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Would you ever enlist yourself in any match-making agency / dating site?
Yes 20%  20%  [ 20 ]
Yes 20%  20%  [ 20 ]
Never 13%  13%  [ 13 ]
Never 13%  13%  [ 13 ]
Um... I'd think about it but... 18%  18%  [ 18 ]
Um... I'd think about it but... 18%  18%  [ 18 ]
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14 Apr 2006, 11:12 am

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If you can't handle the blows Lonermutant then we need to help you out there. We could give you tips even though most of my friendships with girls always always end with me getting hurt. I wasn't always this into relationships or even having friendships. I think my ex fiance who has the problem with keeping her mouth shut because she'll talk to everyone to death. She made me come out of my shell of being a loner. If I don't find anyone quick though I'm fearful I'll turn back into a loner and not have to do with any crap about anyone besides my self. Here's something that you could do. Try to find some woman your age and ask if you could hang out with her and her friends. You don't have to say anything just listen to what they have to say. When I was in a mental health hospital I didn't no body I was also freaking out. Then I found this one girl about three years older than I am and I kind of latched my self on her. We became friends and I became friends with her friends. Though after I left the hospital I never heard from her again.


Forgot to mention again that I'm permanently stuck in a small town where people see me as a ret*d, so that idea has no chance of working.


Well is there any chance that you might move out of that town? Like go to some near by town where they don't know a thing about you?



No. I have never completed High School and I'm living on a disability pension.


Well that doesn't mean you can't move to another town. I'm starting on SSI so I kind of know what you're going through. Do have enough guts to face your town and tell them to bug off? To leave you alone? Or have you already done that?


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14 Apr 2006, 12:45 pm

I learned pretty early that trying to make them stop it doesn't work!



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14 Apr 2006, 2:18 pm

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I learned pretty early that trying to make them stop it doesn't work!


Well have you told the mayor of your town about your situation or any police about it? You could sue them for harrassment.


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14 Apr 2006, 4:06 pm

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I learned pretty early that trying to make them stop it doesn't work!


Well have you told the mayor of your town about your situation or any police about it? You could sue them for harrassment.




"A tired man they see no longer cares"
A quote from Metallica's "The Unforgiven" that pretty well describes how I feel about this.



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14 Apr 2006, 4:36 pm

Lonermutant wrote:
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I learned pretty early that trying to make them stop it doesn't work!


Well have you told the mayor of your town about your situation or any police about it? You could sue them for harrassment.




"A tired man they see no longer cares"
A quote from Metallica's "The Unforgiven" that pretty well describes how I feel about this.


Well ok then. What do you want me to help you with?


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14 Apr 2006, 5:25 pm

TigerFire wrote:
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I learned pretty early that trying to make them stop it doesn't work!


Well have you told the mayor of your town about your situation or any police about it? You could sue them for harrassment.




"A tired man they see no longer cares"
A quote from Metallica's "The Unforgiven" that pretty well describes how I feel about this.


Well ok then. What do you want me to help you with?



You probably know by now that I'm looking for an unbelievably hot woman with an incredible body who is attracted to weird, obese men.



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14 Apr 2006, 9:36 pm

Lonermutant wrote:
TigerFire wrote:
Lonermutant wrote:
TigerFire wrote:
Lonermutant wrote:
I learned pretty early that trying to make them stop it doesn't work!


Well have you told the mayor of your town about your situation or any police about it? You could sue them for harrassment.




"A tired man they see no longer cares"
A quote from Metallica's "The Unforgiven" that pretty well describes how I feel about this.


Well ok then. What do you want me to help you with?



You probably know by now that I'm looking for an unbelievably hot woman with an incredible body who is attracted to weird, obese men.


Ok that's where I can't help you. Nice talking to you though.


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15 Apr 2006, 3:40 am

lonermutant, how come you haven't committed suicide?



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15 Apr 2006, 3:58 am

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lonermutant, how come you haven't committed suicide?



I've considered it many times...



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15 Apr 2006, 3:45 pm

you seem like you hate life, why don't you commit suicide then?



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15 Apr 2006, 4:00 pm

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you seem like you hate life, why don't you commit suicide then?



I have to think of my parents.



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15 Apr 2006, 4:03 pm

they probably know you're a loser and your life is s**t, they are just too polite to tell you.



