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03 Jun 2015, 6:00 am
Gauldoth wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Gauldoth wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
It obviously says something about what he's like in bed.
I will correct you: women enjoy sex with someone who isn't useless at it.
I will correct you: women enjoy sex with someone who isn't useless at it.
Of course, if a woman can't enjoy sex, it must be the fault of her partner. Because there's just no way the problem can be your end, is there?
Do you have a sample size of 1 & are projecting that to all women because the 1 you had sex with didn't enjoy it?
This isn't about me or my sex life. One does not need much sexual experience, or any at all for that matter, to come to the conclusions I have. One only needs to observe and analyse the reality around them, with a scientific, factually-driven mindset. And of course, ignore the social mores and dogmas that seemingly no one actually believes in yet we most all pretend are the indisputable truth for whatever reason.
Nerve endings, the g-spot, the clitoris, and the female orgasm are all social mores and dogmas that we pretend are indisputably real now?
Basic dating tip: Don't say that on a date. Ever.
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03 Jun 2015, 6:40 am
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03 Jun 2015, 10:59 am
Do you live in the bible belt where social mores, dogma & indoctrination have made women actually believe that they're not intended to enjoy sex?
That's the only semi-plausible explanation for your beliefs.
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03 Jun 2015, 4:58 pm
Gauldoth wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Do you live in the bible belt where social mores, dogma & indoctrination have made women actually believe that they're not intended to enjoy sex?
That's the only semi-plausible explanation for your beliefs.
That's the only semi-plausible explanation for your beliefs.
Don't even try it. I'm an agnostic, I'm open to the possibility of the existence of a higher power, though I find it to be unlikely, and I certainly don't subscribe to any particular faith. The only problem is that evolutionary biology seems to share the bible's stance on this particular regard. This isn't a matter of whether or not women "should" enjoy sex, it's a matter of whether or not they do, and whether or not they can. And judging by the facts, that certainly doesn't seem to be the case.
What about the fact that women have posted in this thread & others in the L&D forum stating that they do in fact enjoy sex?
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03 Jun 2015, 6:49 pm
goldfish21 wrote:
What about the fact that women have posted in this thread & others in the L&D forum stating that they do in fact enjoy sex?
Haven't you been paying attention? We are saving face! It's all liesssss
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03 Jun 2015, 8:33 pm
yellowtamarin wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
What about the fact that women have posted in this thread & others in the L&D forum stating that they do in fact enjoy sex?
Haven't you been paying attention? We are saving face! It's all liesssss
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goldfish21 wrote:
Gauldoth wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Do you live in the bible belt where social mores, dogma & indoctrination have made women actually believe that they're not intended to enjoy sex?
That's the only semi-plausible explanation for your beliefs.
That's the only semi-plausible explanation for your beliefs.
Don't even try it. I'm an agnostic, I'm open to the possibility of the existence of a higher power, though I find it to be unlikely, and I certainly don't subscribe to any particular faith. The only problem is that evolutionary biology seems to share the bible's stance on this particular regard. This isn't a matter of whether or not women "should" enjoy sex, it's a matter of whether or not they do, and whether or not they can. And judging by the facts, that certainly doesn't seem to be the case.
What about the fact that women have posted in this thread & others in the L&D forum stating that they do in fact enjoy sex?
What about the fact that a woman coming out and saying "I don't like sex" is literally one of the quickest ways to ensure that no man will ever take an interest in her (even the few top men she finds attractive)? I mean, it's right up there with her saying "I have a venereal disease that'll make your dick fall off first time we have sex" and "I have a kid".
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04 Jun 2015, 4:26 am
Gauldoth wrote:
What about the fact that a woman coming out and saying "I don't like sex" is literally one of the quickest ways to ensure that no man will ever take an interest in her (even the few top men she finds attractive)? I mean, it's right up there with her saying "I have a venereal disease that'll make your dick fall off first time we have sex" and "I have a kid".
That's just absurd.
How can you ignore things like, oh, I don't know.. the existence of the clitoris? Women have evolved to enjoy sex just about as much as men.
Some women might not enjoy sex, just as some men do not.. but to say that all women do not enjoy sex is just completely absurd. It's even more ridiculous to suggest that they won't say they don't enjoy it because it's a turnoff. Even more ridiculous than that is saying they're lying if they say they do enjoy sex.
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goldfish21 wrote:
Gauldoth wrote:
What about the fact that a woman coming out and saying "I don't like sex" is literally one of the quickest ways to ensure that no man will ever take an interest in her (even the few top men she finds attractive)? I mean, it's right up there with her saying "I have a venereal disease that'll make your dick fall off first time we have sex" and "I have a kid".
That's just absurd.
How can you ignore things like, oh, I don't know.. the existence of the clitoris? Women have evolved to enjoy sex just about as much as men.
Some women might not enjoy sex, just as some men do not.. but to say that all women do not enjoy sex is just completely absurd. It's even more ridiculous to suggest that they won't say they don't enjoy it because it's a turnoff. Even more ridiculous than that is saying they're lying if they say they do enjoy sex.
I've already said my peace on that subject; stuff like the g-spot is a myth, and the existence of the clitoris is in no way, shape or form an indicator that women enjoy sex as much, or at all, for that matter.
Some (exceptionally rare) women like sex, but most don't. Just like some men don't like sex, but most (the overwhelming majority of them) do. These are the facts. Quit trying to make it like I said things I never did, and just accept you've lost the argument already and move on.
And yes, most of the women who claim to enjoy sex (which is almost all of them) are lying. If they weren't, they'd back their words up with actions, and the overwhelming majority of them never do.
04 Jun 2015, 5:38 am
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04 Jun 2015, 6:10 am
yellowtamarin wrote:
I feel so lucky to be one of the exceptionally rare women who enjoys sex, and feel incredibly bad for almost all other women who (I have learned) do not enjoy it.
Of course you are. That's what they all say.
yellowtamarin wrote:
I think you said that you base most of this on observation, yes? So are you following women around, watching them through bedroom windows to see if they are having sex or not? I can't see how else you would know.
Yeah, because it's not as if I regularly interact with females or am exposed to female behavior in my daily life. I mean, that's just crazy...
04 Jun 2015, 6:19 am
Gauldoth wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
I feel so lucky to be one of the exceptionally rare women who enjoys sex, and feel incredibly bad for almost all other women who (I have learned) do not enjoy it.
Of course you are. That's what they all say.
Actually most women most likely have not heard of this theory of enjoying sex being a rare thing, so I don't see why they would say that.
Gauldoth wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
I think you said that you base most of this on observation, yes? So are you following women around, watching them through bedroom windows to see if they are having sex or not? I can't see how else you would know.
Yeah, because it's not as if I regularly interact with females or am exposed to female behavior in my daily life. I mean, that's just crazy...
I try to have sex in private, but maybe that's just me...
