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28 Oct 2009, 11:41 am

So I put up a profile on lavalife about a week ago, a girl who goes to my university got in touch with me and we hung out last night. She ended up staying over, we didn't have sex, just made out and stuff. She lives in residence at university and I live right across the street so it's only a 10min walk to her place. Anyways she's really cute, pretty nice, she talks a lot but that took the pressure off of me to make conversation. I don't know how far this will go, based on my first impression I don't think it will be a very long-term thing but I'll give it an honest shot and see where it goes.

I also got in contact with another girl and I'm supposed to call her to go to the gym sometime soon so I'll have to see how that goes too.



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28 Oct 2009, 11:49 am

Cool.


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28 Oct 2009, 11:52 am

yeah, I've only been on one or two dates before, never had a relationship but I'm not a virgin. I'd say this one went pretty well, at the very least it was a good confidence boost.



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28 Oct 2009, 5:26 pm

Good luck. May as well give it a go myself one of these days...



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28 Oct 2009, 5:57 pm

sounds great!



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28 Oct 2009, 6:16 pm

Sounds pretty good, that's all I would want, to have a female friend to hang out with and one I can make out with.



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29 Oct 2009, 1:36 am

Good luck :)



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30 Oct 2009, 1:24 pm

good luck. :D



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30 Oct 2009, 1:52 pm

^ Repeats.



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30 Oct 2009, 8:09 pm

Sushi wednesday with the other girl, we'll see how that goes.

Homer_Bob wrote:
Sounds pretty good, that's all I would want, to have a female friend to hang out with and one I can make out with.
The only problem is that the first girl is looking for a relationship, I'm not really ready to jump into one right away. She also seems a lot more interested in me than I am in her, not that I'm not interested in her it's just that she seems really really interested in me, or at least that's what I'm getting from our interactions to date, I've been wrong about these things before (understatement of the century)



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09 Nov 2009, 10:55 pm

I've got to break it off with her. I'm not very interested in her and although I enjoy the company I can't morally keep this up knowing what other guys have done to her recently.

This sucks, I start dating a girl for the first time, she really likes me, she's nice, attractive, and I've got to dump her within 4 dates. Anyone have any advice on how to start the breakup conversation? I'm getting a bit anxious just thinking about it.



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09 Nov 2009, 11:47 pm

just wondering, what university do you go to? cause it says you're from ontario. I go to waterloo