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03 Jan 2017, 7:14 am

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I still have fears I will have to become someone like my older brother if I want things to change. He's a complete racist, sexist, homophobe, and self-serving "Christian" but it seems like those are the only men who succeed, atleast here in the Bible Belt.
don't give in to the dark side, you can only go with one team- either the mammon team [dark side, all the foul mercenary things of earth] or the light team [the good guys who wish to transcend the limitations of earth]. if you go with mammon you stay down with mammon until the end. resist.
The dark side in the Bible Belt: crappy pop country music, lame churches, dive bars, celebrity gossip, cheap beer, crappy cigarettes, yellow paged books, gobs of snot on the ground, public urination, heart attack inducing food, roadkill, domestic violence, teenage pregnancy, STDs, smell of gasoline everywhere, and Wal-Mart.
I love how all that no-sex-before-marriage BS leads to a higher rate of teen pregnancy. I delight in the irony that they caused the very thing they were trying to avoid.


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03 Jan 2017, 1:52 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
How long have you been single OP?


Since I was 21 but that relationship was very short lived. It was also pure luck it happened, no traditional customs were taken.

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I still have fears I will have to become someone like my older brother if I want things to change. He's a complete racist, sexist, homophobe, and self-serving "Christian" but it seems like those are the only men who succeed, atleast here in the Bible Belt.
don't give in to the dark side, you can only go with one team- either the mammon team [dark side, all the foul mercenary things of earth] or the light team [the good guys who wish to transcend the limitations of earth]. if you go with mammon you stay down with mammon until the end. resist.
The dark side in the Bible Belt: crappy pop country music, lame churches, dive bars, celebrity gossip, cheap beer, crappy cigarettes, yellow paged books, gobs of snot on the ground, public urination, heart attack inducing food, roadkill, domestic violence, teenage pregnancy, STDs, smell of gasoline everywhere, and Wal-Mart.
I love how all that no-sex-before-marriage BS leads to a higher rate of teen pregnancy. I delight in the irony that they caused the very thing they were trying to avoid.


Bible Belt people in general suffer from chronic inability to keep it in their collective pants. The constant preaching of "No pre-marital sex! Save it for marriage!" just makes sex more mysterious to them and their hormones kick in harder the more they try to put it off.



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03 Jan 2017, 5:08 pm

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Bible Belt people in general suffer from chronic inability to keep it in their collective pants. The constant preaching of "No pre-marital sex! Save it for marriage!" just makes sex more mysterious to them and their hormones kick in harder the more they try to put it off.

will they ever learn?



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03 Jan 2017, 5:30 pm

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Bible Belt people in general suffer from chronic inability to keep it in their collective pants. The constant preaching of "No pre-marital sex! Save it for marriage!" just makes sex more mysterious to them and their hormones kick in harder the more they try to put it off.

will they ever learn?


Probably not. They think applying the same process over and over again will produce a different result. They also tell me that God has a plan for me. I don't buy into religious dogma anymore.



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03 Jan 2017, 9:07 pm

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Be yourself and good things will follow. I know its hard but you just have to keep going. Try to find some good things and interests to follow in the meantime. The more things you do, the more chance of meeting someone with similar interests. Reckon 2017 is going to be your year!


I find "being yourself" confusing. When I tell others I am naturally shy and anxious after they tell me to be myself, they say "No, don't do that."

If 2017 isn't my year, I will probably snap.



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03 Jan 2017, 9:33 pm

Marknis wrote:
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How long have you been single OP?


Since I was 21 but that relationship was very short lived. It was also pure luck it happened, no traditional customs were taken.

