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DerStadtschutz
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10 Oct 2012, 11:04 pm

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DerStadtschutz has some gorgeous eyelashes

:donecreepin'


lol, really? I don't get it, they're just eyelashes, but if you feel that way, carry on.



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10 Oct 2012, 11:05 pm

nessa238 wrote:
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You don't look anywhere near as friendly or interesting as DerStadtschutz (what does this word mean and is he German?)
and im a dick? that was a rude thing to say. He looks interestingly effeminate possibly bisexual.


thats the funny part, even the person trying to throw some sort of insult to me is even lesser a dick than youve been around these parts. Its not just this thread, you just sound like you want a trophy woman instead of a girlfriend. And as i said before, unless you have the stuff to get a trophy you better stop looking for it


It never ceases to amaze me how NT-like many posters on this board are. I come here to escape this type - there's literally no escape from them!

Are they wannabe-NTs or actual NTs I ask myself


i dont think NT is a label for behavior. Used in that manner makes it sound like all NTs are idiots/douches/etc. Instead of just despising the idiots/douches/etc.


Well I don't understand why a person with AS/whatever a person has who comes on here, would want to emulate the behaviour of the type of person who judges us harshly and rejects us - it makes no sense.


me neither, but just fyi that using labels as a descriptor of all the people is very "NT" like behavior :wink:



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10 Oct 2012, 11:06 pm

MXH wrote:
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until you show us what your gf looks like your posts are meaningless.


LOL, when will you understand, dude? Looks don't mean jack sh**, and it wouldn't matter if I was dating a super model; You'd still most likely say she's ugly just out of spite. Now piss off, would you, shallow man?
looks mean sh** to everyone who is not you(for good reason too LOL..now stop being a dick. You told me to eat your ass the first time you saw me and now you are telling me to piss off when i have nvr insulted you and your best effeminate friend is. LOL go back to swinging your nunchucks you fat b***h rofl.


Yes you - photo please so we can asses your fabled looks!
i have posted pics before go search. Insulting my looks will only make you look like a b***h..not that you don't already. If i recall you also told wolfheart he doesn't have AS.(its not asd fyi)


because you're aparently too much of a wuss to find it yourself i found it for others
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22270944

conclusion, just another meathead.


Oh no a personal trainer! Those types are sadists!



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10 Oct 2012, 11:07 pm

MXH wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
MXH wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
MXH wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
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You don't look anywhere near as friendly or interesting as DerStadtschutz (what does this word mean and is he German?)
and im a dick? that was a rude thing to say. He looks interestingly effeminate possibly bisexual.


thats the funny part, even the person trying to throw some sort of insult to me is even lesser a dick than youve been around these parts. Its not just this thread, you just sound like you want a trophy woman instead of a girlfriend. And as i said before, unless you have the stuff to get a trophy you better stop looking for it


It never ceases to amaze me how NT-like many posters on this board are. I come here to escape this type - there's literally no escape from them!

Are they wannabe-NTs or actual NTs I ask myself


i dont think NT is a label for behavior. Used in that manner makes it sound like all NTs are idiots/douches/etc. Instead of just despising the idiots/douches/etc.


Well I don't understand why a person with AS/whatever a person has who comes on here, would want to emulate the behaviour of the type of person who judges us harshly and rejects us - it makes no sense.


me neither, but just fyi that using labels as a descriptor of all the people is very "NT" like behavior :wink:


Yes I know but it's the easiest form of shorthand for what I mean - ie neurologically normal and looking down on me because I'm not



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10 Oct 2012, 11:08 pm

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Well, wtfid2 is the same guy who sent me a rather rude PM making fun of my lack of friends because I failed to check my PMs for a few days. This type of behavior doesn't surprise me a bit.
i actually sent you a nice pmsaying you sounded cool..which you read and ignored and then i sent a followup saying you have no reason to complain about having no friends when you ignore people.


No, you sent me the nice PM (which, like I told you, I didn't see or read at all, because I normally don't check my PMs, because every forum I post on I usually get nothing but spam), then sent me this:

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And so I said I wouldn't reply to your other PM because of it. It'd have been one thing if you'd simply asked me why I hadn't responded to the other PM, but using my crappy job and my lack of friends to attack me was pretty low.


