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08 Dec 2020, 9:49 am

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Sometimes, I feel like people who know me in real life mostly think I'm just a tall person and nothing more than that.

I do get noticed faster but don't necessarily attract women with it.


A person's height isn't the most important factor in someone.

However:
-Taller men have an advantage.

Quote:
Sorry shorties, tall dudes have their pick of the dating pool.

There is already a growing body of research suggesting that tall men are generally paid better and are viewed as more masculine and competent. A new paper suggests that their height advantage also spills over into their personal lives.

“There seems to be an almost universal agreement among men and women that they would prefer to be in a relationship where the man is taller,” said Abigail Weitzman, lead author of the study published this month by the National Bureau of Economic Research, a nonprofit organization that focuses on how the economy works.


https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to- ... ting-pool/

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O; This breaks my heart
They 'would' vs they 'will' is a hypothetical thinking in assessed people. Like with your theory if they had the same personality, youd be loving them both the same because they're one and the same. In reality people are different.
So they can't add the real factors to the height.

And what if I want a feminine man? What if I want him to sit in my lap sometimes? Do I just have to spread my legs and give him the remote? Or bend him over? Can't I deem him the Alpha if he's making me feel like he is? Or give him the payment he deserves? 8)

Seems like people were forced to choose without thinking about the other factors. In reality things are much different.

It's like comparing a chihuahua with a saint bernard. Some Chihuahua has that angery potential. Bernard is a lapdog. And the husky wolf is tame. :evil: Pat pat.



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08 Dec 2020, 1:44 pm

Pepe wrote:
Caesar wrote:
Sometimes, I feel like people who know me in real life mostly think I'm just a tall person and nothing more than that.

I do get noticed faster but don't necessarily attract women with it.


A person's height isn't the most important factor in someone.

However:
-Taller men have an advantage.

Quote:
Sorry shorties, tall dudes have their pick of the dating pool.

There is already a growing body of research suggesting that tall men are generally paid better and are viewed as more masculine and competent. A new paper suggests that their height advantage also spills over into their personal lives.

“There seems to be an almost universal agreement among men and women that they would prefer to be in a relationship where the man is taller,” said Abigail Weitzman, lead author of the study published this month by the National Bureau of Economic Research, a nonprofit organization that focuses on how the economy works.


https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to- ... ting-pool/

8)





Thats only in America though



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08 Dec 2020, 7:25 pm

Pepe wrote:
Sorry shorties, tall dudes have their pick of the dating pool.

There is already a growing body of research suggesting that tall men are generally paid better and are viewed as more masculine and competent. A new paper suggests that their height advantage also spills over into their personal lives.

Most girls like a guy to be taller then themself but not even few care dominance a lot more then how tall a guy is. I guess that you wont have any problems with the girls as soon as you are skunk enough to scare the other guys away. :twisted:


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08 Dec 2020, 8:47 pm

quite an extreme wrote:
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Sorry shorties, tall dudes have their pick of the dating pool.

There is already a growing body of research suggesting that tall men are generally paid better and are viewed as more masculine and competent. A new paper suggests that their height advantage also spills over into their personal lives.

Most girls like a guy to be taller then themself but not even few care dominance a lot more then how tall a guy is. I guess that you wont have any problems with the girls as soon as you are skunk enough to scare the other guys away. :twisted:

But you're such a nice guy. You wouldn't scare a fly! I missed you.

The Pepe doesn't date anymore. He is content with being a free skunk. He has more attention than he craves. xP



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08 Dec 2020, 9:45 pm

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^ What the tall men are not understanding is; that height is often not a bonus nor influences anything; but it’s the lack of it which often lead to an instant rejection. So in this sense, tallness is an advantage.


I think you're onto something here Boo, I feel that in the present dating market women are spoiled for choice in the sheer number of potential suitors. Internet dating makes this even more profound. So perhaps it's a case of looking for something - anything which can be used as a reason to reject someone.



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08 Dec 2020, 10:23 pm

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^ What the tall men are not understanding is; that height is often not a bonus nor influences anything; but it’s the lack of it which often lead to an instant rejection. So in this sense, tallness is an advantage.


I think you're onto something here Boo, I feel that in the present dating market women are spoiled for choice in the sheer number of potential suitors. Internet dating makes this even more profound. So perhaps it's a case of looking for something - anything which can be used as a reason to reject someone.

We don't always seek variety, either. We are attracted to a certain kind of person who should have the 'common' qualities.



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08 Dec 2020, 10:34 pm

Rexi wrote:
We don't always seek variety, either. We are attracted to a certain kind of person who should have the 'common' qualities.


I'm the same, I know what I like, but I'm not one to go down a list of things looking for a reason to reject someone.



