Why do women care so much about a mans height?

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Dunno. Maybe other men aren’t shallow dicks who judge a woman’s datability based on her weight. Plenty of fat underpaid or unemployed men can get women. Have you seen how many kids they have?

Lots of men find it emasculating to date a smarter or more successful women so are perfectly happy.

You’re just projecting. Why do you think you can’t get a woman?

Poor girl. Good work making a mockery of her to feel better about the fact noone will date you.

I think they just have lower standards or are more willing to settle rather then be alone.
Society judges people by looks is how it is. Most guys find thin women more attractive then fat women same for men. I just don’t get why I and other men are willing to date bigger women but women aren’t as willing to dat bigger men.

But did they start fat and unemployed or did that happen after they met their gf. Women are more likely to stick it out but not as likely go into s relationship with a fat unemployed man, would you?

Also I would and prefer bigger women. I’ll admit I find thinner women more attractive though.

Cause I’m payed low and I’m bit fat.women have made that quite clear. Those are the main reasons secondary ones that don’t apply to all every woman who’ve rejected me were my lack of sex experience, my not being masculine.

Mostly it’s that according to them I’m not s real man as I don’t have a good job, car and house, and that’s what they define a real man as.

Funny, when I was single it seemed like men could get away with being fat and women couldn't. I still see plenty of fat men with slender women. It may have to do with the proportion of the population in each group that is overweight. Or maybe as a society we are actually learning to be less superficial.

that made me laugh, really?

A woman's weight is the equivalent of a mans height.

Women care less about a mans weight than men do about a woman's.

Men care less about a woman's height than women do about a mans.

The difference is one can easily be changed by slowly improving your diet and exercise habits, the other is impossible to change except for very expensive, high risk surgeries that could leave you permanently in a wheelchair if things don't go well.

How many women do you see looking at a obese guy saying omg he’s so freaking hot?
Most women here are with thin muscular guys. And 1/4 of them are super obese women.
Probably 1/1000 or more couples I see is thin woman fat guy. I work retail I see lots of couples over 7 years. I also ride the bus and see lots of them there.

Then there’s dating sites where obese women actively reject little bit fat men and demand thin ,muscular fit men. Like they way bigger then me like almost to point where I wouldn’t date them as I have my limits. What makes a fit guy date a woman who barely fits through a door?

Look, you're not wrong.

I still see less women complain about a man's weight anyway than the opposite.

Dunno why fit guys do.

I refuse to date a girl any heavier than slightly overweight. A couple lbs is fine but fat-fat is not.

I eat healthy and exercise 5 days a week. I wouldn't be compatible with her.

My best friend is obese and it drives a wedge between us. He just wants to watch DVDs and play games i like to get out of the house. He can't walk a single block without needing a 1 minute rest. He's probably around 220-240lbs at just 19 years old.

I can't imagine dating an overweight girl with low energy levels, shed want to sit around watching Netflix and eating pizza. I hate that sort of stuff I play video games to wind down in the afternoons and evenings after an intense workout or outdoor sports session.

I weigh 260 did weigh 280.i walk a lot to work I can’t run like nt but I can walk miles. Only my feet get sore after.

I’d love a girl who wants to sit around and watch Netflix. I don’t like getting out, makes me anxious.

Maybe they find a bit of wobble attractive? Just because someone has a few excess kilos doesn't necessarily make them less valuable in other people's eyes, even though it does in you. I know I prefer chubby men. People are attracted to so many different looks it's not funny. Your assumptions are absolutely pathetic and based on nothing but your own warped thoughts. It's not all about looks, it's not all about weight, it's not all about money, and it's not all about things. You seem quite emotionally immature, maybe one day you will realise this.

The women you attempted to date sound really immature and/or entitled. It's probably not those in the end, one thing that trumps every other trait in men (And women, actually) based on a lifetime of research is good social skills. That, if anything is probably the killer. Even as an aspie female, my social skills mean I've missed out in the past.

An overweight guy with acute self awareness and awareness of others with confidence and ambition is way, way hotter than some muscle man with no brains, or some whiner who doesn't want to succeed at anything except dating. This is not abnormal by any means, a lot of women in the circles I get around with feel the same way.

It takes a special kind of stupid or superficial to want to date a brainless muscle man.

Agreed Sly, fat women should stick with fat men instead of demanding very fit men who put the time and effort in.

I get anxiety too going outside but still actually like to go places. It's big crowds, heavy traffic and loud noises I dislike bit not outside.

Plenty of nice quiet Beach's with not too many people, empyu parks, hiking trails. Etc.

I would love to ride bike, play sports, hike, walk on the beach with a girlfriend,.

I can't date a girl who can't even walk 1/4th as far as I can run.

It's so annoying walking anywhere with my extremely unft friend.

It took us an hour to do a walk ttat would have taken me 30 minutes max. He needed to stop at least 20 times. I didn't "need" to once.

"overweight" doesn't necessarily equate with "unfit". Plenty of skinny girls can't walk without getting a stitch. Just admit you don't like what they look like.

No I don't.

And yes, I would prefer a slightly overweight girl with healthy diet and exercise habits than an unfit skinny girl.

Even skinny girls can get fat in a relationship, many people do get lazy at keeping the weight off once they are in one.

I know from experience I don't gain weight in a relationship because I keep up my diet and exercise.

No need to attack me and call me undateable just because I'm not attracted to obese women. How would you like it if I told you don't deserve anybody because you aren't attracted to guys with ugly faces or whatever else [insert x y z] physical character like m***et height, older age or physical disabilities? Stop being a hypocrite.

The vast majority of men like the look of slim/normal weight women compared to fat, I'm talking a 90:10 ratio.
There are countries like Samoa where men like bigger women, sure, but we aren't in Samoa. No man in my bloodline is attracted to fat women, but they all have wives, girlfriends etc. According to you they don't deserve anybody!

A woman's body is a signal, a beacon, a vessel to carry a developing baby. Women with curves and healthy bodyweights have healthier babies and look more youthful. Fat women throw that out of proportion. Factual Science doesn't lie...

https://www.nhs.uk/news/pregnancy-and-c ... h-defects/

http://www.medicaldaily.com/obese-women ... ncy-389783

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And look at these women. Refusing men as potential dates due to their height. Men are stuck with their height unlike obesity. Even when put as successful short men, women still wouldn't date them. A tall guy would have to be a murderer to make them even consider a shorter man one of them said!

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I’m not attacking you for not liking obese women. That’s your right. I’m attacking you for making a mockery of some poor girl in this cespool of mysogony. Maybe I shoul post your mug on here as an example of someone of “low quality “.

How was I making a mockery of her? I was just showing the difference it makes to a woman's looks when she loses weight. She took that photo herself and posted it on the web herself. Is she making a mockery of herself? Is she magically 'hurt' all over again every time somebody see's that photo?

Poor Jared Leto, eh? He got fat for a film role. It's obvious misandry if girls ever look at this photo on google images and discuss it on a forum how 'cute' he is afterwards.