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31 Aug 2017, 6:09 pm

I haven't changed much either. My friends did.
That girl rejected me but now there's a 22 year old interested in me that I met on dating site :s 0.o



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31 Aug 2017, 6:50 pm

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I haven't changed much either. My friends did.
That girl rejected me but now there's a 22 year old interested in me that I met on dating site :s 0.o

Go for it!



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31 Aug 2017, 9:18 pm

Fighting my anxiety on it. She seems nice



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31 Aug 2017, 11:38 pm

Good luck!



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03 Sep 2017, 1:20 pm

Wel we texted for a few sprays and she seemed to really like me. We texted at break and last thing I said was I'd see her in z2 hours after work and she said ok honey with kisses and then after work I found out she blocked me :cry:

Women are horrible. I'd never play with a persons emotions for weeks the. Just block them with an explanation



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03 Sep 2017, 2:08 pm

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Wel we texted for a few sprays and she seemed to really like me. We texted at break and last thing I said was I'd see her in z2 hours after work and she said ok honey with kisses and then after work I found out she blocked me :cry:

Women are horrible. I'd never play with a persons emotions for weeks the. Just block them with an explanation

Ugh...heinous b[expletive]es. All good man, just keep movin' 'em on down the line, dude. 2 down, 98 to go. Make it happen, boss!



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03 Sep 2017, 2:15 pm

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Wel we texted for a few sprays and she seemed to really like me. We texted at break and last thing I said was I'd see her in z2 hours after work and she said ok honey with kisses and then after work I found out she blocked me :cry:

Women are horrible. I'd never play with a persons emotions for weeks the. Just block them with an explanation

Ugh...heinous b[expletive]es. All good man, just keep movin' 'em on down the line, dude. 2 down, 98 to go. Make it happen, boss!

What?

Also women this is why red pill exist. Men probably got tired of women's manipulative cruel games and so decided why not be manipulative back.

Why are women so cruel! What do they get out of making loser worthless trash fall in love with them only to block them! Is there a webpage will they post it and laugh?

No i dont know think I can love anymore. It was barely still there, I think she killed off the rest of my love. I don't even love my cat or family anymore, I don't feel love.
I don't think it exists if most women are any show of it.

For aspie women. You shouldn't want to be like nt women, they're cruel and horrible who take happiness in making guys love them and then seeing them suffer.



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03 Sep 2017, 2:31 pm

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Wel we texted for a few sprays and she seemed to really like me. We texted at break and last thing I said was I'd see her in z2 hours after work and she said ok honey with kisses and then after work I found out she blocked me :cry:

Women are horrible. I'd never play with a persons emotions for weeks the. Just block them with an explanation

Ugh...heinous b[expletive]es. All good man, just keep movin' 'em on down the line, dude. 2 down, 98 to go. Make it happen, boss!

What?

Also women this is why red pill exist. Men probably got tired of women's manipulative cruel games and so decided why not be manipulative back.

Why are women so cruel! What do they get out of making loser worthless trash fall in love with them only to block them! Is there a webpage will they post it and laugh?

No i dont know think I can love anymore. It was barely still there, I think she killed off the rest of my love. I don't even love my cat or family anymore, I don't feel love.
I don't think it exists if most women are any show of it.

For aspie women. You shouldn't want to be like nt women, they're cruel and horrible who take happiness in making guys love them and then seeing them suffer.

I believe out of 100 women, at least one girl will go out with you. It's not likely ONLY one girl will, though. The more girls you ask out and reject reject you, the more the likelihood increases until the probability of actually getting a date becomes a near certainty.

So...you said 2 women, right? This one and one before? Now you've got 98 to go. Try two a week for a year and see what happens. Maybe nothing happens, maybe you're in a relationship by #30. Who knows? Play the numbers.

Falling in love? I think it best to keep emotions out of it if you're just meeting up with someone the first time. Give her a chance of being either/or and keep your expectations low. Someone you see often will end up being your best bet for a relationship. MOST of the time you end up "just friends." But if you THINK about that, you'll understand that's not the worst that could happen



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03 Sep 2017, 3:02 pm

I've been rejected by hundreds.

