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13 Jan 2016, 10:02 pm
Peacesells wrote:
sly279 wrote:
No doubt. As women and some men here always claim I'm going after women who are ceo or sports models. I don't but women working a part time min wage job here demand guys making 22 dollars an hour.
I see lots of obese women demanding a thin attractive athletic guy.
Women will defend them as must defend any women. Yet attack simi fat poor guys and say hey must just want thin model type well off women and they have no right to. Freaking hypocrites.
So what should I move to some 8th world nation and try date women there? Oh no that'd be taking advantage of them. So can't date across or up and can't date down. What's that leave? To
I see lots of obese women demanding a thin attractive athletic guy.
Women will defend them as must defend any women. Yet attack simi fat poor guys and say hey must just want thin model type well off women and they have no right to. Freaking hypocrites.
So what should I move to some 8th world nation and try date women there? Oh no that'd be taking advantage of them. So can't date across or up and can't date down. What's that leave? To
I don't know why they claim that about you, it's weird that they do. Maybe dating is easier for them so they think that you must fail because you go after CEOs or models, I don't really know.
Anyway it makes no sense to blame fat and jobless girls for wanting athletic guys with good job, if they have such expectations it just means that they can get these guys, or at least they can get someone closer to what they want. It's just how it is.
The fact that they'll on sites for years and their ads keep getting more and more angry seems to tell me they aren't. Thin men like thin women desire thin match.
13 Jan 2016, 10:10 pm
sly279 wrote:
Because it's not ok for a obese man to want a thin woman.
So it shouldn't be ok for a obese woman to want a thin man
That is equality. Applying the same ideas equally on both genders.
So it shouldn't be ok for a obese woman to want a thin man
That is equality. Applying the same ideas equally on both genders.
What makes you say this? Equality is about treating people as individuals, not grouping them together in stereotypes and lashing out.
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13 Jan 2016, 10:15 pm
Good grief, not this again. I've lived this and outlived this. My wife and I are opposite body types and neurotypes from what we are and what we expected to be with. Still married for 33 years.
And every time I post this type of message on a board, we get into an argument - so I'll keep it brief and hope for a short disagreement.
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13 Jan 2016, 10:17 pm
sly279 wrote:
Because it's not ok for a obese man to want a thin woman.
So it shouldn't be ok for a obese woman to want a thin man
That is equality. Applying the same ideas equally on both genders.
So it shouldn't be ok for a obese woman to want a thin man
That is equality. Applying the same ideas equally on both genders.
Who said an obese man can't be attracted to a thin woman?? You?
I say it happens. And vice versa happens. And nothing is wrong with either.
If a large man or woman says "i will Only date thin guys/girls"..that's their choice. And it is a choice. It may lower their potential mates as some thinner people may say the same thing..and, if they are locked on it, they may bypass a good match who is of similar stature..but that's their choice.
I feel like this conversation is hitting a wall.
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13 Jan 2016, 10:25 pm
100000fireflies wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Because it's not ok for a obese man to want a thin woman.
So it shouldn't be ok for a obese woman to want a thin man
That is equality. Applying the same ideas equally on both genders.
So it shouldn't be ok for a obese woman to want a thin man
That is equality. Applying the same ideas equally on both genders.
Who said an obese man can't be attracted to a thin woman?? You?
I say it happens. And vice versa happens. And nothing is wrong with either.
If a large man or woman says "i will Only date thin guys/girls"..that's their choice. And it is a choice. It may lower their potential mates as some thinner people may say the same thing..and, if they are locked on it, they may bypass a good match who is of similar stature..but that's their choice.
I feel like this conversation is hitting a wall.
Go read lots of threads in this sub forum guys are constantly told they can't and that it must be why their not getting dats.
On a broader term guys who reject a woman because she's fat have always been bashed in the media. And it's become the stereotype of what all men are like.
It's not fair to bash men who only dat thin women but then defend women who only date thin men.
