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06 Oct 2011, 8:48 pm

Anyone like me.

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06 Oct 2011, 9:04 pm

Grisha wrote:

Ugh - 6 pages and 1,000s of word detailing all the things a guy can do wrong.

This is not doing wonders for my confidence...

Yet you still defend women and blame yourself. It's time to see the light.

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06 Oct 2011, 9:05 pm

SadAspy wrote:

Grisha wrote:

Ugh - 6 pages and 1,000s of word detailing all the things a guy can do wrong.

This is not doing wonders for my confidence...

Yet you still defend women and blame yourself. It's time to see the light.

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06 Oct 2011, 9:13 pm

SadAspy wrote:

Grisha wrote:

Ugh - 6 pages and 1,000s of word detailing all the things a guy can do wrong.

This is not doing wonders for my confidence...

Yet you still defend women and blame yourself. It's time to see the light.

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06 Oct 2011, 11:58 pm

SadAspy wrote:

Grisha wrote:

Ugh - 6 pages and 1,000s of word detailing all the things a guy can do wrong.

This is not doing wonders for my confidence...

Yet you still defend women and blame yourself. It's time to see the light.

I don't want to startle you or anything, but men have made lists in this thread too.

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07 Oct 2011, 12:02 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

Grisha wrote:

Ugh - 6 pages and 1,000s of word detailing all the things a guy can do wrong. This is not doing wonders for my confidence...

Yet you still defend women and blame yourself. It's time to see the light.

I don't want to startle you or anything, but men have made lists in this thread too.

All it takes is a lot of patience in the observation of human behavior, and a little Google-Fu to fill in the gaps.[/quote]

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07 Oct 2011, 12:06 am

Fnord wrote:

All it takes is a lot of patience in the observation of human behavior, and a little Google-Fu to fill in the gaps.

To spot an abuser?

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07 Oct 2011, 2:23 am

techstepgenr8tion wrote:

I remember when Meghan Kelly had a highlight in Maxim and she kind of abstractly mentioned that she felt that sort of pressure - mostly from other women either - that it was inappropriate or wrong to be sexy and like you're suppose to surpress it for the self esteem of others. I think our culture and just how hard people are on each other tends to help create problems like this and yes, its a real shame.

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Just like I never understood why guys who were geeks or dorks even got dehumanized back in gradeschool, higshcool, even through their 20's to an extent, I never undstood why unattractive or overweight women got that either.

Irony.

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07 Oct 2011, 10:17 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Fnord wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

Grisha wrote:

Ugh - 6 pages and 1,000s of word detailing all the things a guy can do wrong. This is not doing wonders for my confidence...

Yet you still defend women and blame yourself. It's time to see the light.

I don't want to startle you or anything, but men have made lists in this thread too.

All it takes is a lot of patience in the observation of human behavior, and a little Google-Fu to fill in the gaps.

To spot an abuser?

No, to make extensive lists that detail what people do.

... context, dear! Context...

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07 Oct 2011, 10:27 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

Grisha wrote:

Ugh - 6 pages and 1,000s of word detailing all the things a guy can do wrong.

This is not doing wonders for my confidence...

Yet you still defend women and blame yourself. It's time to see the light.

I don't want to startle you or anything, but men have made lists in this thread too.

Yeah...there really are too many white knights here.

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07 Oct 2011, 10:31 am

SadAspy wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

Grisha wrote:

Ugh - 6 pages and 1,000s of word detailing all the things a guy can do wrong.

This is not doing wonders for my confidence...

Yet you still defend women and blame yourself. It's time to see the light.

I don't want to startle you or anything, but men have made lists in this thread too.

Yeah...there really are too many white knights here.

men who care for and support women (and who think highly of women in general) tend to be more successful at dating than men who disrespect and dislike women.

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07 Oct 2011, 10:36 am

hyperlexian wrote:

men who care for and support women (and who think highly of women in general) tend to be more successful at dating than men who disrespect and dislike women.

Not really. First of all, many of the men here defending women aren't actually successful with them.

Why do so many bad boys have women hanging off them, while so many nice, polite guys can't get a date? And please give me a response other than "nice guys are just faking it". That's a PROJECTION, and you know it.

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07 Oct 2011, 10:38 am

bad boys are good for a fling/one night stand.
i'm happily staying with my good guy for my long term relationship.
he's so very far removed from your classic 'bad boy'.
not that you'll listen because it doesn't agree with your ridiculous attitude. :roll: