Do girls you like want nothing to do with you?
I know now there is nothing useful in this thread
How the mighty will fall.....
Oh wait. Protoss said that.
IN that case.
How the stupid will end up.
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You should just go out with anyone you can and have some fun and experience. So what if you aren't attracted at first, a date doesn't mean you have to sleep with them, it means keep you options open and you might find someone that's alot of fun and could love you deeply.
First off the first couple of pages were hilariously funny. Everyone with an insult in there should be comedians. Lol but seriously, I would reconsider your position. Are they really that fat and ulgy? I wouldn't know. I do have my tastes and I know what I like. Honestly it really depends. Anyhow I think these "ulgy" women are better than you realise. As long as they're aren't those weird deparate fat women, or another whom just annoys me all the time, I think they wouldn't be too bad at all. Talking about books, well I think thats pretty cool. They sound real, not like some people I know. Some attractive women I find boring really. Again it depends, sometimes the attractive one really does turn out to be a real catch as her appearance presents. Depends. It all depends but yeah if they repulse and really repluse me in anyway, physically or personallity I would not go for it. You need to be a little different. Sounds like your not really worth the trouble with the terrible attitude towards women, just try something else then if these women truly repulse you. Btw, I think blondies with big boobs to be extremely unattractive. I can't stand that silly twit who raved about KFC killing chickens. I never found marilyn monroe to attractive either and her acting came up as nothing but short. Argue all you like, I still think the acting she does to be nothing short more of "dull and plain". Anyway, you're being a real pric*. You need to open your eyes a little more. You have had better opportunities than you could possibly imagine but as I said, it all "depends".
Well, Le, if you met me -like so many others on here- I might surprise you as I am sure you would surprise me. It's easy to infer and catagorize from a few lines.
Being on the Spectrum is quite varied, as I have learned. And yes, I have wondered if I have been misdx'ed by an eager shrink. It does happen and I appreciate you pointing that out. I would like very much to think I can be NT one fine day. It would make me very happy because I am not one who has found this to be pleasant or safe or anything but a fearsome doom.
No, I have not dated hundreds of men. But as the other poster said, even an Aspie can get a date on an army base. I will give him that. And no, they are not all dating fatties. I'm not fat- quite the opposite but I am not blonde and I don't have big boobs either.
Hahaha. At any rate, I am still not taking this thread seriously! ![]()
Being on the Spectrum is quite varied, as I have learned. And yes, I have wondered if I have been misdx'ed by an eager shrink. It does happen and I appreciate you pointing that out. I would like very much to think I can be NT one fine day. It would make me very happy because I am not one who has found this to be pleasant or safe or anything but a fearsome doom.
No, I have not dated hundreds of men. But as the other poster said, even an Aspie can get a date on an army base. I will give him that. And no, they are not all dating fatties. I'm not fat- quite the opposite but I am not blonde and I don't have big boobs either.
Hahaha. At any rate, I am still not taking this thread seriously!
Hey look, if you like Burly, brutish GI's that your perogative. But DONT assume that most "hot chicks" are attracted primarily
to working class men with big muscles. "courage, fearlessness, and valor" are qualities that society expects men to have but I really dont notice most women actively seeking men with those specific qualities. I still maintain that its pretty Low-brow and low-class for a woman to think that *security* can only be found in thuggish guys with big muscles and small incomes. Educated women tend to be drawn to status, wealth, and socio-political power than to raw strength.
"Don't get all into catagories and assume you know me or my preferences."
Oh, wait- I said that back when people first started to fight in chat rooms and online.
I am a robot. I like men with muscles. I hate men who think. I want money and fame and power. I post online and expect people to know me based on a few sentences........... ![]()
Oh, wait- I said that back when people first started to fight in chat rooms and online.
I am a robot. I like men with muscles. I hate men who think. I want money and fame and power. I post online and expect people to know me based on a few sentences...........
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Oh, wait- I said that back when people first started to fight in chat rooms and online.