13 Jan 2016, 10:29 pm
black0441 wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Because it's not ok for a obese man to want a thin woman.
So it shouldn't be ok for a obese woman to want a thin man
That is equality. Applying the same ideas equally on both genders.
So it shouldn't be ok for a obese woman to want a thin man
That is equality. Applying the same ideas equally on both genders.
What makes you say this? Equality is about treating people as individuals, not grouping them together in stereotypes and lashing out.
No equality is about treating everyone the same regardless of race, gender, nationality, sexual preference etc.
Ie if you say person a can't do this, you then must applie that to everyone.
Or you can't let person a into your store then say person b can't.
So either something is a bad behavior for everyone or it's an ok behavior for everyone, something can be bad if men do it but ok if women do it. I tired of double sided hypocrites. If your ok with both men and women wanting to date thin men/women then you have no dog in this fight and i dont know why you defending the other side.
If you think it's only ok for women to do it and bad if men do it then your part of the problem with this nation.
13 Jan 2016, 10:38 pm
sly279 wrote:
Go read lots of threads in this sub forum guys are constantly told they can't and that it must be why their not getting dats.
On a broader term guys who reject a woman because she's fat have always been bashed in the media. And it's become the stereotype of what all men are like.
It's not fair to bash men who only dat thin women but then defend women who only date thin men.
On a broader term guys who reject a woman because she's fat have always been bashed in the media. And it's become the stereotype of what all men are like.
It's not fair to bash men who only dat thin women but then defend women who only date thin men.
Can you provide a concrete example of this? I have lived in the US for many years, and have barely even seen any fat women in the media. I have seen lots of movies where fat guys get thin women, though. I think you have it backward.
Don't you think all the fat bitter women you referred to above are being told by their friends to lower their standards as well?
I don't even know what the sides are here. I'm saying there are billions of people on the planet who are all different, and each deserves to be treated as an individual. I know this for a fact: I'm an overweight man, and no one has ever once told me I'm not allowed to be attracted to thin women. I can't even conceive of that happening.
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13 Jan 2016, 10:42 pm
black0441 wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Go read lots of threads in this sub forum guys are constantly told they can't and that it must be why their not getting dats.
On a broader term guys who reject a woman because she's fat have always been bashed in the media. And it's become the stereotype of what all men are like.
It's not fair to bash men who only dat thin women but then defend women who only date thin men.
On a broader term guys who reject a woman because she's fat have always been bashed in the media. And it's become the stereotype of what all men are like.
It's not fair to bash men who only dat thin women but then defend women who only date thin men.
Can you provide a concrete example of this? I have lived in the US for many years, and have barely even seen any fat women in the media. I have seen lots of movies where fat guys get thin women, though. I think you have it backward.
Don't you think all the fat bitter women you referred to above are being told by their friends to lower their standards as well?
I don't even know what the sides are here. I'm saying there are billions of people on the planet who are all different, and each deserves to be treated as an individual. I know this for a fact: I'm an overweight man, and no one has ever once told me I'm not allowed to be attracted to thin women. I can't even conceive of that happening.
Start posting about how your lonely and such and your start conceiving it a lot.
Just in this thread I believe they told me and outrider we can't. I'm told it a lot . I don't even go for thin women. They just assume I do.
13 Jan 2016, 10:45 pm
sly279 wrote:
100000fireflies wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Excuse me? You don't know many people, do you? Both men and women fail at life.
Just as a successful woman will not usually show any interest in "failed" men, neither do they seem to care much for "failed" women, either. In fact, it seems to be a general behavior for everyone to not notice any "failed" people of either sex, and to focus on only the successful people, and on their own miserable lives, as well.
If this was not the case, then there would be no public obsession with the lives of celebrities.
Just as a successful woman will not usually show any interest in "failed" men, neither do they seem to care much for "failed" women, either. In fact, it seems to be a general behavior for everyone to not notice any "failed" people of either sex, and to focus on only the successful people, and on their own miserable lives, as well.
