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ZX_SpectrumDisorder
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04 Jun 2012, 3:02 pm

Not really, but I'll be sure to offer a critique of your humour at every convenience.



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04 Jun 2012, 3:03 pm

ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
Not really, but I'll be sure to offer a critique of your humour at every convenience.


You can try.



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04 Jun 2012, 3:07 pm

:wink:



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04 Jun 2012, 5:49 pm

Huh? ZX, all of that was confusing as trigonometry to me. I don't know how to take you. :scratch:



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04 Jun 2012, 5:54 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
the f*** with the dancing lol


Haha, yeah

Looks like you had a good time otherwise though, doing the fireworks must have been a blast



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04 Jun 2012, 6:09 pm

edgewaters wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
the f*** with the dancing lol


Haha, yeah

Looks like you had a good time otherwise though, doing the fireworks must have been a blast


but i've danced too, just a little.



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04 Jun 2012, 9:47 pm

Did the girls look you in the eyes while dancing this time? Or were they still being too busy looking elsewhere?

And is the co-worker single? Why not try for dating her? Why is she "just a friend"? I know, it's probably complicated, but I can't help but ask.



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05 Jun 2012, 12:45 am

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Did the girls look you in the eyes while dancing this time? Or were they still being too busy looking elsewhere?


Married women: yes, singles: barely, but duh, it wasn't just with me.



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And is the co-worker single? Why not try for dating her? Why is she "just a friend"? I know, it's probably complicated, but I can't help but ask.


She wasn't single when she was my coworker.

Weird, even some people in real life asked me lol, the answer is simple: i am not her type, she's not my much type either , and i am not seeing her much lately anyway. Our...political/cultural backgrounds are too polarized too.

It's interesting how no one asked about me and the fatter girl in the other pic.... lol (just friends too but still interesting...)



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05 Jun 2012, 9:06 am

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It's interesting how no one asked about me and the fatter girl in the other pic.... lol (just friends too but still interesting...)

No offense, but she looks a bit older and like she's someone's mom. (I actually thought she might be the cute girl's mom.) I realize that might be a really bad assumption on my part, but that was the impression I got.



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05 Jun 2012, 9:15 am

NicoleG wrote:
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It's interesting how no one asked about me and the fatter girl in the other pic.... lol (just friends too but still interesting...)

No offense, but she looks a bit older and like she's someone's mom. (I actually thought she might be the cute girl's mom.) I realize that might be a really bad assumption on my part, but that was the impression I got.



She's of your age, but yea...obesity usually makes one looks older.



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05 Jun 2012, 9:53 am

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05 Jun 2012, 10:02 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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It's interesting how no one asked about me and the fatter girl in the other pic.... lol (just friends too but still interesting...)

No offense, but she looks a bit older and like she's someone's mom. (I actually thought she might be the cute girl's mom.) I realize that might be a really bad assumption on my part, but that was the impression I got.

She's of your age, but yea...obesity usually makes one looks older.

Actually, she just looked "matronly". I don't know if it's that she has more weight or not. It might be a contributing factor. I also don't think she looks obese by the clinical definition (100lbs over ideal BMI, I think is how it's defined here in the states).

I've been accused many times of looking like a teacher, but I think it's because I actually do like working with kids and teaching them a lot more than dealing with adults. I have no idea what constitutes looking "like a teacher" though. :shrug:



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05 Jun 2012, 10:18 am

I've gone off the one I thought was hot. What a let down.



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05 Jun 2012, 1:26 pm

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This one? --->https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/580099_10151026046050466_1906478908_n.jpg

That's obese? Surely she would have to be 1-2 stone (14-28lbs) heavier to be classed as obese. The texture of her skin makes her look older to me.


Yes, she's obese or at least 'fat' and she has no problem to admit it, she's on strict veggie diet tho.



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05 Jun 2012, 3:20 pm

NicoleG wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
NicoleG wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It's interesting how no one asked about me and the fatter girl in the other pic.... lol (just friends too but still interesting...)

No offense, but she looks a bit older and like she's someone's mom. (I actually thought she might be the cute girl's mom.) I realize that might be a really bad assumption on my part, but that was the impression I got.

She's of your age, but yea...obesity usually makes one looks older.

Actually, she just looked "matronly". I don't know if it's that she has more weight or not. It might be a contributing factor. I also don't think she looks obese by the clinical definition (100lbs over ideal BMI, I think is how it's defined here in the states).

I've been accused many times of looking like a teacher, but I think it's because I actually do like working with kids and teaching them a lot more than dealing with adults. I have no idea what constitutes looking "like a teacher" though. :shrug:

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22 Jun 2012, 12:07 pm

Im NT and I cant help but to think about all the difficulty I too, have had on the dance floor- no matter where!

Dancing is very very tricky in my opinion. There is a LOT to it under the best of circumstances. And I have been told numerous times that I am very good socially and am good at making people feel comfortable.

Honestly, at this point in life, I either avoid dancing altogether OR I just do my own thing with ZERO expectations of any response from anyone. It;'s the only way.....