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10 Oct 2012, 11:09 pm

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
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unti you show us what your gf looks like your posts are meaningless.


well, i can tell she looks a hell of a lot better than yours
Im sure if i wanted i could get a girl pettier than his....


He likes her and most likely thinks she's attractive, what you think of her looks is totally irrelevant unless you're invested in competitive homosocial bonding.
If he's in a happy relationship, guess what? He wins.
I think it would be healthier if we treating getting with someone we actually liked as a goal instead trying to get with someone somebody else would like so they'll be jealous of you. It's ridiculous.


THANK YOU. This is what I've been trying to say.



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10 Oct 2012, 11:09 pm

nessa238 wrote:
MXH wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
DerStadtschutz wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
until you show us what your gf looks like your posts are meaningless.


LOL, when will you understand, dude? Looks don't mean jack sh**, and it wouldn't matter if I was dating a super model; You'd still most likely say she's ugly just out of spite. Now piss off, would you, shallow man?
looks mean sh** to everyone who is not you(for good reason too LOL..now stop being a dick. You told me to eat your ass the first time you saw me and now you are telling me to piss off when i have nvr insulted you and your best effeminate friend is. LOL go back to swinging your nunchucks you fat b***h rofl.


Yes you - photo please so we can asses your fabled looks!
i have posted pics before go search. Insulting my looks will only make you look like a b***h..not that you don't already. If i recall you also told wolfheart he doesn't have AS.(its not asd fyi)


because you're aparently too much of a wuss to find it yourself i found it for others
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22270944

conclusion, just another meathead.


Oh no a personal trainer! Those types are sadists!
stereotyping is a much better look than being NT huh Also it is A NT not AN NT.


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10 Oct 2012, 11:10 pm

FFS! this upholds everything I think about the mental health industry! A person with zero compassion or empathy is "going to school to be a clinical psychologist"!

This explains why mental health services are utter s**t!

Please don't do it!

Mentally ill people will suffer if they come into contact with you - take it from me!

Stick to the personal training - the people you'll deal with in that field are predominantly thick twats anyway

The mentally ill are often intelligent sensitive people who don't need the likes of you
f-king them up even more!



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10 Oct 2012, 11:12 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
MXH wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
DerStadtschutz wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
until you show us what your gf looks like your posts are meaningless.


LOL, when will you understand, dude? Looks don't mean jack sh**, and it wouldn't matter if I was dating a super model; You'd still most likely say she's ugly just out of spite. Now piss off, would you, shallow man?
looks mean sh** to everyone who is not you(for good reason too LOL..now stop being a dick. You told me to eat your ass the first time you saw me and now you are telling me to piss off when i have nvr insulted you and your best effeminate friend is. LOL go back to swinging your nunchucks you fat b***h rofl.


Yes you - photo please so we can asses your fabled looks!
i have posted pics before go search. Insulting my looks will only make you look like a b***h..not that you don't already. If i recall you also told wolfheart he doesn't have AS.(its not asd fyi)


because you're aparently too much of a wuss to find it yourself i found it for others
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22270944

conclusion, just another meathead.


Oh no a personal trainer! Those types are sadists!
stereotyping is a much better look than being NT huh Also it is A NT not AN NT.


Not if NT is being used as a noun in and of itself, not for what the words represent

ie:-

A neurotypical

but

An NT



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10 Oct 2012, 11:13 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
You don't look anywhere near as friendly or interesting as DerStadtschutz (what does this word mean and is he German?)
and im a dick? that was a rude thing to say. He looks interestingly effeminate possibly bisexual.


b*****s love effeminate bisexual looking dudes, bro.

See every male pop star and movie star ever.



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10 Oct 2012, 11:14 pm

btw, id like to adress my previous claim of delusion. Any person that says
" i have nvr insulted you" (btw, its never, with an e)
and follows the next sentence with
"LOL go back to swinging your nunchucks you fat b***h rofl"
is obviously on a superiority trip. Its honestly the funniest thing ive read in a long time seeing you go around making such a huff and fuzz about being singleand not noticing that maybe the problem is that you're an a**hole larger than uranus.



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10 Oct 2012, 11:15 pm

MXH wrote:
btw, id like to adress my previous claim of delusion. Any person that says
" i have nvr insulted you" (btw, its never, with an e)
and follows the next sentence with
"LOL go back to swinging your nunchucks you fat b***h rofl"
is obviously on a superiority trip. Its honestly the funniest thing ive read in a long time seeing you go around making such a huff and fuzz about being singleand not noticing that maybe the problem is that you're an a**hole larger than uranus.


