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Why do girls hate shy guys?
They expect their men to protect them (sexism) 14%  14%  [ 15 ]
Society says shy guys are bad 18%  18%  [ 20 ]
Shy guys are worse at sex 4%  4%  [ 4 ]
Shy guys are just boring 22%  22%  [ 24 ]
Women who reject introverts are just as superficial as men who reject fatties (duh!) 13%  13%  [ 14 ]
Other 29%  29%  [ 32 ]
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31 Jul 2013, 8:50 pm

last time i answered why girls would want me you tried to make me out to be racist.


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31 Jul 2013, 9:05 pm

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last time i answered why girls would want me you tried to make me out to be racist.


No he didn't.

Last time you asked that he pointed out that your negative attitude was responsible for your lack of success.


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31 Jul 2013, 9:13 pm

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wtfid2 wrote:
last time i answered why girls would want me you tried to make me out to be racist.


No he didn't.

Last time you asked that he pointed out that your negative attitude was responsible for your lack of success.
no last time i asked that he made me out to be a racist. i doubt you were even in that thread.


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31 Jul 2013, 9:16 pm

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give it a rest frances! the reason you have a husband is because you are a female..it just isnt the same. I dont even mean to attack you, but you said it yourself, you have no job, beat people up and go to jail, and you have cheated on partners in the past...there are aspie men here who have jobs, are good people, and have phds. How are you going to insult us by saying it's your hard work? You got to where you are because of your gender..and once again im not trying to insult you, so anybody who wants to report me, realize im just being real.
thanks.


Are you good people? You definitely don't give off that impression :? And there are guys who have no job, beat people up, go to jail, cheat, "sorry OOM if I offend you in any way, but I like using exact words in these situations" and those guys have relationships, so your argument falls down there.
It has been asked before and I will again, why would someone want YOU, wtfid?
my argument doesnt really fail because those guys arent disabled. oom is disabled with autism AND has those qualities and still has romantic success. guys with autism can work their asses off, have good jobs, and not have those issues, and still be f****d. An nt guy with oom's issues has the same success rate as an autistic girl


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31 Jul 2013, 9:17 pm

I remember that thread, and she probably was in it :lol:

You said you were dateable because you weren't black or poor among other things, and well, that comment implied there was something wrong with being black.

I do remember none of those qualities you said you had were particularly remarkable though.

Also, there are several posters around here who are already in a long-term relationship. So your excuse of having AS also falls off.


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31 Jul 2013, 9:20 pm

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I remember that thread, and she probably was in it :lol:

You said you were dateable because you weren't black or poor among other things, and well, that comment implied there was something wrong with being black.

I do remember none of those qualities you said you had were particularly remarkable though.

Also, there are several posters around here who are already in a long-term relationship. So your excuse of having AS also falls off.
im writing a reply now, but i wanted to say i did not say ''black or poor''


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31 Jul 2013, 9:22 pm

wtfid2,I am disabled,female,and single.Just having a va-jay-jay is not a free pass to having a partner.And I look ok if that is what you are wondering.


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31 Jul 2013, 9:24 pm

billiscool wrote:
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Neither could I until I spent years practicing and learning to. Of course that's work and it's hard to learn and it means that you have to actually do something about it instead of waiting for the love fairy to drop something in your lap because you have been so lonely. I also had to change a lot of things about myself, and that was hard too. But it worked. So, you can either work on yourself knowing it will take time and you will still get shot down a good bit but you will have at least a fighting chance, or you can sit home and blame everybody else because they don't want you and be bitter and just do without. Those are your options. Choose wisely.
not all dateless men are shy or anti social.some men actual hit on women alot,and fail.
As do NT guys. Try changing what you say and do, try different things, etc. Keep trying until you succeed. That's all any guy can do.
do you really believe a disable,semi-special need,autism guy has a chance with the average nt women.

Not with THAT attitude! Negativity will kill your chances almost as quickly as will body odor.



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31 Jul 2013, 9:25 pm

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I remember that thread, and she probably was in it :lol:

You said you were dateable because you weren't black or poor among other things, and well, that comment implied there was something wrong with being black.

I do remember none of those qualities you said you had were particularly remarkable though.

Also, there are several posters around here who are already in a long-term relationship. So your excuse of having AS also falls off.
i never said aspies is the end all be all, like all disabilities some guys can overcome it, but most wont. I also havent seen the girls these guys are dating..many guys like bill are dating girls they dont even like..bill wants nt girls not autistic girls.

I said that i was white! i never said black or poor. I only said im white to show that i am not a minority(so one less strike against me) I have nothing against minorities but some women do! Some women refuse to date minorities.

I also said that i am tall, decent looking, graduated college with top honors, love animals, am kind, and am very intelligent. I'd also be faithful. If those things arent remarkable that is your opinion, but i dont think they are any less remarkable than a lot of the douschebag guidos out there getting p**** every night....and i definitely dont think they are anything less than sufficient to find a girl i am attracted to that has reciprocated feelings towards me too. I dont think i mentioned my financial status...but if i did, well money is important to girls...i actually am poor though :p..still live under someone else's dime.


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31 Jul 2013, 9:26 pm

Misslizard wrote:
wtfid2,I am disabled,female,and single.Just having a va-jay-jay is not a free pass to having a partner.And I look ok if that is what you are wondering.
liz, are you straight? It can be tougher for females if they are lez, bc most girls aren't.


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31 Jul 2013, 9:27 pm

Write your answer. Meanwhile http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp5016417.htm

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I have said time and time again... as have other males on this board in my situation, that we don't know why we haven't had girlfriends. I am white, tall, college educated, more muscular than avg but not disgustingly big, not a goth weirdo, funny, teasing but not a dick. idk why i havent had a gf. I think it's just luck or I'm ugly, but people here have said otherwise... also, hetero women can cycle through the same pool of men leaving the outcasts stranded in the river of nothingness.


Ok so you didn't strictly say you weren't black, but you said you were white, I'm bad at exact words but I remember concepts, and I got the concept generally right on that one. And if you had said "not poor" among that description it wouldn't have looked out of place, although I must admit you didn't literally say that.


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31 Jul 2013, 9:29 pm

It seems a common theme: Bad Attitude >>> Dateless

From "Oh, nobody likes me because I'm not perfect" directly to "I'm perfect, yet they still don't like me", all on one page.



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31 Jul 2013, 9:29 pm

Fnord wrote:
It seems a common theme: Bad Attitude >>> Dateless

From "Oh, nobody likes me because I'm not perfect" directly to "I'm perfect, yet they still don't like me", all on one page.
maybe it's the dateless that comes first word twister fnord?


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31 Jul 2013, 9:32 pm

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Misslizard wrote:
wtfid2,I am disabled,female,and single.Just having a va-jay-jay is not a free pass to having a partner.And I look ok if that is what you are wondering.
liz, are you straight? It can be tougher for females if they are lez, bc most girls aren't.


I am attracted to males if that is what you mean by straight.


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31 Jul 2013, 9:32 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
Misslizard wrote:
wtfid2,I am disabled,female,and single.Just having a va-jay-jay is not a free pass to having a partner.And I look ok if that is what you are wondering.
liz, are you straight? It can be tougher for females if they are lez, bc most girls aren't.

Please... stop...

I honestly believe you are trying to hold a spirited debate, but don't realize the impact you are having... At first I thought you were a troll, but as I have tracked your posts back through the months, I believe that you actually think you are all that you claim to be and that you know as much as you think, but HONESTLY, I have never seen so many offensive things unwittingly and unintentionally said ins such a short time to so many different people...

Communication and social ability are skills... I beseech you to find an NT to sit down and read these threads with you and give you a crash course in both of these skills... I don't think you mean to be this... backwards, mysoginistic, rude, unwittingly hateful, and prejudiced... but this is how you come across...

If I am wrong, and this is intentional, by all means, please carry on... but... dayam


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31 Jul 2013, 9:33 pm

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Write your answer. Meanwhile http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp5016417.htm

wtfid2 wrote:
I have said time and time again... as have other males on this board in my situation, that we don't know why we haven't had girlfriends. I am white, tall, college educated, more muscular than avg but not disgustingly big, not a goth weirdo, funny, teasing but not a dick. idk why i havent had a gf. I think it's just luck or I'm ugly, but people here have said otherwise... also, hetero women can cycle through the same pool of men leaving the outcasts stranded in the river of nothingness.


Ok so you didn't strictly say you weren't black, but you said you were white, I'm bad at exact words but I remember concepts, and I got the concept generally right on that one. And if you had said "not poor" among that description it wouldn't have looked out of place, although I must admit you didn't literally say that.
i posted a reply, you got the wording completely wrong..and words n this scenario mean ALOT...and you also only wrote about one perceived word in my post ignoring all of my good qualities which was 99 percent of it.
I didnt say not poor, because that was not something i wanted to say..you are transferring those thoughts to my post :oops: .

but u did remind me i didnt say muscular in this post ;)


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