I want it back...

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it was all perfect untill last night.. I HAVE NO CLUE how it happened and why.. I can seee and so could everybody else that we were into each other.. We were acting like a couple.. hugging, kissing and holding hands all that rubbish.. Then out of nowhere she exist the party sits alone and just doing the water works(crying) saying i have not cried like this for so long. because i "freaked her out" when i said i hope you dont hook up with other guys over the weekend. Then she starts going on and on about how her ex f****d her over, how she gets distracted how she wants to take it slow abd how she dsnt want anythinh serious blah blah blah.. so we argued...and said goodbye and now i think its over and done... which sucks because we really fancied each other.. i just wish we went further.. i want things back to normal...

should i still talk to her? was it just a bad night? is she just scared becasue we fell each other fast and hard? any opinion would be a BBIG HELP

Some thoughts, for what it's worth:

I don't know which of you (if either) is NT, but from your profile I'm assuming you have some Aspie traits, so:

1) Are there ways of communicating that you are better with than others? For my part, I am hopeless in one-on-one conversation, but I am fine in email/instant-messaging.

2) Does she know about your Aspie traits? Maybe there's an opportunity to ask her to explain what was wrong, and explain your difficulties.

Don't know if those ideas help, but I hope they do.