If this was not the case, then there would be no public obsession with the lives of celebrities.
I don't care about celebrities or rich millionaires ore billionaires. I only care about the 99% of the population, the real people.
The way people on Facebook, dating sites, blogs, etc make it seem like is all women are well off and only men fail. I've yet to meet or see a woman who is poor or jobless besides some aspie women here.
So in a world where pretty much every woman has a job and home, who does a guy who doesn't have that and isn't good enough date.
Why would strait successful women care about other straight women 0.o
Actually most people seem all to focused on failed people (mostly men) and attacking, mocking, and belittling them. I hear republicans, libertarians, and tea party people go on and on about it.
I'm guess we have entirely different definitions of failed at life and what success is.
How many women have you seen? Do you think women working as cashiers or at walmart or mcdonalds are living the dream?
What about the *many* women on disability or public assistance? Do you often hear the term"welfare fathers"? The women working the strips as protitutes...the Young women there...? Frankly, you're deluded if you think a majority of them want to or enjoy being there and wouldn't drop it in a second were it not for drug addictions, forceful pimps/fear, and/or lack of any other income.
Perhaps there's a lot of inference - e.g. when someone makes fun of the poor, it's heard as the poor men...or perhaps a grass is greener concept?
Women do Not All have jobs and homes; nor is some happy, fluffy unicorn life bestowed upon someone simply because they're born female.
I think women working those jobs have success when compared to people who are unemployed. Perhaps because I've been poor all my life I have a lower standard for success. Or perhaps it's because I'm constantly told women working min wage jobs are somehow better and have their life's together while I work min wage job and told don't have my life together and am worthless. Probably both.
Ever heard of deadbeat father ?
And the young men working as drug runners, and muscle for gangs and have short life spans probably wouldn't want to keep doing that either. I don't see how prositutes come into this conversation. I'm not talking about the crinmal underworld. Which is quite small here.
Well then a lot of women are lying and saying they do. Never said it was though actually if it's between a fat ugly man and a hot attractive woman they hire the woman, sexual apear sells products. Nearly all the businesses out where I live have replaced 90% of their workforce with women, men were let go women hired. The remaining men work as backroom workers. Place where I work hired a pretty woman who knows nothing about guns apparently. Instead of men who know tons about guns, lots of gunshots, car lots, go oat shops will have pretty sales women. Men are more likely to be talked into buying something by a woman then another man. Then add In more women go to college and graduate. Really not hard to see that there could be more women employed then men. Perhaps why there's so many women complaining they can't find a real man. Where all the real men at, etc
Whatever it's business what sales goes, profits profits. I think it's good for women to find jobs. But flip side of the coin is more women employed, fewer jobs equals less men employed. If there's a finite a,mount of jobs you can't hire more women without firing men. Real unemployment in the USA is quite high.
But i dont know maybe where you live it's mostly women unemployed but it's not here. There's no wage gap here either.
Yes, i've heard of a deadbeat father. But i'm not arguing that all women have it harder than men. I'm saying hey..if all women in the US have it sooo much easier, as you profess, there'd be no such thing as a term 'welfare mother' nor a majority of the other examples.
I'm not remotely trying to have a competition of who has it worse - men or women..i'm trying to point out that there's a Tremendous amount of generalizing going on here ..and no.. Men And women can Both be poor. They can Both have crappy lives.
So, based on the statements above, where you live, i take it:
when a plumber shows up it's always a woman
The mail and ups drivers are women
The pizza delivery..women
The electricians, construction workers, and roofers are almost all women.
The city workers, street repair, and auto mechanics..women.
The long haul truckers and IT departments are almost entirely women; as are a majority of the upper echelon of the larger companies, as well as the politicians.
If so, then you live in a very unique place that doesn't represent anywhere else.
