Sleeping with someone who's in a relationship

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14 Apr 2018, 6:17 pm

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Are those things wrong or not?


Sex between consenting adults isn't wrong, so equating it with those things is absurd.


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14 Apr 2018, 6:29 pm

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AngelRho wrote:
Are those things wrong or not?


Sex between consenting adults isn't wrong, so equating it with those things is absurd.

What if later on my wife is out of the picture for whatever reason and my daughter in her mid-20’s is in love with me and sexually attracted to me. You believe it’s ok to commit incest? You said it yourself: Sex between consenting adults isn't wrong. Therefore incest isn’t wrong.



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14 Apr 2018, 6:35 pm

AngelRho wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
Are those things wrong or not?


Sex between consenting adults isn't wrong, so equating it with those things is absurd.

What if later on my wife is out of the picture for whatever reason and my daughter in her mid-20’s is in love with me and sexually attracted to me. You believe it’s ok to commit incest? You said it yourself: Sex between consenting adults isn't wrong. Therefore incest isn’t wrong.


I never said any such thing. Twist my words and blatantly make things up and say I said them and I will report you to the mods. I've never reported anyone for anything, even your damaging homophobic posts in another thread, but completely falsify things and claim that I said them and I will.

Fantasizing about your daughter desiring you sexually says more about you than me, IMO.


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14 Apr 2018, 6:52 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
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AngelRho wrote:
Are those things wrong or not?


Sex between consenting adults isn't wrong, so equating it with those things is absurd.

What if later on my wife is out of the picture for whatever reason and my daughter in her mid-20’s is in love with me and sexually attracted to me. You believe it’s ok to commit incest? You said it yourself: Sex between consenting adults isn't wrong. Therefore incest isn’t wrong.


I never said any such thing. Twist my words and blatantly make things up and say I said them and I will report you to the mods. I've never reported anyone for anything, even your damaging homophobic posts in another thread, but completely falsify things and claim that I said them and I will.

Fantasizing about your daughter desiring you sexually says more about you than me, IMO.

Oh, so it IS a problem? I see...

So sex between consenting adults can SOMETIMES be not okay. Like, perhaps, doing something hurtful to someone else by sleeping with his SO?



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14 Apr 2018, 7:13 pm

Can you explain how you do your 'bad boy'-routine, I'm pretty curious what turns these girls on, other than a jacked body of course. Guess I gotta commit more time to gym.. I doubt I could make the girls go wild with my manboobs and beer belly.



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14 Apr 2018, 7:25 pm

Why people too focused on physical attraction and sexuality rather than the social ethics? I have plenty female friends who have boyfriends and married. I don't go like have sex with them because of their position. This girl who had sex behind her boyfriend's back is in the wrongdoing. It affects their own relationship.

I think the OP needs to reconsider his actions. It is also wrong thing to do despite he knows that she have a boyfriend so why keep going to cross the line? It still unethical.



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14 Apr 2018, 8:00 pm

Very unethical to sleep with somebody you know is in a relationship, I can't believe people are so insensitive as to think that that's ok.


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14 Apr 2018, 10:16 pm

AngelRho wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
Are those things wrong or not?


Sex between consenting adults isn't wrong, so equating it with those things is absurd.

What if later on my wife is out of the picture for whatever reason and my daughter in her mid-20’s is in love with me and sexually attracted to me. You believe it’s ok to commit incest? You said it yourself: Sex between consenting adults isn't wrong. Therefore incest isn’t wrong.


I never said any such thing. Twist my words and blatantly make things up and say I said them and I will report you to the mods. I've never reported anyone for anything, even your damaging homophobic posts in another thread, but completely falsify things and claim that I said them and I will.

Fantasizing about your daughter desiring you sexually says more about you than me, IMO.

Oh, so it IS a problem? I see...

So sex between consenting adults can SOMETIMES be not okay. Like, perhaps, doing something hurtful to someone else by sleeping with his SO?


I never said that, either. All I said is that I never said what you said I said.

Just because I think it's gross doesn't mean you and your adult daughter can't bone each other too your incestual hearts' content.


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14 Apr 2018, 10:20 pm

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Why people too focused on physical attraction and sexuality rather than the social ethics? I have plenty female friends who have boyfriends and married. I don't go like have sex with them because of their position. This girl who had sex behind her boyfriend's back is in the wrongdoing. It affects their own relationship.

I think the OP needs to reconsider his actions. It is also wrong thing to do despite he knows that she have a boyfriend so why keep going to cross the line? It still unethical.


Because some people don't operate their lives under the same personal code of ethics that you do. That's the only reason & full explanation for why some people do these things - they're completely Okay with doing them. That's it, that's all.

The only thing the OP should do, IMO, is make sure he practices safe sex because obviously these girls aren't monogamous. Oh, and also, have fun. 8)


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14 Apr 2018, 10:21 pm

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Very unethical to sleep with somebody you know is in a relationship, I can't believe people are so insensitive as to think that that's ok.


As I explained earlier, it's not that these people are unethical, it's simply that they don't live their lives by the same ethical code that you do. That's it.


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14 Apr 2018, 11:14 pm

Too much conflict in this thread, it's run its course folks.