I dislike being around attractive people

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I know they can't help being attractive, but I am so afraid they might call me "ugly", "thrash" etc. It is like recieving JUDGEMENT!!

Do you people feel the same?

I dont, i mean i dont see the reason for why they should think like that, and if they DO say something like that, it just shows that they are the "ugly" ones and "trash", who dont accept people the way they are, AND, that they only care about looks.
How can you then worry about such a person?

good question, I wish I did not think they way I do in this case, it just makes me feel rotten, hope I will snap out of it soon

bdhkhsfgk for what it's worth, I've seen your picture and you. are. not. ugly.

The attractive people you hate probably think they are ugly too.

I thank you, the problem is that I have tremendously low self-confidence, and if I see a bad pic of me, I feel traumatized.

Maybe it will be better when I get to work or just get paid on government money so I can meet (PROBABLY) non-judgmental people if my look does not change into something disastrous, but I think this will better itself .

I suppose you could say I'm not attractive in any way. Well that's the way I feel about myself. I do dislike being around attractive people, especially girls, because I feel I have no chance to be liked by them.

It's not so much being judged by them, that keeps me away, it's more the insecurity from within.

I do remember an occasion, a long time ago. When I was on holiday, and this family who knew my father decided to take me along to go watch a movie with them. I had never met them before, and I'm usually quite nervous around strangers. Anyway, their son who was a bit older than me, was regarded as very good looking. I heard my parents comment about this. When I was in the car with this family (on our way to the movies), the mother and sister started praising him. "Whatshisname you're sooooo handsome", "Whatshisname you're the handsomest boy I have ever seen." The son seemed to enjoy the attention he was getting.

I was beginning to get the feeling that they just wanted to make me feel inferior. I guess after this episode, it wouldn't be much of a erroneous thought to think that some (and I repeat some) attractive people enjoy making others, who are not that way, feel inferior.

With all modesty, I am more attractive than you.

I'm willing to give attractive people the benefit of the doubt, but if they prove themselves to be jerks, I tend to disassociate from them...

HA! I rarely see any, so...

I'm afraid you are mistaken sir for I am more attractive and modest than you

Don't you own a mirror or something?

Zoinks! I'm not *that* conceited.

Perhaps a shiny car ?

No, but I get the idea that you're *that* beautiful...

Well, that makes one of us, then. I don't think I'm "all that."

I suppose I should've rephrased my initial comment: "I rarely see anyone whom *I* find attractive." Much less ambiguous (or potentially offensive), then, innit.

^ ....and bag chips