And if not, then maybe, you're hearing and seeing things with tainted glasses. As Hopper said, for example, the couple who dearly wants but can't have a baby suddenly sees couples with babies Everywhere they look..and every one they see is sooo happy. The quantity of families didn't change, nor did the quantity of screaming kids with exasperated parents change - however, the couple's perception and how they viewed things/what they focused on changed.
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13 Jan 2016, 11:06 pm
black0441 wrote:
I certainly don't know anything about dating successfully. I had a girlfriend for about 6 months in college, 20 years ago, and that's about it.
But I do know this much more for sure: thinking of "women" collectively, is useless. Every person is an individual.
And why shouldn't an obese woman want a thin attractive boyfriend? Maybe she'll be disappointed, maybe not, who knows. But she certainly gets to desire whatever it is she desires. Whether it works how for her is another question, but there are plenty of couples where one member is significantly more conventionally attractive than the other.
And I am 100% sure that the reason I have been so unsuccessful romantically is not because of autism (directly, anyway), or because women are all engaged in some conspiracy to shun me. It's because I have spent most of my life in a state of crushing depression, and no one is attracted to a guy who hates himself.
I realized that years before I had any idea I might be autistic. And so I stopped dating, because I knew that in the state I was in, I would be bad for anyone.
So now I am working to get myself into a state where I don't hate myself or my life. Where I can talk about what I like and what I do without shame. Where I can feel like my life is actually worth sharing with someone else.
Maybe I'll never get there. It seems impossibly far away now, that's for sure. But if I do, I still will not care what billions of women in the world I'll never meet think or want or expect. I'll just try to find a woman who wants me.
But I do know this much more for sure: thinking of "women" collectively, is useless. Every person is an individual.
And why shouldn't an obese woman want a thin attractive boyfriend? Maybe she'll be disappointed, maybe not, who knows. But she certainly gets to desire whatever it is she desires. Whether it works how for her is another question, but there are plenty of couples where one member is significantly more conventionally attractive than the other.
And I am 100% sure that the reason I have been so unsuccessful romantically is not because of autism (directly, anyway), or because women are all engaged in some conspiracy to shun me. It's because I have spent most of my life in a state of crushing depression, and no one is attracted to a guy who hates himself.
I realized that years before I had any idea I might be autistic. And so I stopped dating, because I knew that in the state I was in, I would be bad for anyone.
So now I am working to get myself into a state where I don't hate myself or my life. Where I can talk about what I like and what I do without shame. Where I can feel like my life is actually worth sharing with someone else.
Maybe I'll never get there. It seems impossibly far away now, that's for sure. But if I do, I still will not care what billions of women in the world I'll never meet think or want or expect. I'll just try to find a woman who wants me.
I just wanted to say that I thought this was really well expressed and I can relate to a lot of it. I haven't been dealing with depression I think to the degree that you're talking about, but I have had other issues (like anxiety, general and social, and trauma) that have made keeping to myself while I try to sort myself out just make more sense to me. I don't blame myself or anyone else for my being single for long stretches (the last one the longest) in my life so far; it's just been the result of various circumstances, some of which were beyond my control. I feel like I have made some progress with myself in the meanwhile though, so my time hasn't been wasted. But I think I still have some work to do before I would feel ready to invite someone new into my life and my heart.
13 Jan 2016, 11:08 pm
black0441 wrote:
I certainly don't know anything about dating successfully. I had a girlfriend for about 6 months in college, 20 years ago, and that's about it.
But I do know this much more for sure: thinking of "women" collectively, is useless. Every person is an individual.
And why shouldn't an obese woman want a thin attractive boyfriend? Maybe she'll be disappointed, maybe not, who knows. But she certainly gets to desire whatever it is she desires. Whether it works how for her is another question, but there are plenty of couples where one member is significantly more conventionally attractive than the other.
And I am 100% sure that the reason I have been so unsuccessful romantically is not because of autism (directly, anyway), or because women are all engaged in some conspiracy to shun me. It's because I have spent most of my life in a state of crushing depression, and no one is attracted to a guy who hates himself.