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15 Apr 2006, 4:08 pm

Lonermutant: Maybe if you stopped being such a pathetic whinger for a bit and try to sort yourself out, you'll feel better. I was like that for years, but I'm beginning to sort myself out. Get yourself on a diet and out the house - it's beginning to work for me, and I'm a very overweight guy. I don't miss the fatty foods hardly at all, strangely enough, and I've cut them entirely out of my diet. I feel better with every passing day.

Whinging on a forum won't help to ease your problems. Only you can do that, mate. And I'm sure if you decided to people on here would help you every step of the way.

I leave it to you.



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15 Apr 2006, 4:40 pm

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Lonermutant: Maybe if you stopped being such a pathetic whinger for a bit and try to sort yourself out, you'll feel better. I was like that for years, but I'm beginning to sort myself out. Get yourself on a diet and out the house - it's beginning to work for me, and I'm a very overweight guy. I don't miss the fatty foods hardly at all, strangely enough, and I've cut them entirely out of my diet. I feel better with every passing day.

Whinging on a forum won't help to ease your problems. Only you can do that, mate. And I'm sure if you decided to people on here would help you every step of the way.

I leave it to you.



Do you mean whining? On top of being fat I also have too much stomach acid so I often don't know if I'm hungry, scared or just have to go to the toilet. I can't just go out too much, with my reputation (people think I'm both gay and ret*d) I have to watch my every step. I just wait for a bottle or a rock every time I pass people.



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15 Apr 2006, 4:40 pm

Tequila wrote:
Lonermutant: Maybe if you stopped being such a pathetic whinger for a bit and try to sort yourself out, you'll feel better. I was like that for years, but I'm beginning to sort myself out. Get yourself on a diet and out the house - it's beginning to work for me, and I'm a very overweight guy. I don't miss the fatty foods hardly at all, strangely enough, and I've cut them entirely out of my diet. I feel better with every passing day.

Whinging on a forum won't help to ease your problems. Only you can do that, mate. And I'm sure if you decided to people on here would help you every step of the way.

I leave it to you.

OMG---someone with some f**king balls. Lonermutant, you listen to this guy. Don't give us another whiny, infantile post about how "I've been bullied! Waaaah! I'm fat and didn't finish high school! I only want porn sex, no woman will want me!" do us all a favor, get your fat ass off the computer, and grow the f**k up. Seriously, there are billions of people in the world who have had a much harder life than you, made do with much less, and achieved far more than you in life. They also do it without whining, or sitting around feeling sorry for themselves. You seem like an extremely self-indulgent perpetual victim, and I feel sorry for anyone who has to read your posts on this board or any other. You decide the quality of your life. You can't scapegoat your pathetic existence on having Asperger's Syndrome, this is all you. Imagine how hard it must be for someone in a wheelchair, or a kid with cancer? You ever see them on the internet whining 24 hours a day about how hard life is for them? No, because they have guts, courage, and human spirit. And then there's you. You have options and a life enviable of most of the world. Yet here you are whining on the internet. Get a life...



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15 Apr 2006, 4:50 pm

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OMG---someone with some f**king balls. Lonermutant, you listen to this guy. Don't give us another whiny, infantile post about how "I've been bullied! Waaaah! I'm fat and didn't finish high school! I only want porn sex, no woman will want me!" do us all a favor, get your fat ass off the computer, and grow the f**k up. Seriously, there are billions of people in the world who have had a much harder life than you, made do with much less, and achieved far more than you in life. They also do it without whining, or sitting around feeling sorry for themselves. You seem like an extremely self-indulgent perpetual victim, and I feel sorry for anyone who has to read your posts on this board or any other. You decide the quality of your life. You can't scapegoat your pathetic existence on having Asperger's Syndrome, this is all you. Imagine how hard it must be for someone in a wheelchair, or a kid with cancer? You ever see them on the internet whining 24 hours a day about how hard life is for them? No, because they have guts, courage, and human spirit. And then there's you. You have options and a life enviable of most of the world. Yet here you are whining on the internet. Get a life...




There's this pretty pathetic guy who almost lives in a cafe/minimart down my street. He's the "It's hard being in your late 40's and living with your mom guy", in other words, he has an even more stupid life than me.
I now believe that if they had just sent me to an institution when I was 8, my life would have been much easer, or if I had been really ret*d, life would have been so much easier for me.
The train has long since gone for me now. This will be my final act of whining from me in this topic.