Worst people to have a crush on you?

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Creepy guys, I'm fighting em off with a stick

More seriously though - anyone who wants break down and mold my personality, hide me from myself because they find me attractive. I have occasionally met women like this and I count myself lucky that I can catch on to that form of toxic manipulation rather quick.

I have had two bosses who had crushes on me. Don't feel like telling the whole story..one was when I was 19 or 20..he was in his 40's and his son who sometimes worked in the same dept. was my age... That caused me to have to quit my job and I could never get another job at Whole Foods ever again.

The other was my main partner Flakey..it was very creepy...at first I think he wanted me as his "secondary" because he had a girlfriend..he had previously had 2, but one split..so I guess he was trying to induct me into their "threesome".....but I was totally naive and not into it at all...it took forever for me to catch on to what was happening and lots and lots of drama ensued..

I guess "Creepy couples".. and "bosses"

would be on the list..

there was another time a couple befriended me because they thought I was an interesting subject. I don't know whether they had intentions though...as oblivious as I can be to subtexts and such...

Add "landlords" to the list....I lived in a rooming house and my landlord was mildly flirtatious...never really tried anything though...it got a wee bit uncomfortable once or twice.

um....Mentally unstable friends....

My bi-polar Schizotypal friend had a crush on me for years that bordered on obsession...it caused him a bunch of pain and suffering...he is one of my few close friends, and I don't hold it against him or anything..

oh yeah..."Friends of Parents"
One when I was a pudgy childlike early teen...i guess this bordered on pedophilia..he would give me mix tapes of "Alternative 80's bands" and he rubbed up against me at a concert in a suggestive way. I was oblivious to the fact that he was years older than me at the time.

Later..in my early 20's i was "befriended" by a guy who used to manage my uncle's band back in the "Good Old Days"...he bent over backwards to do all this stuff for me and was always trying to take me out places...dinner..movies...etc...he helped me get an apartment...Sometimes he would seriously follow me around and invade my personal space..To the point where I would have panic attacks..I managed to deflect his advances..

So the list again:
Bosses
Creepy couples
Landlords
Mentally unstable friends
Friends of parents
add to that...

Security Guards...

How did I not see this topic before???

My dentist's assistant. Not cool at all. And she's crazy. I'm dealing with her crazy right now. She did not file an insurance claim correctly. I think she did it on purpose.

Neighbor lady... cute but about 10 years older than me.

really Really REALLY unattractive barista at my coffee shop. (At least she's got self esteem I guess. But holy hell it hurts eyes looking in her general direction.)

Several gay guys. Sorry but no.

Not sure about anyone else.