Tim_Tex wrote:
release_the_bats wrote:
Liberal Christian aspie whose main interests are oral sex and fetishes?
I bet there are plenty in the Austin area. Probably in the largest cities in TX too. You just need to find them.
I think a good starting point would be one or more of your local fetish communities. (They exist everywhere.) There are national and regional fetish clubs that you can join or contact online, and they have regular meetings and fun events. I've noticed that a lot of people who are involved with fetish communities tend to be liberal Aspie types.
The Simpsons and South Park are good ways to find common ground with anyone anywhere.
If I were you, I'd seek out the fetish people where you live, have good geeky, liberal, intellectual conversations with them, get to know them. Bring up Christianity slowly. If you simply say, "I'm Christian," right off the bat, you could come across as a fundamentalist and people might regard you with suspicion - especially if you're new to the community. But if people have gotten to know you well enough to know that you're liberal, open-minded and into fetishes, they'll probably be pretty accepting, especially if you bring it up slowly or casually (like if the topic comes up in conversation). Fetish people tend to be really open-minded, so they'll likely be interested to hear about your beliefs once they trust you're not going to use them as an excuse to undermine the community.
Hope that's helpful . . .
I just want to be compatible with someone in that way, without people thinking I'm a creep or pervert. But I don't know how to express it.
Try hanging out in coffee shops in Austin with a Bible in one hand and a Cecelia Tan book in the other.

(Or whatever fetish - Cecilia Tan is a writer of sci-fi and fantasy themed erotic fiction, often with a bdsm twist to it, and is a leader in the east coast bdsm community).
Idly flip back and forth between the Bible and the fetish-oriented literature. If you make a routine of this, you might attract some interesting conversation, or even the right girl for you!
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A lot of people have fetishes. You
probably don't have to worry about being thought of as a pervert. The only reason I'm suggesting being somewhat open about it is to increase your likelihood of meeting someone you'd be compatible with.)