TwilightPrincess wrote:
Nades wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
It's just sex. It's not a prize or the Holy Grail. People's value (male and female) extends beyond it. Geez, this conversation is cringey.
Waiting until marriage with the awful marriage laws in a lot of countries makes it a prize as much as a gamble.
Why is it a prize? Don't these people masturbate?
Sex isn't something you "get" from another person like a prize. It's something you do together and that's, hopefully, mutually enjoyable. I'm speaking theoretically here.
Women enjoy sex just as much as men do.
Mine is more of a theoretical too. I imagine though, if someone had to sign something legally binding that risked their financial future, that person might be extremely cut throat when the first time in the bedroom arrives and frankly, who could blame them if they risked a lot.
If I was clinically insane enough to agree to such a risky endeavour (which luckily I won't), then I would have very high expectations and would be very unhappy if they weren't met.
At that moment in time it'll only be about the sex and I don't understand why someone would want to put themselves under that much pressure in the bedroom by waiting until marriage.
It depends on the person, but if someone wants to pick another with a lot to lose, then thats the pressure they put themselves under.
I'm trying to see it from the view of waiting until marriage right up to the night itself and not beyond for this particular thread.