Missed a chance to have sex?
I declined and said I needed to back to the pub and see friends.
Do you think I blew my only chance to ever have sex?
she is 67 and I am 31
Missed you by an inch.
Can you elaborate on this comment?
My doctors tell me I have very good insight/self awareness. But you seem to say the opposite? Perhaps you can justify this comment?
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Your doctors tell you....
...mmmhh yeah...
Well for e.g., your habit of popping into strictly rule based threads, and completely being oblivious to the nature of the threads for one. I would classify that as a strange lack of awareness. Wrong answers only, question only. etc
And much more. Just your general way of being strikes me as 'off'. or wacky. or neurotic, or ..or.. i don't know, just strange. Your constant projections and misunderstandings also. That's the weirdest thing i noticed.
But if you say you suffered brain damage, then you cant help all this,or maybe incapable of recognizing it, or how you might appear to others. I'm not tryin to insult you, but yeah...thats my point of view 
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It sucks giant monkey balls. And because I mask so well, people think I am 'faking' being disabled. Even other disabled people make this mistake about me.
I get similar comments from time to time. Everyone knows I'm very reserved (usually) but other than that it can be very hard to tell I have autism. With small talk it's impossible to notice but the further I get into deeper and more meaningful social interactions it becomes obvious.
Deep meaningful social interactions is obviously open to interpretation. I can easily enough have sex with a woman in less than a minute if she makes it obvious but if someone's friend has died and they're clearly upset I can freeze on the spot.
Well for e.g., your habit of popping into strictly rule based threads, and completely being oblivious to the nature of the threads for one. I would classify that as a strange lack of awareness. Wrong answers only, question only. etc
And much more. Just your general way of being strikes me as 'off'. or wacky. or neurotic, or ..or.. i don't know, just strange. Your constant projections and misunderstandings also. That's the weirdest thing i noticed.
But if you say you suffered brain damage, then you cant help all this,or maybe incapable of recognizing it, or how you might appear to others. I'm not tryin to insult you, but yeah...thats my point of view

Hmm, perhaps I am not oblivious but I choose to ignore the rules, sometimes? In which case it wouldn't be a lack of awareness. Also, there is room for interpretation of such threads & it is a subjective thing.
I am a bit wacky & neurotic - but who isn't? Why are you even on an Autistic forum if you are 'normal'?
You are entitled to your point of view.
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“I was ashamed of myself when I realized life was a costume party and I attended with my real face” - Franz Kafka
It sucks giant monkey balls. And because I mask so well, people think I am 'faking' being disabled. Even other disabled people make this mistake about me.
I get similar comments from time to time. Everyone knows I'm very reserved (usually) but other than that it can be very hard to tell I have autism. With small talk it's impossible to notice but the further I get into deeper and more meaningful social interactions it becomes obvious.
Deep meaningful social interactions is obviously open to interpretation. I can easily enough have sex with a woman in less than a minute if she makes it obvious but if someone's friend has died and they're clearly upset I can freeze on the spot.
Yep. The amount of times I have heard "but you're so normal....." from both Autistic & NT folk in real life.
But apparently ThePrisoner (username) of that person on this forum, thinks I'm 'wacky'. I think I am just going to ignore this person.
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Also Prisoner is a reference to the chained prisoner of in Platos cave. The allegory. Also the 60's british tv show 'the prisoner.' Which i was watching.
Prisoner in life. Prisoner of society. prisoner of the mind. We' all prisoner in some sense.
Its just a archetypal thing. You can derive many meanings.
I don't know what it means to you. And how would I? I'm not telepathic.
Also when you talk about how I'm 'adopting your persona' and all that, yeah, WACKY. As in whacked.
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Prisoner in life. Prisoner of society. prisoner of the mind. We' all prisoner in some sense.
Its just a archetypal thing. You can derive many meanings.
I don't know what it means to you. And how would I? I'm not telepathic.
Also when you talk about how I'm 'adopting your persona' and all that, yeah, WACKY. As in whacked.
Alright, fine. Maybe I am just being a bit paranoid with the final part.
Let me shine some light on you then, Mr. shrink.
You state your IQ in your signature? If this is indeed you describing yourself & not some imaginary 'self'.
Nobody would do that if they had any social awareness at all. You are some kind of narcissist & I get the distinct impression that you are inclined towards trolling, which would indicate you may be a bit sociopathic & sadistic. You also have an air of condescension about you.
How about that?
You may be very successful, but that doesn't mean you are a good person.
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I work two jobs. I can't always be on WP
Oh, of course, KraftieKortie.
I like you & I am glad that you have a wife. You seem like a responsible, gentle & mature man.
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Let me shine some light on you then, Mr. shrink.
You state your IQ in your signature? If this is indeed you describing yourself & not some imaginary 'self'.
I'm an honest guy. I don't misrepresent myself. That's what i scored. I also honestly display how i feel about it. Maybe that comes off as narcissistic. arrogant. elitist. I'm proud of my intelligence okay...
How about that?
Your are entitled to your opinion. Just try to keep those opinions, thoughts within the bounds of everyday reality, and you got no problem with me.I'm not running for office. I'm not Jesus Christ. I'm just a person with Aspergers. I'm a good person. Who sometimes does things that are insensitive, yes.
I speak my mind. I bite my tongue for no one. So point the finger and call me a bad guy If you want. _________________
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I find this difficult to believe considering you cannot use 'your' appropriately. But I have seen stranger things, I suppose. Perhaps your skills do not lie in the English language?
IQ scores are weighted on numeracy skills as well as language skills - of this I am aware.
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I declined and said I needed to back to the pub and see friends.
Do you think I blew my only chance to ever have sex?
she is 67 and I am 31
Dude! she's old enough to be your mother!! ! and she's drunk
RULE 1 - never sleep with a drunk woman. It's a sure-fire way to be accused of sexual assault.
I declined and said I needed to back to the pub and see friends.
Do you think I blew my only chance to ever have sex?
she is 67 and I am 31
Dude! she's old enough to be your mother!! ! and she's drunk
RULE 1 - never sleep with a drunk woman. It's a sure-fire way to be accused of sexual assault.
I have never slept with a drunken woman, but it's a myth that you are inevitably going to be accused of sexual assault. The law in my country, the UK - states that if a person is conscious whilst having sex & can talk - and they give explicit consent, then it is okay to have sex whilst drunk.
Loads of people do it. It is unreality & gaslighting from feminist media to say that it's abnormal.
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