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Kitty4670
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27 Feb 2016, 1:29 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:
Here's a really good tip for you. Don't fall deeply for someone too fast because if you have only talked to a guy just once or twice and you have already developed extremely deep feeling for him, it's just setting yourself up for failure if he doesn't like you back.

I made the same mistake a year ago. I was crazy about this one girl from the get-go from Late February till the middle of May. I'm actually glad she transferred because I don't think I could have mentally handled her being there any longer. I was in a period of depression trying to forget about her for 6 months.

You gotta let feelings develop relative to how much time you have spent with him. You don't want to be in love with a guy who you barely know.


I realize it was like, I really really like him.



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27 Feb 2016, 1:33 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
I realize it was like, I really really like him.


But the question is, does he really really like you?



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27 Feb 2016, 4:26 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:
You gotta let feelings develop relative to how much time you have spent with him. You don't want to be in love with a guy who you barely know.


Uhm, no. Rather, you should develop feeling relative to how long you have known somebody, provided you think it is mutual. That takes care of developing feelings too fast during dating.

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It is funny what being love struck can do to you though. One moment you can be extremely happy and elated and the next moment you become depressed as f**k. I actually learned that when you're in love, it actually offers you a protection from withdrawals if you're trying to quit an addiction.

So if you're addicted to anything, take advantage of it. lol


Right. I've noticed that too, but it only works in the initial phase when infatuation is really high.



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27 Feb 2016, 4:52 pm

rdos wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
You gotta let feelings develop relative to how much time you have spent with him. You don't want to be in love with a guy who you barely know.


Uhm, no. Rather, you should develop feeling relative to how long you have known somebody, provided you think it is mutual. That takes care of developing feelings too fast during dating.


I did meet Jeff over 5 months ago. You guys can confuse me weather I should have feelings or not.