Gonna try acting like a dick towards NT party girls
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sarahstilettos wrote:
I think your post describes the grain of truth in evolutionary theories very well, but the bottom line is that these theories just generalise too far. By default, evolutionary theories will always expect the whole of each sex to act in the same way all of the time, hence they will always be limited in their usefulness. I think there are a LOT of women who fail to confirm to what these theories expect of them. You can probably confirm that there's a lot of men too.
Yeah, agreed that its a lot of things at the same time. Like we were talking about in the shyness thread, I think nurture has a lot to do with whether people adhere directly to the evolutionary stuff or not. Some people chose to make the effort, some don't, when the people who don't make the effort have kids it means that their kids will have grown up with either those values, once in a while going in the opposite direction if they're parents were really bad enough, but usually when people have bad attitudes and find that bad attitude makes right in a machievellian sense a lot of times its very difficult for them to find a reason not to go with their basic side. Just like you'll find very alpha people who were raised with better parents and prefer to have class you also have all kinds of people who really want likeness of values or complimentary/opposite strengths out of a partner - something that usually rides over and above core theory. Still, I think the people who get shelled out by core eugenic/genetic theory will tend to find that its the first line in the sand and if you can't make it past that line you'll have a heck of a time making it happen. Not that there's no hope, they'll just have to go to some crazy ends to improve themselves and put more work into it than most people could even dream of.
sarahstilettos wrote:
Yeah, I sometimes worry that by talking about the positive side I'm just winding people up. I probably need to start more of my own threads to be positive in.
There's nothing wrong with the positive at all, its there just as much as the negative and it needs to be talked about. I think what happens is negative comes out more because it has more sway over a person's life, wanting to prevent it, wanting to know how to deal with it, and that's the support angle of the forums.
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
I kinda noticed that when you saw certain things, like with this or with ladder theory, you're pretty quick to call it misogyny.
I'm pretty quick to call it misogyny when it IS misogyny.
Did you actually look at that ladder theory site? It's just dripping with hatred and contempt for women.
Using "ho" or "b***h" as a synonym for "woman" is hateful, too.
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juliekitty wrote:
I'm pretty quick to call it misogyny when it IS misogyny.
Did you actually look at that ladder theory site? It's just dripping with hatred and contempt for women.
Using "ho" or "b***h" as a synonym for "woman" is hateful, too.
Did you actually look at that ladder theory site? It's just dripping with hatred and contempt for women.
Using "ho" or "b***h" as a synonym for "woman" is hateful, too.
Well, while I agree that the bottom line point is a piece of reality I *would* like to knock the writer's teeth back after reading how he phrased some of that. If its biological its biological, its to a degree no fault and more the fault of society condoning people to run from reality (like my roommate, lots of people run full force sprint - enough to get themselves winded practically - toward temptation rather than thinking about what its really worth in the long term and where it puts them).
Cyanide wrote:
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sarahstilettos wrote:
Is that in Florida? Its 16 in the UK.
It's the law in the United States.
Wrong. Some states have ages of consent below 18. I think Mississippi is the lowest with 15...I know that Oregon's is 18 though.
Really? Wow, I need to move to Mississippi:) Just kidding lol.
LePetitPrince wrote:
Jkrane thinks that jerky behavior is the secret key of being a girls magnet: WRONG.
Here the true combinations of being girls' magnet or not:
If you are hot and jerk ==> you can be a girls' magnet (I am not defining the type of girls in each combo, just evaluating in nbrs)
If you are ugly and jerk==> you cannot be a girls' magnet
If you are ugly and jerk but famous/successful ==> you can become girls' magnet
If you are hot and nice==>you can be a girls' magnet
if you are ugly and nice ==> you cannot be girls magnet
if you are ugly and nice but famous/successful ==> you can become girls' magnet
PS: Hot=masculine.
The bottom line ....being jerk will lead you nowhere if you neither hot or successful.
The thing is that most jerks are hot ,masculine and confident and that's why many guys think that these guys are girls' magnet because of their jerky behavior.
