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07 Apr 2011, 11:50 pm

Not read the whole thread but i'd say that matter to most people but it's not the ONLY thing that matters. Or they might matter but not in a conventional way. Like if i see some chick who looks like a total dork i am often hopelessly attracted to her.

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09 Apr 2011, 5:41 pm

Bethie wrote:

albertwesker wrote:

Bethie wrote:

Exhumed wrote:

Men often judge women based on their looks when discussing them.

Think I'll pass on those men.

than you will die alone

i will repeat once again, LOOKS ARE EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO MEN

do you think guys look at internet porn because the women look so friendly and intelligent?

Why do you CONTINUE to presume to speak for 3.5 billion people, exactly, Albert?

I'd also like to know why you declared this:

albertwesker wrote:

all guys care about looks, if he told you he didn't care he was lying because he knew that is what you wanted to hear, kinda like how women say money isn't important but we all know it is

Is making asinine, unqualified declarations about not one but both sexes part of your mojo?

you are asexual

stop speaking for the billions that desire sex

the only one that is "asinine" is you, seriously where do you get the nerve to talk when you don't even want to have sex?

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09 Apr 2011, 6:55 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

looks matter to me but they are not the #1 criteria in my attraction to someone. i expect that looks would matter to my partner as well. that's not to say that my mate should look like a stereotypically hot person or that he/she should want me to "perfect", but that person needs to be hot in my eyes and i want to be hot in his/her eyes.

I like this description. I think it fits me, and does so well. Looks will probably attract me to them at first, but if I like their personality, physical appearance will probably matter less over time.

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09 Apr 2011, 6:59 pm

albertwesker wrote:

LOOKS ARE EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO MEN

Bethie wrote:

Why do you CONTINUE to presume to speak for 3.5 billion people, exactly, Albert?

I'd also like to know why you declared this:

albertwesker wrote:

all guys care about looks, if he told you he didn't care he was lying because he knew that is what you wanted to hear, kinda like how women say money isn't important but we all know it is

albertwesker wrote:

stop speaking for the billions

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09 Apr 2011, 7:14 pm

ok i forgot to include the very few that are asexual and don't like anybody or anything

looks aren't important to them :roll:

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09 Apr 2011, 7:15 pm

albertwesker wrote:

ok i forgot to include the very few that are asexual and don't like anybody or anything

looks aren't important to them :roll:

Is my being asexual like a fetish to you?

I can tell you right now, it won't work out, sweetie.

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09 Apr 2011, 7:23 pm

Bethie wrote:

albertwesker wrote:

ok i forgot to include the very few that are asexual and don't like anybody or anything

looks aren't important to them :roll:

Is my being asexual like a fetish to you?

I can tell you right now, it won't work out, sweetie.

actually i think it makes you a weirdo and freak that shouldn't speak for more normal people

hope that clears up your confusion

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09 Apr 2011, 7:26 pm

albertwesker wrote:

Bethie wrote:

albertwesker wrote:

ok i forgot to include the very few that are asexual and don't like anybody or anything

looks aren't important to them :roll:

Is my being asexual like a fetish to you?

I can tell you right now, it won't work out, sweetie.

actually i think it makes you a weirdo and freak that shouldn't speak for more normal people

hope that clears up your confusion

That was unnecessary, mate. Most of us struggle with weirdness here.

You can keep stating your opinion without attacking her.

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09 Apr 2011, 7:28 pm

albertwesker wrote:

Bethie wrote:

albertwesker wrote:

ok i forgot to include the very few that are asexual and don't like anybody or anything

looks aren't important to them :roll:

Is my being asexual like a fetish to you?

I can tell you right now, it won't work out, sweetie.

actually i think it makes you a weirdo and freak that shouldn't speak for more normal people

hope that clears up your confusion

And with that, any shred of intellectual or moral credibility you might have had is gone.

Out.

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09 Apr 2011, 7:35 pm

Bethie wrote:

albertwesker wrote:

Bethie wrote:

albertwesker wrote:

ok i forgot to include the very few that are asexual and don't like anybody or anything

looks aren't important to them :roll:

Is my being asexual like a fetish to you?

I can tell you right now, it won't work out, sweetie.

actually i think it makes you a weirdo and freak that shouldn't speak for more normal people

hope that clears up your confusion

And with that, any shred of intellectual or moral credibility you might have had is gone.

Out.

my point is valid, if it hurts it's just another example of the truth hurting

if you don't desire sex or feel attraction towards other human beings, then don't act like you know what you are talking about, especially telling guys how to act around women, ,what's next? corky from life goes on speaking about rocket science :roll:

women like you are poison to guys that are trying to understand women

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09 Apr 2011, 8:15 pm

Wait, aren't we all "weirdos" and "freaks"?

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10 Apr 2011, 1:13 am

Looks like Albert and Bethie might have a secret crush on each other. :wink: Wait, err, oops! I guess it's not secret anymore.

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10 Apr 2011, 1:25 am

albertwesker wrote:

women like you are poison to guys that are trying to understand women

You're pleasant. No, really. Super pleasant.

How about you try understanding her point instead of telling her she has no place in this discussion? Because I assure you, she does. Sexual attraction or not, she does desire a relationship.

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10 Apr 2011, 2:00 am

Now that I've read this entire thread, I want those 10 minutes back. :-\

Anyway, looks are important to an extent, but sexual attraction isn't all that important to me when choosing someone to have a romantic relationship with.

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10 Apr 2011, 2:11 am

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10 Apr 2011, 2:15 am

It's essential for a partner to love you for who you are, but I'm of the opinion that they can *also* love you for how you look.

Most men I've known aren't as shallow as some *cough* in this thread have made the male species out to be. Sure, there are douches that want a trophy wife but from where I'm standing they're in the minority.

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