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Marknis wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
Marknis wrote:
I still have fears I will have to become someone like my older brother if I want things to change. He's a complete racist, sexist, homophobe, and self-serving "Christian" but it seems like those are the only men who succeed, atleast here in the Bible Belt.
don't give in to the dark side, you can only go with one team- either the mammon team [dark side, all the foul mercenary things of earth] or the light team [the good guys who wish to transcend the limitations of earth]. if you go with mammon you stay down with mammon until the end. resist.
The dark side in the Bible Belt: crappy pop country music, lame churches, dive bars, celebrity gossip, cheap beer, crappy cigarettes, yellow paged books, gobs of snot on the ground, public urination, heart attack inducing food, roadkill, domestic violence, teenage pregnancy, STDs, smell of gasoline everywhere, and Wal-Mart.
I love how all that no-sex-before-marriage BS leads to a higher rate of teen pregnancy. I delight in the irony that they caused the very thing they were trying to avoid.


Bible Belt people in general suffer from chronic inability to keep it in their collective pants. The constant preaching of "No pre-marital sex! Save it for marriage!" just makes sex more mysterious to them and their hormones kick in harder the more they try to put it off.


how many months did it last? and when you said luck? are you saying that the girl was the initiator?



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04 Jan 2017, 1:32 am

WantToHaveALife wrote:
Marknis wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
How long have you been single OP?


Since I was 21 but that relationship was very short lived. It was also pure luck it happened, no traditional customs were taken.

RetroGamer87 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
Marknis wrote:
I still have fears I will have to become someone like my older brother if I want things to change. He's a complete racist, sexist, homophobe, and self-serving "Christian" but it seems like those are the only men who succeed, atleast here in the Bible Belt.
don't give in to the dark side, you can only go with one team- either the mammon team [dark side, all the foul mercenary things of earth] or the light team [the good guys who wish to transcend the limitations of earth]. if you go with mammon you stay down with mammon until the end. resist.
The dark side in the Bible Belt: crappy pop country music, lame churches, dive bars, celebrity gossip, cheap beer, crappy cigarettes, yellow paged books, gobs of snot on the ground, public urination, heart attack inducing food, roadkill, domestic violence, teenage pregnancy, STDs, smell of gasoline everywhere, and Wal-Mart.
I love how all that no-sex-before-marriage BS leads to a higher rate of teen pregnancy. I delight in the irony that they caused the very thing they were trying to avoid.


Bible Belt people in general suffer from chronic inability to keep it in their collective pants. The constant preaching of "No pre-marital sex! Save it for marriage!" just makes sex more mysterious to them and their hormones kick in harder the more they try to put it off.


how many months did it last? and when you said luck? are you saying that the girl was the initiator?


I honestly can't remember how long exactly. Maybe two months at most and she was the initiator in it.



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04 Jan 2017, 6:15 am

Marknis wrote:
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Be yourself and good things will follow. I know its hard but you just have to keep going. Try to find some good things and interests to follow in the meantime. The more things you do, the more chance of meeting someone with similar interests. Reckon 2017 is going to be your year!
I find "being yourself" confusing. When I tell others I am naturally shy and anxious after they tell me to be myself, they say "No, don't do that."

If 2017 isn't my year, I will probably snap.
Even if you try to not be yourself, you're still the one choosing your words and actions so even if you try to be different to yourself, your words and actions are still being influenced by your own personality and taste.

Sometimes I try to try a slightly different persona but since I created the persona using my own personality and tastes I'm still being myself.


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05 Jan 2017, 3:41 pm

ya, i only went on 1 date for 2016



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05 Jan 2017, 4:10 pm

Ouch!


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05 Jan 2017, 4:17 pm

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Ouch!


i almost had other dates but the girls flaked on me, how many dates did you go on for 2016?



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05 Jan 2017, 6:10 pm

0 dates since summer of 2012.



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05 Jan 2017, 6:21 pm

17 that I can remember.

But with only 4 girls.


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05 Jan 2017, 6:45 pm

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17 that I can remember.

But with only 4 girls.


were any of them your girlfriend? did you get to hook up with any of them?



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05 Jan 2017, 7:20 pm

Yes. One of them was my girlfriend for a few months. I miss her :(


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05 Jan 2017, 8:25 pm

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Yes. One of them was my girlfriend for a few months. I miss her :(


i sent you a private message, did you get it?