I realized that years before I had any idea I might be autistic. And so I stopped dating, because I knew that in the state I was in, I would be bad for anyone.
So now I am working to get myself into a state where I don't hate myself or my life. Where I can talk about what I like and what I do without shame. Where I can feel like my life is actually worth sharing with someone else.
Maybe I'll never get there. It seems impossibly far away now, that's for sure. But if I do, I still will not care what billions of women in the world I'll never meet think or want or expect. I'll just try to find a woman who wants me.
But I do know this much more for sure: thinking of "women" collectively, is useless. Every person is an individual.
And why shouldn't an obese woman want a thin attractive boyfriend? Maybe she'll be disappointed, maybe not, who knows. But she certainly gets to desire whatever it is she desires. Whether it works how for her is another question, but there are plenty of couples where one member is significantly more conventionally attractive than the other.
And I am 100% sure that the reason I have been so unsuccessful romantically is not because of autism (directly, anyway), or because women are all engaged in some conspiracy to shun me. It's because I have spent most of my life in a state of crushing depression, and no one is attracted to a guy who hates himself.
I realized that years before I had any idea I might be autistic. And so I stopped dating, because I knew that in the state I was in, I would be bad for anyone.
So now I am working to get myself into a state where I don't hate myself or my life. Where I can talk about what I like and what I do without shame. Where I can feel like my life is actually worth sharing with someone else.
Maybe I'll never get there. It seems impossibly far away now, that's for sure. But if I do, I still will not care what billions of women in the world I'll never meet think or want or expect. I'll just try to find a woman who wants me.
That was kind of poetic. You have a very nice writing style.
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14 Jan 2016, 12:03 am
100000fireflies wrote:
sly279 wrote:
100000fireflies wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Excuse me? You don't know many people, do you? Both men and women fail at life.
Just as a successful woman will not usually show any interest in "failed" men, neither do they seem to care much for "failed" women, either. In fact, it seems to be a general behavior for everyone to not notice any "failed" people of either sex, and to focus on only the successful people, and on their own miserable lives, as well.
If this was not the case, then there would be no public obsession with the lives of celebrities.
Just as a successful woman will not usually show any interest in "failed" men, neither do they seem to care much for "failed" women, either. In fact, it seems to be a general behavior for everyone to not notice any "failed" people of either sex, and to focus on only the successful people, and on their own miserable lives, as well.
If this was not the case, then there would be no public obsession with the lives of celebrities.
I don't care about celebrities or rich millionaires ore billionaires. I only care about the 99% of the population, the real people.
The way people on Facebook, dating sites, blogs, etc make it seem like is all women are well off and only men fail. I've yet to meet or see a woman who is poor or jobless besides some aspie women here.
So in a world where pretty much every woman has a job and home, who does a guy who doesn't have that and isn't good enough date.
Why would strait successful women care about other straight women 0.o
Actually most people seem all to focused on failed people (mostly men) and attacking, mocking, and belittling them. I hear republicans, libertarians, and tea party people go on and on about it.
I'm guess we have entirely different definitions of failed at life and what success is.
How many women have you seen? Do you think women working as cashiers or at walmart or mcdonalds are living the dream?
What about the *many* women on disability or public assistance? Do you often hear the term"welfare fathers"? The women working the strips as protitutes...the Young women there...? Frankly, you're deluded if you think a majority of them want to or enjoy being there and wouldn't drop it in a second were it not for drug addictions, forceful pimps/fear, and/or lack of any other income.
Perhaps there's a lot of inference - e.g. when someone makes fun of the poor, it's heard as the poor men...or perhaps a grass is greener concept?
Women do Not All have jobs and homes; nor is some happy, fluffy unicorn life bestowed upon someone simply because they're born female.
