How Not to be a Creep

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there this guy at my work (he mildly mental challenge or autism) but he is always talking about creepy guys
his name ''d''
d: hey ''Bill'' guess what I saw a creepy guy in my neighborhood
d: a creepy guy said hi to me today
d: there was creepy guy walking by here today

Im not kidding, he's always telling me about creepy guys all the time.
all these forum on these creepy guy remind me of him.

Please, please keep Piers Moron. We absolutely don't want him here.

Cheers went up from me when I heard that Jeremy Clarkson punched him at the British Press Awards in 2004.

I'm not going to lie, Piers Morgan fits right in with most of our media.

He's completely unbearable and ridiculous.

I tend to think women call a man a creep when the man is expressing sexual interest in some manner, but the women is not interested in the man sexually. Or the man continues to express interest even after it has been declared there is no mutual sexual interest.

Theres so many scenarios involved with this, that it's hard to come to any single conclusions. But sometimes I think females use of the term is appropriate, sometimes I think it can be used just because they are seeking a way to insult.

For example if your in a nightclub, you stare at a girl, she looks at you, you smile, she looks away without any facial expression indicating interest. If you continue staring and smiling at her, that is being a creep.

You go up to a girl at a bar, hit on her, she turns you down. If you keep going back over and over, thats being a creep.

However if guy goes up to a girl, asks her to hangout, or whatever, she kinds shuffles around the subject, never giving a clear sign. The male may assume shes just shy, not sure, so he should try again. This can go on and on, the male thinking he's building rapport, the female just feeling like shes dodging something. Using the term 'creep' here I think is inappropriate. If no party involved makes it clear there is no mutual sexual interest, then how can one be blamed for the repeated encounters?

Or sometimes for a guy that just acts friendly, but the woman has no sexual interest in him.

Thats another scenario that I think is messed.

I notice it to, some women think way to highly of themselves, and think every guy is trying to get in their pants. Some guy who tries to be friendly and who the women believes herself to be 'above', then automatically interprets the guy as seeking sex. She turns him down, wrongly assuming he wanted sex, just because shes self-absorbed and a bit narcissistic. The guy thinks "ok?" continues to try to be friends, she continues to be self-absorbed and narcissistic believing any male approaching is automatically a petition for sex, she then thinks hes creepy. "Why are all these men trying to get sex out of me".... the probably aren't. I've known a few girls like that, who did tell me stories about 'creeps' who to me, really didn't seem creepy to me at all by the stories. The girl just has this weird view in her head that every man is trying to rape her or something. I think it stems from insecurity, the girl feels inadequate, so she has to artificially inflate her self image in her head, it gets out of control.

I have never met a highly beautiful, and confident women who would flippantly use the term 'creep'. It has always seemed to me it is semi-attractive insecure girls who cling to the term.

Oh absolutely. Because men are supposedly un-emotional robots they can get away with insulting, bullying, hurtful words without conscience and society allows it, but heaven help you if you call a woman fat. It's another one of the dating double standards that women enjoy, they won't bother to fight for equality.