What Is Most "Attractive" To You?

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I answered Knowledge & Wisdom.

Not really sure if I could say. How a person looks seems really general and obvious. I've found more people online that I don't know what they look like and have more fun talking to, compared to few I've known in person who, more often than not, seem very shallow. Of course that's not the same for everyone, just my own experience. I think that I enjoy just being able to get to know a person, especially in a way that I have more time to think about what I want to say and have less distractions, and probably wouldn't care so much about how a person looks.

A sweet face and genuine smile, I like sunny girls

I'm usually attracted to girls by first looks, then interests and talents or their general personality. I'm kind of in one of the I suppose stereotypical zones where I can only really attract girls who share the same interests as me seeing as most girls in England around my age aren't into the skateboarding musician type which sucks for me but I've at least found my ideal girl for the time being, getting with her's a whole other thing though.

I find women who look like this quite attractive:

*Material Wealth.

No and yes...they need to be able to provide, but I don't care if they are rich.

*Physical Appearance.

They have to be decently attractive....but I'm relaxed in that category. I've decided that I need to be the better looking one in the relationship probably anyways.

BUT they cannot be overweight. I'm not saying this to be rude...fat people can be attractive and have relationships....but running and doing a lot of physical activity to me is important. I want someone who can promote that lifestyle. Plus, I really just dislike it....I'm sorry. I just don't.

*Political Affiliation.

If they are the same religion, I doubt they will differ from me. If they do, it will be an issue by issue thing. As long as we agree on gay marriage, abortion, education, and a few other key issues...I don't care.

*Religious Beliefs.

YES, YES, AND MAJOR YES. Seriously best thing ever is when a guy has a strong testimony.

*Personal Philosophy.

Ugh, for sure. I hate when people don't want to improve themselves. Or if our definition of what happens after this life is different. However, there shouldn't be an issue with that since I will date in the church only.

*Artistic Talent / Creativity.

Ya know, it's kinda cool when he is good at it. But, I must be better, especially at drawing. It's kinda the reason I'm alive...
So they better be able to appreciate my talent in it.

*Educational Level.

Definite turn-on and turn-off. I get so frustrated when people can't speak online. My mind labels them as no immediately.

*Knowledge & Wisdom.

This is cool as long as they are't a smart A.

*Sense of Humor.

I loooooooooooooooove laughing, so duh.

*Sensuality / Sexuality.

They need some, but not a ton. I think I can make up for it.

*Power / Authority.

Turn-off and on. If they know how to use it at the appropriate time If not, worst trait ever.

*Friendliness / Niceness.

Important...but they don't have to be good at being social. I'd prefer an aspie actually,

*Popularity / Sociability.

They have to be able to get along with people, but not popular...99% of the time those guys are ret*ds....no offence. Which is weird because the first two guys who had crushes on me in high school were popular. (that made it more nerve-wrecking though!)

*Modesty / Shyness.

This is so cute! But it can't be their entire personality.

*Inaccessibility / Remoteness

This is dumb, but I understand it...as long as they are there when I need them.

Material Wealth.
Money is not important to me & I do NOT want a rich fancy life-style. Someone with a lot of money may see me as a lazy leech on her because I'm on disability thou I do WANT to work but finking a job is extremely difficult for me here because of my disabilities.

Physical Appearance.
Looks don't matter to me but it would be good if she dressed kind of conservatively instead of drawing attention to herself with her looks.

Political Affiliation.
I'm liberal but I don't discuss politics a lot & I have mixed feelings about lots of political things; so it doesn't matter as long as she doesn't have a problem.

Religious Beliefs.
I'm a Secular Humanist but I admire conservative traditional moral values & I believe in being respectful of others beliefs or disbeliefs; so her religious beleifs don't matter as long as she respects my disbeliefs.

Personal Philosophy.
I don't know what personal philosophy means.

Artistic Talent / Creativity.
I'm NOT artistic or creative or talented at all. It doesn't matter if she is but artistic creative types tend to be spontaneous & disorganized & I kind of need predictability & routines.

Educational Level.
Not important but I would prefer someone less "smart". Smart people tend to put me down or make me feel stupid. & based on my limited relationship experience; a smart person won't value or consider my input as much & will take charge of relationship & other decisions that involve both of us instead of us making them together as a team. I also think girls who are kind of stupid can be funny & cute. Someone who's dyslexic(I'm dyslexic myself) or has other learning problems might be good.

Knowledge & Wisdom.
Don't care.

Sense of Humor.
Big plus. Especially if it's offensive like if she quotes Family Guy & Beavis & ButtHead.

Sensuality / Sexuality.
I'm NOT into random casual sex but that might could be really good after the relationship is serious but it's NOT required.

Power / Authority.
Huge TURN-OFF.

Friendliness / Niceness.
Doesn't matter as long as she's sweet to me.

Popularity / Sociability.
I'm not a social person & it would be better if she wasn't much on one either.

Modesty / Shyness.
I am myself & I'm more attracted to that.

Inaccessibility / Remoteness.
Not important in the begging but I would want my partner to be very clingy & close to me after a bit. That's the most important thing in this list.

Other: ________________ (Please Explain).
Dependent & sensitive.

smart guys are a big turn on, also charismatic sexy, at the end of the day if they give me butterflies most of the other stuff I'm looking for goes out of the window I rarely get the butterflies for anyone