I think women working those jobs have success when compared to people who are unemployed. Perhaps because I've been poor all my life I have a lower standard for success. Or perhaps it's because I'm constantly told women working min wage jobs are somehow better and have their life's together while I work min wage job and told don't have my life together and am worthless. Probably both.
Ever heard of deadbeat father ?
And the young men working as drug runners, and muscle for gangs and have short life spans probably wouldn't want to keep doing that either. I don't see how prositutes come into this conversation. I'm not talking about the crinmal underworld. Which is quite small here.
Well then a lot of women are lying and saying they do. Never said it was though actually if it's between a fat ugly man and a hot attractive woman they hire the woman, sexual apear sells products. Nearly all the businesses out where I live have replaced 90% of their workforce with women, men were let go women hired. The remaining men work as backroom workers. Place where I work hired a pretty woman who knows nothing about guns apparently. Instead of men who know tons about guns, lots of gunshots, car lots, go oat shops will have pretty sales women. Men are more likely to be talked into buying something by a woman then another man. Then add In more women go to college and graduate. Really not hard to see that there could be more women employed then men. Perhaps why there's so many women complaining they can't find a real man. Where all the real men at, etc
Whatever it's business what sales goes, profits profits. I think it's good for women to find jobs. But flip side of the coin is more women employed, fewer jobs equals less men employed. If there's a finite a,mount of jobs you can't hire more women without firing men. Real unemployment in the USA is quite high.
But i dont know maybe where you live it's mostly women unemployed but it's not here. There's no wage gap here either.
Yes, i've heard of a deadbeat father. But i'm not arguing that all women have it harder than men. I'm saying hey..if all women in the US have it sooo much easier, as you profess, there'd be no such thing as a term 'welfare mother' nor a majority of the other examples.
I'm not remotely trying to have a competition of who has it worse - men or women..i'm trying to point out that there's a Tremendous amount of generalizing going on here ..and no.. Men And women can Both be poor. They can Both have crappy lives.
So, based on the statements above, where you live, i take it:
when a plumber shows up it's always a woman
The mail and ups drivers are women
The pizza delivery..women
The electricians, construction workers, and roofers are almost all women.
The city workers, street repair, and auto mechanics..women.
The long haul truckers and IT departments are almost entirely women; as are a majority of the upper echelon of the larger companies, as well as the politicians.
If so, then you live in a very unique place that doesn't represent anywhere else.
And if not, then maybe, you're hearing and seeing things with tainted glasses. As Hopper said, for example, the couple who dearly wants but can't have a baby suddenly sees couples with babies Everywhere they look..and every one they see is sooo happy. The quantity of families didn't change, nor did the quantity of screaming kids with exasperated parents change - however, the couple's perception and how they viewed things/what they focused on changed.
So I say more women then men have jobs and you change that to me saying only women have jobs. >.>
14 Jan 2016, 2:03 am
sly279 wrote:
100000fireflies wrote:
sly279 wrote:
100000fireflies wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Excuse me? You don't know many people, do you? Both men and women fail at life.
Just as a successful woman will not usually show any interest in "failed" men, neither do they seem to care much for "failed" women, either. In fact, it seems to be a general behavior for everyone to not notice any "failed" people of either sex, and to focus on only the successful people, and on their own miserable lives, as well.
If this was not the case, then there would be no public obsession with the lives of celebrities.
Just as a successful woman will not usually show any interest in "failed" men, neither do they seem to care much for "failed" women, either. In fact, it seems to be a general behavior for everyone to not notice any "failed" people of either sex, and to focus on only the successful people, and on their own miserable lives, as well.
If this was not the case, then there would be no public obsession with the lives of celebrities.
I don't care about celebrities or rich millionaires ore billionaires. I only care about the 99% of the population, the real people.
The way people on Facebook, dating sites, blogs, etc make it seem like is all women are well off and only men fail. I've yet to meet or see a woman who is poor or jobless besides some aspie women here.
So in a world where pretty much every woman has a job and home, who does a guy who doesn't have that and isn't good enough date.
