What Men Really Want

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....I am sire most women ....

OMG you just shattered my outdated stereotype that all men are sensitive and well-rounded. I feel so enlightened now

That's why i said I, I like to be honest for what i need at my age it's my personal preference and any one that is judgemental or doesn't understand that, Go do what your good at and go fu*k yourself

That's why i said I, I like to be honest for what i need at my age it's my personal preference and any one that is judgemental or doesn't understand that, Go do what your good at and go fu*k yourself

So 7 pages later, we have still not advanced further than men needing a cook, a maid, a sex slave and a bit of a cuddle every now and again. Great!

Surely you got more out of this thread than that.... or am I missing the joke?

You all (for the most part) missed my point, I want the WOMEN to tell us the questions I asked, NOT the men, I want to see what they think of us, if anything at all. I want to see and understand their own virtues and values they hold of men, what they think of us. we do the chasing, they do the choosing and rejecting. I want to see and understand what they see, what they value, its different then mens.

I do not care to hear the general over all that gets ignored, the easy way out. I want cold hard facts of differences in virtues and values according to our sexes. women are NOT wired the same as men!

We men seem to struggle to understand and be accepted by them. to increase our odds, while they do not seem to care to understand us, as if were a commodity that they already judged. that they do not have to fight for acceptance as we do unless its something unusual then the common man, something new to them that impresses them. not only what is their alpha male, but as well what is their reject? their friends only boundaries..

They tell us given time we will find our own romance, our own fit, thats an illusion because of odds, we need to know what they want in order to gain what we desire, aside from a lonely life. and thus in reflection I want to hear their same.

I am sick of the chase, I want to know what they chase after. what they are attracted too, and what they are not. what is so common to them that makes the rest of us boring. were not wired the same nor truly have the same options. in the game of love were not equals, all they see is what they can not have, while many of us men struggle just to have. how do they see us, what are we to them?

we men struggle so hard that many times were happy with what we get. where the females get board. we take them for granted less then they do us, or so it seems to me. were to easily replaceable, and if this was not so, then take a closer look at the divorce rate and what sex initiates it and why.

I want a hard core debate, for in the end it does not matter who is right or wrong, all that matters is, thats the way it is. the expectations and the unspoken demands of the sex's. the way it is.

One of the things I found most true about females, you have to read between the lines of what they don't say, in order to find the truth. they do not want to deal with the fall out or closure issues, they just want to move on. they get to pick and choose. and they hate it when they get rejected, while men have to live with it all the time as a fact of life.

To me it seems were nothing but a fad to them, test drive us and if its not what they want then move on, instead of fighting to hold on to what love should be, something that should be fought for together to make it work. I know not all are the same, but in general this is how its becoming. men are no more then a commodity in our modern day world. our hearts mean nothing unless it means something to them, and we easily boar them.

I do not want to hear of someday I will find the right one for me, I want to hear, what you want (and don't want).
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Most of you do not get it.

On the thread of what women want, tons of men speculate and ask questions.
Where women do not seem to feel the need to do so, and so my question would be, why? why do they feel so little the need to understand us, to pursue us, to ask much of anything. and the ramification of such states of mind and reasoning compared to us men. their values of us. we put much value into trying to understand females and what they want, yet they do not seem to care to do the same when it comes to us men, therefore it seems we have less value to them then they do to us.