Here the true combinations of being girls' magnet or not:
If you are hot and jerk ==> you can be a girls' magnet (I am not defining the type of girls in each combo, just evaluating in nbrs)
If you are ugly and jerk==> you cannot be a girls' magnet
If you are ugly and jerk but famous/successful ==> you can become girls' magnet
If you are hot and nice==>you can be a girls' magnet
if you are ugly and nice ==> you cannot be girls magnet
if you are ugly and nice but famous/successful ==> you can become girls' magnet
PS: Hot=masculine.
The bottom line ....being jerk will lead you nowhere if you neither hot or successful.
The thing is that most jerks are hot ,masculine and confident and that's why many guys think that these guys are girls' magnet because of their jerky behavior.
Well, I like that you realize it's not about being a jerk.
Did you know that studies have indicated that people who fit popular notions of beauty are also (on average) more impatient and rude than others? I found that interesting. Wish I could remember the source.
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gwenevyn wrote:
Well, I like that you realize it's not about being a jerk.
Did you know that studies have indicated that people who fit popular notions of beauty are also (on average) more impatient and rude than others? I found that interesting. Wish I could remember the source.
Did you know that studies have indicated that people who fit popular notions of beauty are also (on average) more impatient and rude than others? I found that interesting. Wish I could remember the source.
I think its because they can skate by with so much more, fewer ego checks quite often means less learned self-restraint.
gwenevyn wrote:
Did you know that studies have indicated that people who fit popular notions of beauty are also (on average) more impatient and rude than others? I found that interesting. Wish I could remember the source.
I wonder if there is a divide based on how long one has been good-looking. I suspect that those who are good-looking but have not been so throughout their entire lives would be kinder than those who have always looked good and are thus used to being treated well because of it.
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jkrane wrote:
I'm really not a dick. But it seems that what's the ladies want, lol.
My buddy met a couple of younger girls on myspace.
We are gonna set up a time to chill with them, knock back a few beers (not me, I don't drink), but we're gonna try to get some action...lol.
Here's the deal:
1. Me and my buddy are tight! Bros before hoes! We call the shots!
2. Those girls are gonna look up to us!
3. We're not gonna abuse them in any way, but we'll build ourselves up, make ourselves look more important, mature, and experienced. We'll use humor that puts them down slightly.
4. We are doing THEM the favour by hanging out with them.
5. I'm not really a prick, but I'm a virgin, and horney, and I suck at relationships. So...I'll get laid the easy way!
6. We'll not call, play games, and have these girls kissing OUR asses!
I can't say I'm proud of this...as a matter of fact...I feel kinda bad.
However...
In some ways, people are like machines. They work on an input/output basis. (Basic Example: Input food, output...you know...lol)
Input (jerk behaviour)
Output (girl's respect/sex)
I'm just gonna try this, and see if it works.
I'm 20 years old, its about time I got laid!
My justification is this...
Sometimes I have to lower myself to the level of the masses, in order to enjoy their pleasures.
These girls WANT to be treated like lesser-beings. In a way, I really AM doing them the favour.
This is a very controversial post...I know I'm not gonna get a lot of praises here
Criticisms welcome! There is not a doubt in my mind that I deserve it!
I'm gonna pretend to be a narrow-minded NT for a night! I'll tell y'all how it plays out...if it even works out.
My buddy met a couple of younger girls on myspace.
We are gonna set up a time to chill with them, knock back a few beers (not me, I don't drink), but we're gonna try to get some action...lol.
Here's the deal:
1. Me and my buddy are tight! Bros before hoes! We call the shots!
2. Those girls are gonna look up to us!
3. We're not gonna abuse them in any way, but we'll build ourselves up, make ourselves look more important, mature, and experienced. We'll use humor that puts them down slightly.
4. We are doing THEM the favour by hanging out with them.
5. I'm not really a prick, but I'm a virgin, and horney, and I suck at relationships. So...I'll get laid the easy way!
6. We'll not call, play games, and have these girls kissing OUR asses!
I can't say I'm proud of this...as a matter of fact...I feel kinda bad.
However...
