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I totally agree with Aridarr.

Your meaning to tell me you've never been close to a man (or woman if your gay or bi), and the thought of growing old without ever obtaining it does not bother you?

Snake, the thought of never being close to a man doesn't just bother me...it terrifies me.

I just try not to let that effect the way I think of people.

Edit - Of course, I am quite young. I am not so arrogant as to assume that I will not become bitter and angry with age. But then I too will be wrong.

So it terrifies you, you try not to think about it but the fear is there. Wait until your window starts closing on you... It never bothered me until about 2 or 3 yrs after highschool... Eventually it got to me. But now I'm so confused...... I'm 27 and living on the edge of suicide, it's like I feel disconnected, out of place, and like i'm treated as a lesser human being because of it...As I said, people need to feel connected and loved. At some point it is an emotional need, though those who are getting it and always were don't have a right to make a judgement on those of us who aren't...... Plus men, biologically, have a higher sex drive than most women too. Not saying women don't need it also (atleast until they have a baby, then their need is filled), but I think this is also alot because of gender roles. The woman is treated as the "object" of the game usually, and in our animal roots, the men fought over the woman. So woman have more room usually to be picky than men do (most of the time).

I'm not sure what to say to you.

I sympathise with your situation, and I understand what you are trying to say. And trust me, I do fear for my future self... But I stand by my earlier posts.

It's not a 'need' - but a very strong 'want'. If you kill yourself over it then it shows just how much it has effected you (okay! We're not disputing the possibility a lack of intimacy can make someone depressed and further suicidal). {In this I am calling 'It' as being sexual intimacy}

People need to feel connected and loved and accepted - Yes okay I could go with that point of view. For example, some people have families who are accepting and loving and make you feel part of the bigger picture. Other people have turned to religion to feel connected and accepted.

But I think this shows that the need is not solely based around *women* specifically - More that it is important to be loved. Surely this is an important recognition(if it is one? tell me..) because it appears you are ranting about women all the time.

I agree with Aridarr that intimacy is not a right. If you can't get it, then too bad. Nobody is obliged to pander to the wants and desires of others, and no particular sex exists for the singular purpose of pleasing the other.

That said, I also hope that Litigious will let his good side come back. But that will only happen when he takes responsibility for himself. As long as he thinks of himself as a victim, he'll be powerless to do anything about his situation.

Also women who 'sleep about' a lot are often labeled as sluts by both men and other women, a view society seems to hold, yet men who 'score everynight' are labeled as manly.

Women who would otherwise take up more short-term sexual encounters as they present themselves do not for fear of being seen as a slut in the eyes of their social group.

Is that I'd rather not live than grow old smacking my dick. I'd just feel like such a looser.

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jezus christ man.
over 7 pages in three days about soem f*ckup that would condone rapes cause he considers all females as b*****s. (and dont go with the "i didnt say i condone it", you said they deserve it, which is essentially even worse, and technically implies condoning, its just a few steps farther)

{edit: i apologise, i didnt read right, i thought it was all from one person. i respond mostly to litigious posts here, snakes opinions seem reasonable, in fact i agree with a lot of it. he should not have lashed out at source though, she said nothing wrong}


i dont know how old you are but....

look i once felt awfull about not being able to satisfy my sexual needs and blamed female mentality for them only digging the obviously WRONG guys. but i was a bloody fifteen year old kid with a desease called puberty, which is an overproduction of hormones.
and never ever have i thought it made anyone deserve to be raped. rape is an extremely bad thing with which you victemize one specific individual who has no blame in the general mentality an entire gender seems to have.

i do disagree with the common mentality of women, and most are b*****s that'll only have it their way, i generally hate women. but dont forget that men are just as bad. most men are a$$holes. their are involuntarily celebate females as well, want them to rape you now? and dont say yes please, thats a lie, you wont get to choose who is going to rape you. and besides that, it could easely be a gay male to. in your opinion, you deserve to be raped by a homo.

but badly as i think of humans, this definetely doesnt mean any of them deserves to be raped because of this, nor does it mean that ALL are bad. im a huge misanthrope and in case of a "my stepmother is an alien" scenario, id tell those aliens to nuke the planet, but if you condone rape of whoever just cause your a freaking loser that cant be cool about his celebecy (im a 23 year old celeb, and f**k, do i need to get some action, but i just wont let that effect me. also there are impotents you know..), then you're the a$$hole and not them. if anything, your the kind of people that would feed my misanthropy even more then "those b*****s". i advise you to shut up, and pay a visit to the red light zone.

just cause they have p****, doesnt give you the right at it. and there is prostitution.
besides, if any girl want to pity-f*ck me i wouldnt even want it anyway. theres more to life then sex. and sex is overrated anyway. especially if thats the way your thinking, since without the emotionality and the mutuality behind it, its little more then masturbating with a p**** instead of a hand.

ow and one more thing...keep it up and ill plead for a ban.

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i see its even more then one f**kup. litigious was the original one. well whatever..


ow i forgot to mention, that quite a few femaels contribute to the cause of men raping women, cause some intentionally go out to make insecure men even more insecure. them b*****s should be burned.
but thats a select few.
and actually in my life i have gotten to know some precious ladies. none of them i ever dated or anything, but good souls do exist. its the general lack of judge of soul thats creating the problems. everyone is looking for ego, everyone is overlooking whats importend, the only thing thats real. both sexes have this lack.

I wasn't condoning rape.

I also did not say they deserve to be raped. Rape is a sick thing. I think you misunderstood what I was saying.

The only reason I replied back to this board is to clarify that I'm NOT supporting rape. I did say some girls bring it on themselves, but I'm not supporting it happening. All I meant was that some girls put themselves in position for those sick enough who would do something like that. That would still not justify them being raped. It's kinda like, if a gay man walks into a redneck bar, he's cruising for an asswhooping, but it's not justified that they would beat him up. But it's inedible it will happen, but still it's f****d up that they would do that to him. But he should have had better since.
I'm not posting anymore on this thread, I just wanted to clear myself up.