LOL - well said!



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10 Oct 2012, 11:15 pm

nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
MXH wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
DerStadtschutz wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
until you show us what your gf looks like your posts are meaningless.


LOL, when will you understand, dude? Looks don't mean jack sh**, and it wouldn't matter if I was dating a super model; You'd still most likely say she's ugly just out of spite. Now piss off, would you, shallow man?
looks mean sh** to everyone who is not you(for good reason too LOL..now stop being a dick. You told me to eat your ass the first time you saw me and now you are telling me to piss off when i have nvr insulted you and your best effeminate friend is. LOL go back to swinging your nunchucks you fat b***h rofl.


Yes you - photo please so we can asses your fabled looks!
i have posted pics before go search. Insulting my looks will only make you look like a b***h..not that you don't already. If i recall you also told wolfheart he doesn't have AS.(its not asd fyi)


because you're aparently too much of a wuss to find it yourself i found it for others
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22270944

conclusion, just another meathead.
no it is always a not an. Don;t tell me what to and not to do. You have insulted wolfheart, and you constantly insult me. I suggest you find a new therapist. Also stop saying that there are too many NT wannabes on this board. Autism is on a spectrum. There are people like you with severe forms, and people like wolfheart and myself who have more mild forms.

Oh no a personal trainer! Those types are sadists!
stereotyping is a much better look than being NT huh Also it is A NT not AN NT.


Not if NT is being used as a noun in and of itself, not for what the words represent

ie:-

A neurotypical

but

An NT


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10 Oct 2012, 11:16 pm

nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
MXH wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
DerStadtschutz wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
until you show us what your gf looks like your posts are meaningless.


LOL, when will you understand, dude? Looks don't mean jack sh**, and it wouldn't matter if I was dating a super model; You'd still most likely say she's ugly just out of spite. Now piss off, would you, shallow man?
looks mean sh** to everyone who is not you(for good reason too LOL..now stop being a dick. You told me to eat your ass the first time you saw me and now you are telling me to piss off when i have nvr insulted you and your best effeminate friend is. LOL go back to swinging your nunchucks you fat b***h rofl.


Yes you - photo please so we can asses your fabled looks!
i have posted pics before go search. Insulting my looks will only make you look like a b***h..not that you don't already. If i recall you also told wolfheart he doesn't have AS.(its not asd fyi)


because you're aparently too much of a wuss to find it yourself i found it for others
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22270944

conclusion, just another meathead.
no it is always a not an. Don;t tell me what to and not to do. You have insulted wolfheart, and you constantly insult me. I suggest you find a new therapist. Also stop saying that there are too many NT wannabes on this board. Autism is on a spectrum. There are people like you with severe forms, and people like wolfheart and myself who have more mild forms.

Oh no a personal trainer! Those types are sadists!
stereotyping is a much better look than being NT huh Also it is A NT not AN NT.


Not if NT is being used as a noun in and of itself, not for what the words represent

ie:-

A neurotypical

but

An NT
why didnt my post show???


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10 Oct 2012, 11:16 pm

MXH wrote:
btw, id like to adress my previous claim of delusion. Any person that says
" i have nvr insulted you" (btw, its never, with an e)
and follows the next sentence with
"LOL go back to swinging your nunchucks you fat b***h rofl"
is obviously on a superiority trip. Its honestly the funniest thing ive read in a long time seeing you go around making such a huff and fuzz about being singleand not noticing that maybe the problem is that you're an a**hole larger than uranus.


Dude, you should really consider becoming a comedian. You crack me up to no end.



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10 Oct 2012, 11:16 pm

1000Knives wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
You don't look anywhere near as friendly or interesting as DerStadtschutz (what does this word mean and is he German?)
and im a dick? that was a rude thing to say. He looks interestingly effeminate possibly bisexual.


b*****s love effeminate bisexual looking dudes, bro.

See every male pop star and movie star ever.


Not always

I don't find him effeminate looking anyway, just kind of neutral

A person can be ostensibly attractive/average looking but not sexually attractive to another person

Two very different things - general attractiveness to others and level of sexual attractiveness to a specific person



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