In some ways, people are like machines. They work on an input/output basis. (Basic Example: Input food, output...you know...lol)
Input (jerk behaviour)
Output (girl's respect/sex)
I'm just gonna try this, and see if it works.
I'm 20 years old, its about time I got laid!
My justification is this...
Sometimes I have to lower myself to the level of the masses, in order to enjoy their pleasures.
These girls WANT to be treated like lesser-beings. In a way, I really AM doing them the favour.
This is a very controversial post...I know I'm not gonna get a lot of praises here

Criticisms welcome! There is not a doubt in my mind that I deserve it!
I'm gonna pretend to be a narrow-minded NT for a night! I'll tell y'all how it plays out...if it even works out.
So; your going to get a bunch of younger girls that you met on myspace drunk so that you can have sex with them?
That sounds like a rape crime to me.
While I will not disagree that this whole thread is REALLY funny; you have no right to take advantage of younger women.
And yes- Finding random girls on myspace and acting like they are "HOoooooes for shooooo" is taking advantage of them.
This is a one-sided argument and you sir are at the losing end.
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Gamester wrote:
Kitsy wrote:
0hanrahan wrote:
Hoes is just a rhyme. It sounds good; "Bros before hoes"
There is no malcontent behind the word choice.
Now if someone personally directs the word hoe in reference to you, then by all means take offense.
I wasn't offended when another poster came up with "chicks before dicks" or "wigs before pigs".
Rhymes. Who cares
There is no malcontent behind the word choice.
Now if someone personally directs the word hoe in reference to you, then by all means take offense.
I wasn't offended when another poster came up with "chicks before dicks" or "wigs before pigs".
Rhymes. Who cares
You're a guy. Of course it won't affect you.
Also, you can look at wigs before pigs as a joke considering it's not commonly said at all so you don't get to hear it come out of a female's mouth that hates men because men who hate females and think of them as objects only will use that catchy phrase.
Here's how I figure.
There are two sets of male types in the world.
90% and the rest.
the 90% are either Neuro's or other Aspies, who pass off as NT and can talk the talk and walk the walk, but its mostly NTs, who go around treating women like dirt and hurting them. the rest, as seen by the percentile is 10% a small number, but its these types who end up happy the rest of their lives with a woman that they can respect and vice versa. Normally, with the ten percent, these women are not the richest, the most beautiful, good looking or anything like that. They are usually plain girls who have their streaks of beauty where it counts. "Humans look at the outward appearance, God looks at the inward," from somewhere in the bible, I don't remember, but the point I'm saying, is that the ten percent usually go with this. I should say that I do, because I don't go after the pretty ones, the beautiful ones, the popular ones, I go after those who have friends who they can trust and count on, not superficial fakes who are only there because they need someone like her at current. I'm one of the ten percent, and as far as I'm concerned, if more males could be like that, there would be a lot less hurt women out there having to deal with the pieces of men who are stupid, arrogant, a**holes, brainless, societal pigs, losers, and dropouts. I don't normally rant on here, very rarely, but this thread has me reallllllllllllly really really pissed off, and it sickens me to think that someone thinks that watching Television with this type of idea in mind is right, it's just wrong.
All i have to say is that you want a real relationship? Grow a brain, some balls and be friends with a girl before wanting to bed her. Might be easier.
The truth of this statement is extremely flawed.
Uh-hum, I've looked at your Myspace page and you call yourself the "Emo Ninja" and you use to put up how you described yourself as great because you have blond hair. No wonder you have a MySpace page in the first place.
Go Figure.
The fact of the matter is that there is a 99.99999998 percentage chance that you are no different from any other guy. You have just probably most likely have never gotten laid.
The way i see there are 2 types of guys in the world: The Do's and the Dont's. Each make up about 50% of the general population.
The Do's: These are the guys who get with girls. Sure; not all there methods may be the most ethical but they do indeed work. These are the type of guys who will come to the intent of going to a party and getting laid with drunk girls. It may be unethical, it may be un-compassionate, but in the end it does work. These guys are seen as "jerks" because they are seen to take advantage of women. Though I would argue that any women who puts herself in such a position is ASKING HERSELF to be taken advantage of. I'm not going to argue about that; it is also a one-sided argument; end of line.