I am a robot. I like men with muscles. I hate men who think. I want money and fame and power. I post online and expect people to know me based on a few sentences...........
We DONT *assume* that we know your preferences, because you have specifically told us what they are. So now you're telling us that you were'nt being honest?
I know this thread is a bit old but man I needed to say that... judging from your post you almost sound like my duplicate which means our way of thinking are pretty similar.
I have the same kind of troubles with women as you described in your post and I'm sure many other men do too.
I'm poor as Hell, not so physically attractive to women and slighly obese. If I had enough money, I would definitely change a few things about my appearance but right now I just don't have the money.
If I was as rich as say Michael Jackson with a 200 million dollars in net worth or something like that then I would have way enough money to change my physical appearance for the better. For example removing my excessive facial hair with laser, improving my skin and removing stomach/belly fat, for starters, and probably also gaining some muscles.
I know this thread is a bit old but man I needed to say that... judging from your post you almost sound like my duplicate which means our way of thinking are pretty similar.
I have the same kind of troubles with women as you described in your post and I'm sure many other men do too.
I'm poor as Hell, not so physically attractive to women and slighly obese. If I had enough money, I would definitely change a few things about my appearance but right now I just don't have the money.
If I was as rich as say Michael Jackson with a 200 million dollars in net worth or something like that then I would have way enough money to change my physical appearance for the better. For example removing my excessive facial hair with laser, improving my skin and removing stomach/belly fat, for starters, and probably also gaining some muscles.
It most certainly isn't an Aspie thing.
I have a broad range of what I find physically/sexually attractive, but I have always had a special love/lust for light-skinned/mixed race girls especially curly hair, thick curvy body n legs......sorry, I drifted off. Anyway, they look something like the girl in my DP. They never showed me any interest until I went to Uni.
However, as a black guy, I seem to attract a LOT of attention from white girls. All shapes, sizes, levels of attractiveness (some pretty ones, yep), it's been mostly been them that are attracted. I'm not complaining, I like white girls too, just not as much as black/mixed race girls. I will date some white girls once I move out though for sure.
I get some love from black girls occasionally, but the ones that show interest I'm not attracted to. I'm lucky though that light-skinned girls tend to be attracted to tall, dark-skinned guys like me
All I need to do is work on myself and my life. Can be done for sure.
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I know this thread is a bit old but man I needed to say that... judging from your post you almost sound like my duplicate which means our way of thinking are pretty similar.
I have the same kind of troubles with women as you described in your post and I'm sure many other men do too.
I'm poor as Hell, not so physically attractive to women and slighly obese. If I had enough money, I would definitely change a few things about my appearance but right now I just don't have the money.
If I was as rich as say Michael Jackson with a 200 million dollars in net worth or something like that then I would have way enough money to change my physical appearance for the better. For example removing my excessive facial hair with laser, improving my skin and removing stomach/belly fat, for starters, and probably also gaining some muscles.
It most certainly isn't an Aspie thing.
I have a broad range of what I find physically/sexually attractive, but I have always had a special love/lust for light-skinned/mixed race girls especially curly hair, thick curvy body n legs......sorry, I drifted off. Anyway, they look something like the girl in my DP. They never showed me any interest until I went to Uni.
However, as a black guy, I seem to attract a LOT of attention from white girls. All shapes, sizes, levels of attractiveness (some pretty ones, yep), it's been mostly been them that are attracted. I'm not complaining, I like white girls too, just not as much as black/mixed race girls. I will date some white girls once I move out though for sure.
I get some love from black girls occasionally, but the ones that show interest I'm not attracted to. I'm lucky though that light-skinned girls tend to be attracted to tall, dark-skinned guys like me
All I need to do is work on myself and my life. Can be done for sure.
I have a total girlcrush (well not really a crush as such, I dont know what to call it, more admiration I think, on Jessica Szohr:
Anyway it is nice to know there are guys out there who like the darker girls as I am dark haired and olive skinned. Ive noticed there are certain guys out there who are into brunettes and it is just as well for me : ) .
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