We hadn't met up yet.

I don't think you understand how worthless I am to women.



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03 Sep 2017, 3:08 pm

You might be looking for the wrong kind I woman.

I reckon there's lots of women out there who'll go for a man who thinks himself worthless.


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03 Sep 2017, 7:03 pm

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You might be looking for the wrong kind I woman.

I reckon there's lots of women out there who'll go for a man who thinks himself worthless.

I don't understand, are you siding with the lady who manipulated and played me into loving her by pretending to love and want to be with me but never intending to and never actually liking me?



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03 Sep 2017, 8:41 pm

that is a very mean thing she did to you sly. You deserve way better then her.

Maybe take a break from dating websites and just focus on some activities/ hobbies that you enjoy for a while.

Once you feel better, then try joining a different dating website.

(This is kinda my process; every time i get hurt/ disappointed, i start this cycle over again)

Good luck.


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04 Sep 2017, 1:12 am

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You might be looking for the wrong kind I woman.

I reckon there's lots of women out there who'll go for a man who thinks himself worthless.

I don't understand, are you siding with the lady who manipulated and played me into loving her by pretending to love and want to be with me but never intending to and never actually liking me?


God no I'm not siding with her. I would never side with someone like that. Maybe my response was rather flippant and not very well thought through.

Best wishes anyway. I'm best off staying away from these topics because I'm absolutely rubbish when it comes to relationship advice.

What I meant to say was that maybe you are looking in the wrong place for a partner. Age isn't or shouldn't be an issue but maybe you need someone who is more mature emotionally that this girl was. It's her fault not yours. Don't beat yourself up or hate yourself for what she has done.

Apologies again for my splurge.x


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04 Sep 2017, 3:45 am

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You might be looking for the wrong kind I woman.

I reckon there's lots of women out there who'll go for a man who thinks himself worthless.

I don't understand, are you siding with the lady who manipulated and played me into loving her by pretending to love and want to be with me but never intending to and never actually liking me?

I'm not going lie, that's a little disturbing. You've chatted to sometime at work a few times and you love her? If a girl responds to chit chat at work it means she loves you, and if it turns out she is just trying to be friendly then she has tricked you into thinking she loves you?

These are not normal thoughts, you're far too intense and I don't doubt that this comes across to the people you talk with and makes them wary and a little uneasy.

This is why you have to learn to be friends with women first. You need to dial that intensity way way down and learn to be at ease around women and have them at ease around you. If a woman thinks saying "hello" is going to be misinterpreted as a declaration of love then they're going to give you a wide berth.

Once you get comfortable at that, women will spend more time around you and getting to know you and that then increases the chance of her wanting to be in a relationship if she finds you have qualities she wants in a partner.



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04 Sep 2017, 4:24 am

Chichikov wrote:
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You might be looking for the wrong kind I woman.

I reckon there's lots of women out there who'll go for a man who thinks himself worthless.

I don't understand, are you siding with the lady who manipulated and played me into loving her by pretending to love and want to be with me but never intending to and never actually liking me?

I'm not going lie, that's a little disturbing. You've chatted to sometime at work a few times and you love her? If a girl responds to chit chat at work it means she loves you, and if it turns out she is just trying to be friendly then she has tricked you into thinking she loves you?

These are not normal thoughts, you're far too intense and I don't doubt that this comes across to the people you talk with and makes them wary and a little uneasy.

This is why you have to learn to be friends with women first. You need to dial that intensity way way down and learn to be at ease around women and have them at ease around you. If a woman thinks saying "hello" is going to be misinterpreted as a declaration of love then they're going to give you a wide berth.

Once you get comfortable at that, women will spend more time around you and getting to know you and that then increases the chance of her wanting to be in a relationship if she finds you have qualities she wants in a partner.


Different girl. We changed daily hours s day for weeks. With her being all lovey dovy. Calling me her love, sweetie, honey, etc
She also was quite to sext. She also talked about being mine etc,

I should have just ignored her, I knew it was impossible for s woman to like me.



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04 Sep 2017, 4:31 am

Keep moaning about it on the Internet then, that seems to be working well for you so far. Way better than spending that energy improving yourself anyway.