Criteria for your perfect partner

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- trustworthy
- like/loving me without smothering me (yes yes gemini, its me nature)
- accepting my difference, even with other aspies (I like to be the devil advocate without really thinking that way)
- loving LRP's
...but if she would be just two of the 4 it would be good, in life I learned not to be picky.

A girl who is:
- kind, gentle and caring
- accepting of my 'weirdness' and lack of socializing
- not a chatter box or broken record
- doesn't think that material possessions are the most important thing in life
- clever and uses this to hers and others benefit
- someone with whom I can be best friends

I dont think someone like this is impossible to find, if I have to be honest the problem would be that someone like this would like me..........

Perfect lady for me:
Catholic
Liberal
Accepts people the way they are
Has epilepsy
Hates makeup, but is purely beautiful in & out
Loves to write
Must be OC about movies
Can put up with my AS and possible tics
Has tics herself
Would wear both a skirt & a pair of pants to church
Loves dancing
Would bitch-fit at my mom and my older NT sister
Likes to be part of an activism group
Kind & caring
Hates sarcasm

It varies with all denominations. In the U.S., evangelical Christians (Baptists, Assemblies of God, other Pentecostal denominations) and Mormons are more inclined to be conservative and vote Republican.

But conservatives and liberals can be subdivided by fiscal conservative/liberal (vote a certain way regarding the economy, foreign policy, etc.) and social conservative/liberal (vote a certain way regarding abortion, same-sex marriage, etc.)

Texas is half-Catholic, half-Baptist, and is generally both fiscally conservative and socially conservative. We have more Fortune 500 companies than any other state in the U.S., so we're very business-oriented. With the exceptions of Austin and Houston, Texas is socially conservative as well.

John F Kennedy was a liberal Catholic

my perfect girlfriend... would have to/be:

smart,
cute
curvy or slim, just not skeletal or overweight.
athiest, but if religious respects my views.
caring
enjoys physical relations (that's as polite as i can do )
like my sort of movies ie horror, thriller, psychological, comedy, etc
enjoy talking as well as just spending time with each other when we're not
willing to go my pace which is very slow, very fast, then a steady rate
my height-ish, anything between five foot four and five foot eight
love gaming as much as me
enjoys keeping fit without going overboard
doesn't mind staying in, likes taking me out
able to understand me.


there's probably a lot more i could put on this list but i thought it was getting a bit long.

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most people think i'm a bit strange, even abnormal. normal is the majority, the average, what is most frequent. if you lived around here, you'll see the positive of not being normal

Well I'm not going to be that picky so here goes only the musts

Tolerates cats and isn't a cat or animal hater.

Must not be involved in a fundemental religion. I'll respect if he has a faith or non-faith but fundmentalism is not something I can tolerate

Must astrologically compatible with Aquarius. There's some acceptions though.

Must have some sort of creative side. Not real into guys who are only interested in facts in figures.

Must be good in bed. (slightly kidding)

Must be able to respect my need of some space.

Must try and get along with me.

Must not be so openly discriminatory to such things as race, religion, culture, sex, and so on.

Yes they must be good in bed and they have to be good looking. Ive tried but i just not attracted to certain men even if they are good looking. They have to have charisma.

I'm good in bed... I'm on my best behavior when I'm asleep.