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08 Dec 2020, 11:06 pm

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Rexi wrote:
We don't always seek variety, either. We are attracted to a certain kind of person who should have the 'common' qualities.


I'm the same, I know what I like, but I'm not one to go down a list of things looking for a reason to reject someone.

Makes sense.

People may mentally negotiate though. If the love is strong, we may sacrifice security or economic status. If the potential partner’s status is high, we may compromise regarding the intensity of our romantic feelings.

Or we tend to compromise regarding emotional stability if the potential partner is very attractive physically. Also, we may agree to accept a less attractive partner if they are exceptionally stable and emotionally sound.

Someone of the same religion as us will be seen as an attractive choice even if he or she does not possess a particularly sociable character. A potential partner who’s very sociable by nature will attract us even if they don’t share our religious background.



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08 Dec 2020, 11:11 pm

Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Caesar wrote:
Sometimes, I feel like people who know me in real life mostly think I'm just a tall person and nothing more than that.

I do get noticed faster but don't necessarily attract women with it.


A person's height isn't the most important factor in someone.

However:
-Taller men have an advantage.

Quote:
Sorry shorties, tall dudes have their pick of the dating pool.

There is already a growing body of research suggesting that tall men are generally paid better and are viewed as more masculine and competent. A new paper suggests that their height advantage also spills over into their personal lives.

“There seems to be an almost universal agreement among men and women that they would prefer to be in a relationship where the man is taller,” said Abigail Weitzman, lead author of the study published this month by the National Bureau of Economic Research, a nonprofit organization that focuses on how the economy works.


https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to- ... ting-pool/

8)

O; This breaks my heart
They 'would' vs they 'will' is a hypothetical thinking in assessed people. Like with your theory if they had the same personality, youd be loving them both the same because they're one and the same. In reality people are different.
So they can't add the real factors to the height.

And what if I want a feminine man? What if I want him to sit in my lap sometimes? Do I just have to spread my legs and give him the remote? Or bend him over? Can't I deem him the Alpha if he's making me feel like he is? Or give him the payment he deserves? 8)

Seems like people were forced to choose without thinking about the other factors. In reality things are much different.

It's like comparing a chihuahua with a saint bernard. Some Chihuahua has that angery potential. Bernard is a lapdog. And the husky wolf is tame. :evil: Pat pat.


Erm.
Shouldn't this be taken to the adult forum?
Anyone else feeling a little hot? 8O



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08 Dec 2020, 11:17 pm

Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Caesar wrote:
Sometimes, I feel like people who know me in real life mostly think I'm just a tall person and nothing more than that.

I do get noticed faster but don't necessarily attract women with it.


A person's height isn't the most important factor in someone.

However:
-Taller men have an advantage.

Quote:
Sorry shorties, tall dudes have their pick of the dating pool.

There is already a growing body of research suggesting that tall men are generally paid better and are viewed as more masculine and competent. A new paper suggests that their height advantage also spills over into their personal lives.

“There seems to be an almost universal agreement among men and women that they would prefer to be in a relationship where the man is taller,” said Abigail Weitzman, lead author of the study published this month by the National Bureau of Economic Research, a nonprofit organization that focuses on how the economy works.


https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to- ... ting-pool/

8)

O; This breaks my heart
They 'would' vs they 'will' is a hypothetical thinking in assessed people. Like with your theory if they had the same personality, youd be loving them both the same because they're one and the same. In reality people are different.
So they can't add the real factors to the height.

And what if I want a feminine man? What if I want him to sit in my lap sometimes? Do I just have to spread my legs and give him the remote? Or bend him over? Can't I deem him the Alpha if he's making me feel like he is? Or give him the payment he deserves? 8)

Seems like people were forced to choose without thinking about the other factors. In reality things are much different.

It's like comparing a chihuahua with a saint bernard. Some Chihuahua has that angery potential. Bernard is a lapdog. And the husky wolf is tame. :evil: Pat pat.


Erm.
Shouldn't this be taken to the adult forum?
Anyone else feeling a little hot? 8O

I have a feasible explanation, as follows: If he's tall and we are watching TV, I have to make room for him to sit between my legs because his weight might cause my legs discomfort and lack of blood circulation.

If he sits between my legs, he has to bend over for me to be able to see the programs. xD

And then if he is hired for me then can't i pay him good?



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08 Dec 2020, 11:18 pm

Rexi wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Sorry shorties, tall dudes have their pick of the dating pool.

There is already a growing body of research suggesting that tall men are generally paid better and are viewed as more masculine and competent. A new paper suggests that their height advantage also spills over into their personal lives.

Most girls like a guy to be taller then themself but not even few care dominance a lot more then how tall a guy is. I guess that you wont have any problems with the girls as soon as you are skunk enough to scare the other guys away. :twisted:

But you're such a nice guy. You wouldn't scare a fly! I missed you.

