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23 Apr 2019, 11:07 pm

Well, I am happy for you, I hope it all works out how you would like it to. Good Luck!

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24 Apr 2019, 12:42 pm

Any news, hope you're well

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24 Apr 2019, 2:53 pm

hurt--

for whatever it is worth, i am kinda in the guy's shoes in my own situation:

I adore the relationship i have with the person,

i know he digs me romantically,

but i am super hesitant to move forward because i don't want to lose such an amazing friend if things don't work out....

in a weird way, it's a huge compliment; because you are valued as a human being and not just for sex appeal

i hope things do work out for you :heart: :heart:

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24 Apr 2019, 3:48 pm

Ha ha, well, the way he looks at me sometimes, I feel like I'm valued for sex appeal, but not for a serious romantic relationship.

A weird sort of friendship, where you're attracted to her, but you don't want a relationship.

I get this a lot.

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24 Apr 2019, 3:49 pm

Map84 wrote:

Any news, hope you're well

Nope. I haven't had a chance to meet up with him yet.

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24 Apr 2019, 3:55 pm

Got a sneaky suspicion someone else is interested in him though.

This does not bode well.

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24 Apr 2019, 4:25 pm

hurtloam wrote:

Got a sneaky suspicion someone else is interested in him though.

This does not bode well.

And if that was true, why wouldn't you be able to win his heart and loyalty? Confidence is an attractive quality, there is absolutely nothing sexier than a woman that knows how attractive they are and displays that self confidence so long as it is not vanity in my opinion. Did he not say you may be what he is looking for? Be confident because in his opinion, you have what he is looking for.

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24 Apr 2019, 4:35 pm

blackicmenace wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

Got a sneaky suspicion someone else is interested in him though.

This does not bode well.

No he didn't say that. I may have said we have a lot in common.

Well, all I can say is this girl has given me the kick up the butt i need to make a move.

I'm actually feeling a bit more cheerful today. I get really down when I gave a head cold. It's pathetic. Being able to breathe through my nose means a lot to me.

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24 Apr 2019, 8:29 pm

hurtloam wrote:

I'm actually feeling a bit more cheerful today. I get really down when I have a head cold. It's pathetic. Being able to breathe through my nose means a lot to me.

I also struggle mightily when I have a head cold and my sinuses are trying to constrict kill my skull. Glad you're feeling better, and good luck.

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25 Apr 2019, 10:02 am

You get cold too frequently for a Brit.

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25 Apr 2019, 4:26 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

You get cold too frequently for a Brit.

I think the stress of just being alive has weakened my immune system.

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25 Apr 2019, 5:21 pm

Love is a lie!

People like me don't get to be loved. I am not enough. I will never be enough. I am too weird and broken and ugly.

I've got to just accept being single. I don't know how, but I don't think I can go through this again.

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25 Apr 2019, 5:36 pm

hurtloam wrote:

Hugs
Non of that is true

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25 Apr 2019, 5:44 pm

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None of that is true, what happened?

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25 Apr 2019, 5:47 pm

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hurtloam wrote:

None of that is true, what happened?

I tried to send you a pm.
Can you please pm me and I'll reply.

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25 Apr 2019, 5:48 pm

sly279 wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

Hugs
Non of that is true

Hugs back little fox.

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