Constant rejection from women is making me suicidal

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A typical aspie male is the poster child of what nearly all (younger) women don't want. Yes, rejections are painful, I've had my share.

I'm now 30 and I've resigned myself into accepting a perpetual life being single. I don't even attempt to hit on girls anymore. Sure, it'll be nice to interact with a girl you're interested in, but face reality (see my 1st paragraph). Strangely, I don't feel lonely.

Being constantly overlooked and seeing girls go for smooth talking small-brained a**holes was making me bitter and misogynistic. I'm now apathetic in seeking a relationship and as a result I'm happy and at peace. I suggest you become stoic and accept the reality of what AS is on a man. Have your soulmate find you, rather than you going through all the rejections.

As for appeasing our ever annoying 'lil friend that us men have, go to bars and pick up the wild drunk chick, or find a chemically dependent girl were you can easily negotiate a "favor", or go to "massage" parlor, or call one of those "special" outcall ads.. Just don't be stupid enough to fall in love with any of these women!! ! Just saying...

Women that are understanding and tolerant of AS symptoms are too few and too far in between. Maybe the pretty girl who likes you and accepts you for who you are is not white or blond, as I seen a post from you that you wouldn't date a non-white girl. Your limiting yourself man!

Being single is mandatory for many aspies. It sucks, but it's reality. Grow to accept it. After all we're in a wrong planet full of prejudiced NTs.

Those women that have rejected you are not worth becoming resentful and misogynistic...

If you've got no friends you should probably concentrate on fixing that first.

I've been suicidal before (when I was , and been as upset before, but never suicidal again. This is because I know that the pain always passes, and that I'll do any mental gymnastics to keep myself alive and out of pain if I just hang in there long enough.

I don't want to say that you should kill yourself, but it seems to me that if you are in some sort of situation that you are pretty certain cannot get better, then living a miserable life is worse than not having one.

People should be nice to suicidal people. They can't think straight and say mean things.

I sometimes feel misogynistic. It is hard not to when it seems like that half of the human race hates you for what you are. But they have no obligation to find me attractive. It is my fault that I am hurt by them.

You do realize that a girlfriend...IS a friend, yes? And the best girlfriends come from...you guessed it...friends!

A long time ago, a very good friend said to me, "a hungry man makes a poor shopper" - she then dumped me.

I don't imagine I'll ever meet a woman, either as a friend or as a lover, who understands me and accepts me entirely for who I am, rather than for what she'd like to mould me into or get from me. There are times when I'm fairly reconciled to that and other times when I despair to the pit of my soul - especially when I take a chance and open up to a woman as a friend only for her to take great delight in trampling me and then have the damn cheek to tell me I brought it upon myself.

Most women I encounter on any kind of emotional level are self-seeking, domineering and all too quick to punish every man they meet for the actions of some a***hole they tangled with years ago. There seems to be a prevailing view that it's quite acceptable for a woman to inflict suffering upon a man whilst hiding behind the credenda that women are the "weaker" sex and that all men are "bastards" regardless of who they are - which we all know is a load of bollocks - all people can be bastards.

I don't consider myself a misogynist as much as a realist in the light of my experience of life. I have plenty of female friends but I no longer let them anywhere near my heart.