The Pepe doesn't date anymore. He is content with being a free skunk. He has more attention than he craves. xP


I think I am more realistic, than content. 8)
Dating is for younger people. :wink:



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08 Dec 2020, 11:20 pm

Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Caesar wrote:
Sometimes, I feel like people who know me in real life mostly think I'm just a tall person and nothing more than that.

I do get noticed faster but don't necessarily attract women with it.


A person's height isn't the most important factor in someone.

However:
-Taller men have an advantage.

Quote:
Sorry shorties, tall dudes have their pick of the dating pool.

There is already a growing body of research suggesting that tall men are generally paid better and are viewed as more masculine and competent. A new paper suggests that their height advantage also spills over into their personal lives.

“There seems to be an almost universal agreement among men and women that they would prefer to be in a relationship where the man is taller,” said Abigail Weitzman, lead author of the study published this month by the National Bureau of Economic Research, a nonprofit organization that focuses on how the economy works.


https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to- ... ting-pool/

8)

O; This breaks my heart
They 'would' vs they 'will' is a hypothetical thinking in assessed people. Like with your theory if they had the same personality, youd be loving them both the same because they're one and the same. In reality people are different.
So they can't add the real factors to the height.

And what if I want a feminine man? What if I want him to sit in my lap sometimes? Do I just have to spread my legs and give him the remote? Or bend him over? Can't I deem him the Alpha if he's making me feel like he is? Or give him the payment he deserves? 8)

Seems like people were forced to choose without thinking about the other factors. In reality things are much different.

It's like comparing a chihuahua with a saint bernard. Some Chihuahua has that angery potential. Bernard is a lapdog. And the husky wolf is tame. :evil: Pat pat.


Erm.
Shouldn't this be taken to the adult forum?
Anyone else feeling a little hot? 8O

I have a feasible explanation, as follows: If he's tall and we are watching TV, I have to make room for him to sit between my legs because his weight might cause my legs discomfort and lack of blood circulation.

If he sits between my legs, he has to bend over for me to be able to see the programs. xD

And then if he is hired for me then can't i pay him good?


Is it getting even hotter in here? 8O [sweat]



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08 Dec 2020, 11:29 pm

Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Sorry shorties, tall dudes have their pick of the dating pool.

There is already a growing body of research suggesting that tall men are generally paid better and are viewed as more masculine and competent. A new paper suggests that their height advantage also spills over into their personal lives.

Most girls like a guy to be taller then themself but not even few care dominance a lot more then how tall a guy is. I guess that you wont have any problems with the girls as soon as you are skunk enough to scare the other guys away. :twisted:

But you're such a nice guy. You wouldn't scare a fly! I missed you.

The Pepe doesn't date anymore. He is content with being a free skunk. He has more attention than he craves. xP


I think I am more realistic, than content. 8)
Dating is for younger people. :wink:

Then why is Santa Claus in a relationship?

Grandma has a lot of dates. Just this autumn she flirted with a doctor, went to a pizza place owners house, dated a colonel, got free drinks and cakes from various check players, daily went out and was surrounded by men on the bench when I bumped into the sight of her, she had secret meetings with her boyfriend when the house was empty, she talks dirty on the phone. She had a bf prior, too. And she was just left by her long term bf just this autumn. They lived together more than 30 years.

Grandma is young at heart, but I can see you are too.

And she is 95 years old. She is also my best friend. The only person I like in rl. Mess with us, mess with the devil. ;D



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08 Dec 2020, 11:42 pm

Hmm, by the way, my oldest date was 40 years older.



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08 Dec 2020, 11:43 pm

Rexi wrote:
Eurythmic wrote:
Rexi wrote:
We don't always seek variety, either. We are attracted to a certain kind of person who should have the 'common' qualities.


I'm the same, I know what I like, but I'm not one to go down a list of things looking for a reason to reject someone.

Makes sense.

People may mentally negotiate though. If the love is strong, we may sacrifice security or economic status. If the potential partner’s status is high, we may compromise regarding the intensity of our romantic feelings.

Or we tend to compromise regarding emotional stability if the potential partner is very attractive physically. Also, we may agree to accept a less attractive partner if they are exceptionally stable and emotionally sound.

Someone of the same religion as us will be seen as an attractive choice even if he or she does not possess a particularly sociable character. A potential partner who’s very sociable by nature will attract us even if they don’t share our religious background.


There are very few lonely billionaires, as I said. :mrgreen:



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08 Dec 2020, 11:44 pm

Rexi wrote:
Hmm, by the way, my oldest date was 40 years older.


Are you trying to seduce me?
I'm easy. Do you want me to bend over now, or later? :mrgreen: