Toxic Masculinty

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The part in bold I can tell you for a fact is not true. As for the second part, consider this: I spent most of my late years in high school as the designated Nice GuyTM unpaid therapist for most of the girls in my class, and I can tell you that in all of our conversations NOT ONCE did any of them even mention sex, nor gave any indication that it was in any way important to them.

Again, that's only true if you're a man. And you seem to be missing the point; it's like you said if you're someone in a relationship who's more attractive to the opposite sex than you are, then that person is going to endlessly tax you and extract as much of you as they can whilst giving almost nothing in return. This means that if you're a man dating a woman who's out of your league, then she'll always give you the least amount of sex she can get away with. I mean, are endless months of concessions and sacrifice really worth it, only for her to lay on her back once in a blue moon and let you pound away at her for 30 minutes?

I'd rather be in a relationship with a less attractive girl where we're in relatively even footing and where I can get what I want from her, rather than being with a super-model who'll do nothing but make endless demands of me.

Incidentally, if you're a low-status woman in a relationship with a higher-status male, you have the opposite problem: the man will constantly be demanding sex from you whilst giving you nothing of what you actually want from him in return (again, with the possible exception of bragging rights).



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The part in bold I can tell you for a fact is not true. As for the second part, consider this: I spent most of my late years in high school as the designated Nice GuyTM unpaid therapist for most of the girls in my class, and I can tell you that in all of our conversations NOT ONCE did any of them even mention sex, nor gave any indication that it was in any way important to them.

Dude, you are either trying to troll me or just a sad, butthurt lil sap.

This is complete, utter, 100% bona fide Grade A BULLSH1T

Actually, I did the hypergamy thing last year. She was a drama queen with borderline personality disorder AND she was knocked up with her previous boyfriends kid! Now I do know from medical biology as well as what I've been told by women that the hormone cascades during pregnancy amplify a woman's libido and often make pregnant women as frisky as teenage boys.

I love it how you extrapolate about women based on the few girls you talked to in high school who never mentioned sex. I've heard Puh-Len-Ty of talk from women about sex in college and on internet forums(like the OKcupid forums). Furthermore, don't substitute your own limited life experience for knowledge! Read up on how bipolar and borderline personality disorder and in particular google "bipolar nymphomania" where there are links to articles written by actual medical experts who know what they're talking about(unlike you). So you need to get rid of this dumb idea that men who engage in hypergamy won't get sex. If she's borderline/bipolar they certainly will. But the downside is that she won't be monogamous so you'll have to put up with being scorned.

Just curious, are you still a virgin or something? Because a lot of what you say about women and what they want is making it totally obvious that you really don't know that many nor talked to any(online or offline) recently.

This means that if you're a man dating a woman who's out of your league, then she'll always give you the least amount of sex she can get away with.

That's perfect. So you mean asexual Aspies should date girls outside of their leage? Interesting proposal.

Why? Because the idea that women don't car about sex and don't have the same goals and objectives in a relationship that you do makes you FEEL bad?



3 words: citation f*****g needed.



No, I'm not a virgin. But why are you asking? If I was, would it make it easier for you to dismiss the obvious yet incovenient facts I pointed out?

These "facts" you pointed out are things I've tested IRL and the results are inconsistent with your claims. And no, I don't need to prove sh*t to you. You're making inductive generalizations about a very, very large group of people and all it takes is 1 counterexample to invalidate the universal quantifier. Even if you're not a virgin(you certainly talk like one!), the fact that the women you slept with didn't care that much about sex does not imply that all, or even most(> 50%) are like that. You have failed to convince me of your claims that women don't want sex that much.

As for my claims about pregnancy and increased sex drive, have a look here.

Ah, yes, the "you're generalizing!" argument... the last line of defense of the truly desperate.

Also is that the best proof of your claim you can come up with?

Well actually, if you use the universal quantifier for a statement about women that that implies ALL which means 100%. MOST implies > 50% and < 100%. You omitted the "most" quantifier and are using universal quantifiers. But the point is that when your generalized claims using universal quantifiers are contradicted with counterexamples you use the same old circular "i call bullshiit" attempt at a rebuttal and then when others call you out on your tired old whiny butthurt lines you pull a "no u" on them.

Now it's YOUR TURN to give some citations for your claims about 100% of women not wanting sex as much as men!

Yes, some select few women enjoy sex as much as the average men does, the majority of them (well over 50%) do not.

Evidence, please?

Show me some stats on this. And what cracks me up is that if you were a lil' more resourceful, you'd find the places online where women who enjoy sex tend to show up. Search on okcupid for women in any major US city between the ages of 20 and 30 and filter those who have "looking for: casual sex" on their profiles. There are entire websites devoted to hookups and one that I've used successfully is sexsearch.com. But don't take my word for it! Go look your damn self.

I hate the fact that girls only like guys who stick to "masculinity", it makes me wanna kill myself...

If it makes you feel any better, I'm about as far from masculine as it gets, and I've met plenty of women who wanted to sleep with me. I rarely sleep with cis women (usually when I do, they're lesbians, and I feel like a lesbian myself when I do that), but it certainly isn't difficult as a non-masculine non-binary person who's usually read as a guy to find girls who want to.

Evidence, please?

Show me some stats on this. And what cracks me up is that if you were a lil' more resourceful, you'd find the places online where women who enjoy sex tend to show up. Search on okcupid for women in any major US city between the ages of 20 and 30 and filter those who have "looking for: casual sex" on their profiles. There are entire websites devoted to hookups and one that I've used successfully is sexsearch.com. But don't take my word for it! Go look your damn self.

It's certainly better than anything you've presented thus far. Also, I've been to every hook-up site imaginable; most women are just there to get their egos stroked and won't even bother responding to messages, the few who do are those desperate enough to be there looking for relationships.