The Don'ts: Ironically, these guys are so much different than the Do's. While they are seen as the much "nicer" type of guy than the do's and they will usually pursue a much more golden path. They won't hit on the girl who is the party girl(Who would be easy), the pretty girl, or anything like that. They try to find the nicer girl but uh-hum as far as I know unless you are asexual everyone has a sex drive.
And there are also two types of girls. I am going to label them as the Do's and the Dont's also.
As with the males; each make up about 50% of the general population.
The Do's: These are the girls who go to the party and get drunk and get taken advantage by the guys. Though in the end they sort of want to be taken advantage of or else they wouldn't have gone to the party alone in the first place.
The Don'ts: The are the feminist type of women who claim that all men are scumbags who only want sex and care about nothing else. Like in the example before; these are not much different from the do's because they also want sex. They just bash men to make them feel better about themselves and pretend like they don't have a sex drive. When reality hits them they realize they do.
You see; I find it funny how women go against men who want sex. After all; just about EVERYONE has a sex drive so they are going to end up wanting sex.
Yes; women target men just like men target women. And in the end; all other factors ignored; women want exactly the same thing.
I just thing that because men have a dick there urge to satisfy themselves by having sex is MUCH stronger.
But, disregarding all other variables men and women are exactly the same. Neither gender is worse than the other because after all we are the exact same species.
IE men and women aren't very different.
LePetitPrince wrote:
let's forget about Juliekitty and kisty and their BS crying and go back to topic.
I bet that jkrane is going to fail in his method and this is why:
Jkrane thinks that jerky behavior is the secret key of being a girls magnet: WRONG.
Here the true combinations of being girls' magnet or not:
If you are hot and jerk ==> you can be a girls' magnet (I am not defining the type of girls in each combo, just evaluating in nbrs)
If you are ugly and jerk==> you cannot be a girls' magnet
If you are ugly and jerk but famous/successful ==> you can become girls' magnet
If you are hot and nice==>you can be a girls' magnet
if you are ugly and nice ==> you cannot be girls magnet
if you are ugly and nice but famous/successful ==> you can become girls' magnet
PS: Hot=masculine.
The bottom line ....being jerk will lead you nowhere if you neither hot or successful.
The thing is that most jerks are hot ,masculine and confident and that's why many guys think that these guys are girls' magnet because of their jerky behavior.
I bet that jkrane is going to fail in his method and this is why:
Jkrane thinks that jerky behavior is the secret key of being a girls magnet: WRONG.
Here the true combinations of being girls' magnet or not:
If you are hot and jerk ==> you can be a girls' magnet (I am not defining the type of girls in each combo, just evaluating in nbrs)
If you are ugly and jerk==> you cannot be a girls' magnet
If you are ugly and jerk but famous/successful ==> you can become girls' magnet
If you are hot and nice==>you can be a girls' magnet
if you are ugly and nice ==> you cannot be girls magnet
if you are ugly and nice but famous/successful ==> you can become girls' magnet
PS: Hot=masculine.
The bottom line ....being jerk will lead you nowhere if you neither hot or successful.
The thing is that most jerks are hot ,masculine and confident and that's why many guys think that these guys are girls' magnet because of their jerky behavior.
Where do you get your expertise from then?
Kitsy wrote:
Can you not see why a female might take offense to the word HOE?
I've heard males say that dumb phrase to females who were seeing their friend for over a year. She is NOT a hoe. Guys that say that, that I've seen have problems with women in general. After it's been used in that context for so long and in front of your face, you tend to not take it well.
Just like if someone were to push you around and call you assburger boy.
I've heard males say that dumb phrase to females who were seeing their friend for over a year. She is NOT a hoe. Guys that say that, that I've seen have problems with women in general. After it's been used in that context for so long and in front of your face, you tend to not take it well.
Just like if someone were to push you around and call you assburger boy.
I agree.
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