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27 Dec 2011, 8:29 pm

Being a creep sounds like hard work almost as hard as trying to make oneself lovable to some one . :wink:


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28 Dec 2011, 9:44 am

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Being a creep sounds like hard work almost as hard as trying to make oneself lovable to some one . :wink:


Actually no.

I manage to look creepy without trying or even saying a word - just looking Aspergian seems to be good enough... :(



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28 Dec 2011, 9:57 am

Grisha wrote:
I manage to look creepy without trying or even saying a word - just looking Aspergian seems to be good enough... :(


Don't be silly! You don't look a bit creepy in that photo you have - just attentive.



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28 Dec 2011, 10:17 am

Tequila wrote:
Grisha wrote:
I manage to look creepy without trying or even saying a word - just looking Aspergian seems to be good enough... :(


Don't be silly! You don't look a bit creepy in that photo you have - just attentive.


I'm much creepier in person, ask anyone who's actually met me IRL...



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28 Dec 2011, 10:57 am

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I'm much creepier in person, ask anyone who's actually met me IRL...


Music is your life, right? ;)

And... how creepy and in what way?



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28 Dec 2011, 11:13 am

Tequila wrote:
Grisha wrote:
I'm much creepier in person, ask anyone who's actually met me IRL...


Music is your life, right? ;)

And... how creepy and in what way?


It's not anything I do or say, it's a vibe-y thing, which can be just as bad...

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28 Dec 2011, 12:12 pm

Haha...you look nothing like Willard! And I've seen how all the girls let you know they want to draw swirlies in your hair...

Oh yeah...Radiohead rocks...



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28 Dec 2011, 12:15 pm

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It's not anything I do or say, it's a vibe-y thing, which can be just as bad...


Does it apply to your dealings with everyone or just certain people of a particular gender? ;)



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28 Dec 2011, 1:26 pm

I'm sorry if I've ever offended anyone here, I just want people to like me, and yet I creep everyone out...



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28 Dec 2011, 1:35 pm

Tequila wrote:
Grisha wrote:
It's not anything I do or say, it's a vibe-y thing, which can be just as bad...


Does it apply to your dealings with everyone or just certain people of a particular gender? ;)


Just about everyone, regardless of gender, unless they've known me for some time and understand that's it's "just how I am".



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28 Dec 2011, 4:03 pm

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I get annoyed at how "creep" and "stalker" get thrown around here so much, it's trivialized an otherwise important issue...
Not to mention that the somewhat shrouded term of "creepy" describes a typical interpretation the self-deprecative aspergian male would see himself being perceived as by his adversaries of an abysmal, yet normal, social encounter.

Is the only appreciated concensus to communicate neurotypically needled - on a forum with our own kind - in order to not be perceived as creeps?

I can't shake the feeling that parts of the forum is unknowingly, and definitely closemouthedly, being over taken by wannabe aspies with agendas of insidious transparent manipulation to further ones exaggerated societal convictions and exhuming, and publicly humiliate, innocent males - and that this commissional endeavour has been going on for too long already. Now, that's what I call creepy.

But I hope I've just overanalyzed something again...


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28 Dec 2011, 6:24 pm

Grisha wrote:
aussiebloke wrote:
Being a creep sounds like hard work almost as hard as trying to make oneself lovable to some one . :wink:


Actually no.

I manage to look creepy without trying or even saying a word - just looking Aspergian seems to be good enough... :(


So true 8O

Book shop lady opens the shop this very morning greets everybody with a big smile they say nothing in return some may even manage a grunt and she's still happy :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

I say (1st) to her good morning how are you ?

I think I ruined her day......


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28 Dec 2011, 6:26 pm

Grisha wrote:
Tequila wrote:
Grisha wrote:
I manage to look creepy without trying or even saying a word - just looking Aspergian seems to be good enough... :(


Don't be silly! You don't look a bit creepy in that photo you have - just attentive.


I'm much creepier in person, ask anyone who's actually met me IRL...


it's when he opens his mouth that does it, flat drone like voice etc etc :wink:


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28 Dec 2011, 6:44 pm

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I have yet to be creeped on...


I just saw you on "post a pic"

Thats just great another photo virginal autistics can beat their meat to.

You wanted creepy will that do :wink:


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28 Dec 2011, 6:45 pm

Kenjuudo wrote:
Grisha wrote:
I get annoyed at how "creep" and "stalker" get thrown around here so much, it's trivialized an otherwise important issue...
Not to mention that the somewhat shrouded term of "creepy" describes a typical interpretation the self-deprecative aspergian male would see himself being perceived as by his adversaries of an abysmal, yet normal, social encounter.

Is the only appreciated concensus to communicate neurotypically needled - on a forum with our own kind - in order to not be perceived as creeps?

I can't shake the feeling that parts of the forum is unknowingly, and definitely closemouthedly, being over taken by wannabe aspies with agendas of insidious transparent manipulation to further ones exaggerated societal convictions and exhuming, and publicly humiliate, innocent males - and that this commissional endeavour has been going on for too long already. Now, that's what I call creepy.

But I hope I've just overanalyzed something again...


Have you been drinking the cool aide :wink:


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28 Dec 2011, 7:34 pm

Kenjuudo wrote:
Grisha wrote:
I get annoyed at how "creep" and "stalker" get thrown around here so much, it's trivialized an otherwise important issue...
Not to mention that the somewhat shrouded term of "creepy" describes a typical interpretation the self-deprecative aspergian male would see himself being perceived as by his adversaries of an abysmal, yet normal, social encounter.

Is the only appreciated concensus to communicate neurotypically needled - on a forum with our own kind - in order to not be perceived as creeps?

I can't shake the feeling that parts of the forum is unknowingly, and definitely closemouthedly, being over taken by wannabe aspies with agendas of insidious transparent manipulation to further ones exaggerated societal convictions and exhuming, and publicly humiliate, innocent males - and that this commissional endeavour has been going on for too long already. Now, that's what I call creepy.

But I hope I've just overanalyzed something again...


I think I got the gist of what you're saying, and found it quite interesting, but I found the language to be a bit too aspergerian (dense) for me to comprehend. Perhaps I'm suffering a bit of brain fog, this is not normally a problem I have. Could I ask you to reword in slightly more simplistic terms what you've said above?


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