trojan51 wrote:
and i know alot about life, ive almost been to hell and back literally, ive seen people and places that most will never ever see in their lives
really? perhaps you don't really understand us at all. we're experienced our own personal hells.
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but if obese people insult thin people, doesnt that kinda give me the right to do the same back to them
i've only ever been bullied by skinny people, so should i dislike skinny people? the idea is absurd, and nobody on this board is insulting you are they? don't bring your baggage from the outside to pick on us on the inside. seriously.
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i didn't create the beauty standards, you can't blame me for simply restating them
your opinion is by no means a standard, sorry.
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Then I had fat girls trying to ask me out in high school, it insulted my self esteem that a girl who looked bad would equate me to her level if she hadda be 200 something!! !
i'd say that she is probably sorry to have stooped to your level in the first place. most people would take a kind fat person over a mean skinny person any day.
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My grandpa, when asked by my mom why he says those things, says that he has earned the right because he is thin (6'3" and 178 pounds, been that since he was just out of college), he has the right to insult those who don't look good in his eyes.
so, you have become just like your grandfather, with your own narrow standards of beauty - he is being mean to your mother, and you are both being mean to other women. i don't see how you are any different from him, and that is not a good thing to strive for.
here is a better goal for you - cultivate thinking for yourself and learn to have some compassion.
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