Breaks things for me to fix it?

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Ok, I'm stuck in one of those conundrums, where this girl knows I fix things. This is my friend who invited me to that party last week..

Earlier that week, she invited me over to fix her TV, which broke, her bedroom TV. Then from there she was thankful and repaid me in one heck of a night.

Well now she's called me up last night, and told me the TV broke again..

Is she breaking things to get me to come over, or is this just one fine coincidence?

Unless your fixer-upper skills really aren't so great, I think she's trying to get you to come over for a little "something something".

well poor you, being upset that women like having sexy sex with you.
there are worse things in the world than being unsure if a woman wants to have sex with you, like knowing she doesent.

I think you just want to brag about getting laid and you're not really confused about any "conundrum". Why the pose? I'd be much more willing to hear-Yay! I got laid. I'm so happy! People here would be genuinely happy for you just being honest about it. I used to know a guy who would come into a bar where I worked. Anytime he walked in with a big sh!t-eating grin on his face I would know. Sorry if I'm harsh, but dang!

I'm just tired of being used, and don't know if she's trying to just tell me that she does actually like me, or just for other things..

Well, if you have a repeat of the last "repair" scenario - why don't you ask her to go out? As in, "This has been nice....I'd like to take you to dinner. When are you free?" If she makes excuses and doesn't accept the date, then you're a booty call. If she accepts the date, she likes you as more than a booty call.

But ya know....since she asked you to go to a party before you two were intimate - I think your chances are pretty good that she likes you as more than a booty call. Good luck.

Ok, asked her on a date, and she declined, saying she has no interest in me.

Well, she was honest.. So, I've been used..

You were smart to ask, but I'm sorry you received a disappointing answer. (Kinda surprised at that answer, myself.) Hang in there.

Meh whatever. Don't sweat it. She doesn't deserve you. Besides, there are worse things in the world than casual sex.... like not having any sex at all.

Last time I got it on with a lady, twice, and then asked her out, she told me she'd put me on the list. LOL! I was bummed, but I also realized I was better off away from her. (But damn she was gorgeous. Tricia Helfer lookalike... I'm atracted to tall women.)

Remind me to never ask this question, at risk of destroying a casual relationship.

You people that can get casual sex are lucky.

Some of us just don't get sex often.

Send her the invoice

Got an email from her..

"Hey boy! Sorry I turned you down, I'm just not ready for anything serious right now, ya know? I'm livin life freely. I hope that doesn't change the fact we are friends. You're a fun friend!"

well I guess you know who you can talk to if you just want casual sex perhaps...

"Friend", 'nuff said. It looks like she friend-zoned you. Unless you enjoy spending time with her, start cutting back on how much time you spend fixing her things; be unavailable when she asks you. And focus your attention on women who are romantically interested in you.