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Sometimes, people in these situations get along. They find ways around all the crap.

Oh my, this sounds so sexy- I would date a woman who talks like this in a heartbeat.

Dude, check again the quote tree; it was she who started with the stats.

If you don't like your statements to be taken seriously please go on then.

No. I am disabled, have mental problems and of course autism and other physical problems and because of my problems I can't work. Had to drop out of high school because of my problems but taught myself everything. English is not my main language, nobody taught me English but myself.

Had girlfriends from all sides of society, good jobs, no job, you name it. We grew apart, it did not work, none dropped me like a sack of potatoes and it had nothing to do with job or income because I am on welfare and have my own money. Mutual decision every time. Only had one extremely abusive one and I dumped her.

I do get rejected so much it's insane, women can't see past my problems. I understand it's too much and decided 6 months ago to remain single and accept that.

Love to me is unconditional and if that is not present, there is no love. Women that are practical, have lost faith in finding true love, their soulmate, that is my opinion. Truly feel sorry for them. That is in my opinion why most love songs or by men, as well as poems.

Have no desire to only sleep with a woman and even if a woman now comes up to me and offers, I would not even want to have a woman like that. But I am a weird one, I fall for behavior, not looks, can find someone physically unattractive (which I do not mind at all) but when I see them do something like care for an injured animal, I start finding them incredibly attractive and start falling for them. Physically attractive women that act like they own the place and are pretty just make me nauseous and I find them immediately unattractive.

People that abandon their partner when they get sick or something other horrible, that is awful behavior. You never loved the other person, you are just with them for fun and practical use. Feel sorry for those people. It's just a mutual agreement to be together in a way, friends with benefits.

I love your humor!

Seen a movie once where this happened and I yelled at the screen a lot. Was upset the entire week. How people can do that, leave their partner when they are in such a horrible situation is beyond me. No love at all. Even in that I am on the "Wrong Planet".

I have a blind dog, they told me I should put her down, told them she seems pretty happy and content with life and I am not a killer, told them to go play with themselves in a mean way and went to a good vet. He told me I was right and I knew I met a good one. She was 4 when she turned blind and now 13 and still happy as can be. Only needs some attention, love and care and she gets it. Love is a beautiful thing and she loves me to the end and back and I love her the same. Would die for her in a heartbeat.

Is she a devout Christian?

Don't know, I think she considers herself "spiritual" or something like that.

Thank you. I hope it doesn't leave a reflection on who I am as a person with you or anyone else. To me, comedy is comedy. It is not an identity.

As for your story, it is heartwarming. I read your other thread also. All I can say is, there is a lot of personality and good behind you. Translating that into something the public can process might be hard at times, but it is not foregone. A belated welcome to WP. You'll do fine.

My solution: Don't get married
And don't have kids.
My financial situation remains my problem and not his/hers. Unless of course my partner has a problem with me being poor for their own reasons, in which case, they are free to find someone else (as Luhluhluh says).

Thank you, you are very kind and I feel humbled.

Don't worry, humor is what keeps the tension from rising to an extreme level. As long as it's not too personal, I can see the humor in it

No. I don't struggle getting dates with women from dating sites

The. Your lucky
I’ve never had a girlfriend never will
Doesn’t seem to me based off my experiences and women in my area that any women can look past my income and see an human who has stuff to offer.

Hah, nice selective quoting!

Then I guess you also don't have a problem with thinking women stop replying once you tell them "X" about yourself. Great

Who was even talking to you?

It's not like this thread wasn't already completely derailed