friedmacguffins wrote:
As someone who is somewhere on the spectrum, I systematize very mundane things.
I understand that the system of patriarchy comes with a considerable amount of cultural baggage, but having a knowledge of my expectations provides a sense of stability for me.
I cherish things which may seem extraneous to other people, and, in so doing, am a good steward to them -- much more so to people who are pillars in my choice of lifestyle.
That someone may not be my moral authority does not at all imply that I'm a sadist.
It simply means that I reserve the right to dismiss implacable crazymakers in order to keep the peace.
I see a dynasty as being similar to a business arrangement, but I also associate hospitality with solace.
In my experience, it is a false form of authority which factionalizes his constituency, baits them with incompatible expectations, and then reconciles the parts on his own terms. This built-in lack of coordination is antithetical to the way my mind works, for I would become embroiled under the state of controlled chaos, which surrounded me.
I believe that the true seat of initiative should be able to coordinate symbiotic relationships, if this makes sense. Can the same be said of a belligerent shrew, who takes pride in being a troublemaker?
In all of their pridefulness, I never hear them bragging of what their fierceness has accomplished for others, except as helpmeets.
pardon?
are you saying that you dominate women to keep things stable?
if that is what you imply... it would not work in my house. if my husband dominated me, he would be heading a household of 1.
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