Why would strait successful women care about other straight women 0.o
Actually most people seem all to focused on failed people (mostly men) and attacking, mocking, and belittling them. I hear republicans, libertarians, and tea party people go on and on about it.
I'm guess we have entirely different definitions of failed at life and what success is.
How many women have you seen? Do you think women working as cashiers or at walmart or mcdonalds are living the dream?
What about the *many* women on disability or public assistance? Do you often hear the term"welfare fathers"? The women working the strips as protitutes...the Young women there...? Frankly, you're deluded if you think a majority of them want to or enjoy being there and wouldn't drop it in a second were it not for drug addictions, forceful pimps/fear, and/or lack of any other income.
Perhaps there's a lot of inference - e.g. when someone makes fun of the poor, it's heard as the poor men...or perhaps a grass is greener concept?
Women do Not All have jobs and homes; nor is some happy, fluffy unicorn life bestowed upon someone simply because they're born female.
I think women working those jobs have success when compared to people who are unemployed. Perhaps because I've been poor all my life I have a lower standard for success. Or perhaps it's because I'm constantly told women working min wage jobs are somehow better and have their life's together while I work min wage job and told don't have my life together and am worthless. Probably both.
Ever heard of deadbeat father ?
And the young men working as drug runners, and muscle for gangs and have short life spans probably wouldn't want to keep doing that either. I don't see how prositutes come into this conversation. I'm not talking about the crinmal underworld. Which is quite small here.
Well then a lot of women are lying and saying they do. Never said it was though actually if it's between a fat ugly man and a hot attractive woman they hire the woman, sexual apear sells products. Nearly all the businesses out where I live have replaced 90% of their workforce with women, men were let go women hired. The remaining men work as backroom workers. Place where I work hired a pretty woman who knows nothing about guns apparently. Instead of men who know tons about guns, lots of gunshots, car lots, go oat shops will have pretty sales women. Men are more likely to be talked into buying something by a woman then another man. Then add In more women go to college and graduate. Really not hard to see that there could be more women employed then men. Perhaps why there's so many women complaining they can't find a real man. Where all the real men at, etc
Whatever it's business what sales goes, profits profits. I think it's good for women to find jobs. But flip side of the coin is more women employed, fewer jobs equals less men employed. If there's a finite a,mount of jobs you can't hire more women without firing men. Real unemployment in the USA is quite high.
But i dont know maybe where you live it's mostly women unemployed but it's not here. There's no wage gap here either.
Yes, i've heard of a deadbeat father. But i'm not arguing that all women have it harder than men. I'm saying hey..if all women in the US have it sooo much easier, as you profess, there'd be no such thing as a term 'welfare mother' nor a majority of the other examples.
I'm not remotely trying to have a competition of who has it worse - men or women..i'm trying to point out that there's a Tremendous amount of generalizing going on here ..and no.. Men And women can Both be poor. They can Both have crappy lives.
So, based on the statements above, where you live, i take it:
when a plumber shows up it's always a woman
The mail and ups drivers are women
The pizza delivery..women
The electricians, construction workers, and roofers are almost all women.
The city workers, street repair, and auto mechanics..women.
The long haul truckers and IT departments are almost entirely women; as are a majority of the upper echelon of the larger companies, as well as the politicians.
If so, then you live in a very unique place that doesn't represent anywhere else.
And if not, then maybe, you're hearing and seeing things with tainted glasses. As Hopper said, for example, the couple who dearly wants but can't have a baby suddenly sees couples with babies Everywhere they look..and every one they see is sooo happy. The quantity of families didn't change, nor did the quantity of screaming kids with exasperated parents change - however, the couple's perception and how they viewed things/what they focused on changed.
So I say more women then men have jobs and you change that to me saying only women have jobs. >.>
No, you said "Nearly all the businesses out where I live have replaced 90% of their workforce with women, men were let go women hired. The remaining men work as backroom workers. "
If that's true..... And if it's not...
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