posts on here, I'm not a troll like Lonermutant, but I find it sickening that you're bragging about having an internet girlfriend. I don't care if she looks like Jennifer Connelly and has Aspergers. First, she probably isn't real or what she says she is. Two, even if she is, it's no more of a relationship than what you and I are doing on here and typing back and forth. Do you hug the computer screen or something? Actually, forget that, I don't even want to think about what you do when you're typing to her (or him).

None of my business but I find this post offensive, my first girlfriend I met on the web (on world of warcraft to be precise, laugh if you will) and it was one of the happyest month and a half of my life so the way I see it there is NOTHING wrong with meeting a girl on the internet



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04 Jan 2010, 11:44 am

DarthRic wrote:
therange wrote:
I call a spade a spade. If you read my posts on here, I'm not a troll like Lonermutant, but I find it sickening that you're bragging about having an internet girlfriend. I don't care if she looks like Jennifer Connelly and has Aspergers. First, she probably isn't real or what she says she is. Two, even if she is, it's no more of a relationship than what you and I are doing on here and typing back and forth. Do you hug the computer screen or something? Actually, forget that, I don't even want to think about what you do when you're typing to her (or him).

None of my business but I find this post offensive, my first girlfriend I met on the web (on world of warcraft to be precise, laugh if you will) and it was one of the happyest month and a half of my life so the way I see it there is NOTHING wrong with meeting a girl on the internet


I think what therange means is that there is a difference between meeting online and eventually moving it into real life and having a relationship that is strictly in the online world only.



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04 Jan 2010, 11:45 am

glamourdollxoxo wrote:
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therange wrote:
I call a spade a spade. If you read my posts on here, I'm not a troll like Lonermutant, but I find it sickening that you're bragging about having an internet girlfriend. I don't care if she looks like Jennifer Connelly and has Aspergers. First, she probably isn't real or what she says she is. Two, even if she is, it's no more of a relationship than what you and I are doing on here and typing back and forth. Do you hug the computer screen or something? Actually, forget that, I don't even want to think about what you do when you're typing to her (or him).

None of my business but I find this post offensive, my first girlfriend I met on the web (on world of warcraft to be precise, laugh if you will) and it was one of the happyest month and a half of my life so the way I see it there is NOTHING wrong with meeting a girl on the internet


I think what therange means is that there is a difference between meeting online and eventually moving it into real life and having a relationship that is strictly in the online world only.


I don't think there is, actually. Not in my experience, anyway.



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04 Jan 2010, 11:49 am

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DarthRic wrote:
therange wrote:
I call a spade a spade. If you read my posts on here, I'm not a troll like Lonermutant, but I find it sickening that you're bragging about having an internet girlfriend. I don't care if she looks like Jennifer Connelly and has Aspergers. First, she probably isn't real or what she says she is. Two, even if she is, it's no more of a relationship than what you and I are doing on here and typing back and forth. Do you hug the computer screen or something? Actually, forget that, I don't even want to think about what you do when you're typing to her (or him).

None of my business but I find this post offensive, my first girlfriend I met on the web (on world of warcraft to be precise, laugh if you will) and it was one of the happyest month and a half of my life so the way I see it there is NOTHING wrong with meeting a girl on the internet


I think what therange means is that there is a difference between meeting online and eventually moving it into real life and having a relationship that is strictly in the online world only.


I don't think there is, actually. Not in my experience, anyway.


I think there is because while you can get to know the person online how can you have a relationship that is strictly online only without ever wanting to meet that person in real life? Not bashing those who do relationships strictly online, but if you loved someone wouldn't you want to meet them face to face and see where it goes in the real world because while talking and getting to know them online is nice I don't think it can take the place of physical contact and getting to see that person face to face and to be with them kind of thing. (This question pertains to strictly online only relationships btw)



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04 Jan 2010, 11:50 am

Seanmw, you had the right attitude and it paid off!

That is the type of attitude I like to see on here.


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04 Jan 2010, 11:59 am

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Fair enough. I'll point out, though, that a lot of Aspies don't like physicial contact though.



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When I say physical I don't mean like sex or physically touching lol I mean just seeing how they truly interact with their friends and family because while I have met some great guys online I truly got to know them by seeing how they are in real life and not just what they say through a key board. Like one guy seemed so sweet, but when we started dating in real life it turned out he was the biggest pric* alive and thought he was God's gift to women everywhere. That's what I mean when I say physical contact.