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02 Aug 2007, 1:47 pm

Idea-What if I just remove her from my life without saying anything? It resolves the problem of me being a p****, and she doesn't get that crushing blow of a break up. It also might be cruel, but every option seems cruel, and this one appears easiest and least cruel.

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02 Aug 2007, 2:50 pm

subatai_baadur wrote:

A slow disassociation doesn't seem unreasonable,
with a discussion which need not be drama filled,
to end it. She may even initiate it. If not though,
don't drag it out too long.

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02 Aug 2007, 9:51 pm

subatai_baadur wrote:

Idea-What if I just remove her from my life without saying anything? It resolves the problem of me being a p****

No. If you do it that way, you ARE being a p****, and she'll despise you.

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03 Aug 2007, 5:02 am

juliekitty wrote:

subatai_baadur wrote:

Idea-What if I just remove her from my life without saying anything? It resolves the problem of me being a p****

No. If you do it that way, you ARE being a p****, and she'll despise you.

Only if she notices. And, who cares about this? The question
is his personal honor, not what she thinks.

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03 Aug 2007, 7:08 am

Oh crap! He shouldn't be such a selfish wimp! If he wants that badly to break up with her why doesn't he eat a lot of onions and baked beans and develop a bad farting problem to drive her off. Or don't have a bath for days at a time. She won't want to go out a with a big slob and she'll break it off herself.

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03 Aug 2007, 10:41 am

The_Chosen_One wrote:

Subatai sighs loudly, tells The Chosen One to go read the f*****g post before responding. Moron.

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03 Aug 2007, 10:57 am

Just break up with her! Sheesh.

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04 Aug 2007, 1:09 am

Yeah, just tell her that the relationship isn't working out and that you want to break it off with her.

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04 Aug 2007, 3:56 pm

I just asked her what my faults were. She couldn't name any. I'm now pissed, frustrated, and I pity her. Anyone know a good word to encompass all of these?

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04 Aug 2007, 7:18 pm

Just break up with her already!! !!

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04 Aug 2007, 7:29 pm

subatai_baadur wrote:

I just asked her what my faults were. She couldn't name any.

Ah, so now it's time to take your cue from the
Japanese dating games, and tear into her for
not knowing you. Get in a big fight, and break
everything off.

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04 Aug 2007, 7:44 pm

calandale wrote:

subatai_baadur wrote:

I just asked her what my faults were. She couldn't name any.

Ah, so now it's time to take your cue from the
Japanese dating games, and tear into her for
not knowing you. Get in a big fight, and break
everything off.

I wanted to, but I thought that might hurt her while sparing me, which I've been told is bad.

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04 Aug 2007, 7:46 pm

subatai_baadur wrote:

I wanted to, but I thought that might hurt her while sparing me, which I've been told is bad.

How many times do we have
to drill it into your head, that
you're not doing her any favors,
leading her on?

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04 Aug 2007, 10:09 pm

calandale wrote:

subatai_baadur wrote:

I wanted to, but I thought that might hurt her while sparing me, which I've been told is bad.

How many times do we have
to drill it into your head, that
you're not doing her any favors,
leading her on?

But I don't want to hurt her more than I have to.

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04 Aug 2007, 11:16 pm

subatai_baadur wrote:

calandale wrote:

subatai_baadur wrote:

I wanted to, but I thought that might hurt her while sparing me, which I've been told is bad.

How many times do we have
to drill it into your head, that
you're not doing her any favors,
leading her on?

But I don't want to hurt her more than I have to.

The longer you know her while she is being lead on... the more it will hurt for her.

Are you really concerned about hurting her? Or the pain you will go through when actually telling her?

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05 Aug 2007, 5:00 am

Pugly wrote:

Are you really concerned about hurting her? Or the pain you will go through when actually telling her?

Yeah. That's what it really sounds like.

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